Brutal Have you ever been socially excluded or been in a position where someone considered socially excluding you.?

[Clownworldcell]

Some people will socially exclude those who are not even that bad. People who get socially excluded can sometimes be the type of people who struggle with people making them look worse than they really are. Sometimes people are specially excluded as a form of punishment other times people are socially excluded because they’re seen as someone with the worst potential. They’re are all sorts of reasons as to why people get socially excluded from some people are willing to socially exclude those they don’t agree with.

 

[Pancakecel]

I've never been apart of a friendship group, so have never been in a position to be excluded. I am by default I suppose.

 

[TOP_5_KAPPA]

RI remember that at school, I was harshly excluded for my distracted and lethargic attitudes, in sports subjects or in activities where I could stand out in something, I was never taken seriously.

 

[Caucacel]

Not directly excluded but no one made an effort to include me

 

[PolnischeKartoffel]

Wherever I go people don't want to see me nearby them so

no one made an effort to include me

even when I made first steps to join anyone

 

[Balding Subhuman]

Kind of many times I guess. One time I was drinking with my buddy and we were supposed to smoke some weed, but he got a call from his other friends so he went to smoke with them instead of me, since the other guys didn't want me around. So I was left alone.

I'm just so ugly that people don't really want to associate with me. Tbh I don't blame them, because the people you associate with kind of determine your value too. Ugly people have no status and associating with them only lowers your own status. Hence, why would anyone want me around?

I don't take it personally because it is what it is.

 

[Deleted User 451254]

classic incel trait

 

[notahindsight]

Ask this in a "femcel" forum and you will get dozens of replies of how much they love their Stacy and Becky friends and are never alone.

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

Of course. One time in 9th grade, there was a group project assigned. Everyone found a group within 20 seconds because they already had friends there, well, everyone except me. Nobody offered me to join their group, so I had to go around the room and ask all 10 or so groups there were if I could join. Guess what? Not one group let me join.

That was more embarrassing than you can possibly imagine to be the only one who didn’t have friends in the first place, but to be excluded still after asking that many groups was ridiculous.

Then, the teacher (who was a narcissist foid), looked at me like I was retarded and manually assigned me a group. And the group was full of bullies. They treated me like shit because I wasn’t a member of their friend group and because back then I was short and skinny, plus had a bad face.

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

Ask this in a "femcel" forum and you will get dozens of replies of how much they love their Stacy and Becky friends and are never alone.

Yep. It’s a complete clown world that they are even allowed to complain about issues that don’t exist and we get called bad for complaining about real and life destroying issues.

 

[Jud Pottah]

and in the End, they will rot 6ft under.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

In 7th grade, the dude i considered my best friend told me "Stop following us, don't you have friends?"

 

[TheHungariancel]

Of course. One time in 9th grade, there was a group project assigned. Everyone found a group within 20 seconds because they already had friends there, well, everyone except me. Nobody offered me to join their group, so I had to go around the room and ask all 10 or so groups there were if I could join. Guess what? Not one group let me join.

That was more embarrassing than you can possibly imagine to be the only one who didn’t have friends in the first place, but to be excluded still after asking that many groups was ridiculous.

Then, the teacher (who was a narcissist foid), looked at me like I was retarded and manually assigned me a group. And the group was full of bullies. They treated me like shit because I wasn’t a member of their friend group and because back then I was short and skinny, plus had a bad face.

Fucking hell, I had this exact same experience not just once, but numerous times during high school.

The moment the teacher told the class "let's organize into groups of 3-4" my already high anxiety levels went up by 200%. My back and palms became sweaty as fuck in a matter of seconds, I started having a headache because I knew exactly that for the remaining of the lesson I will experience nothing but bullying and humiliation. And that's what happened every fucking time.

Years later in university the same shit happened during one of my lessons. I never attended that lesson again for the remainder of the semester and I actively avoid group projects now as well, even if it sets me back in completing my degree, I don't care.

 

[Incline]

Some people will socially exclude those who are not even that bad. People who get socially excluded can sometimes be the type of people who struggle with people making them look worse than they really are. Sometimes people are specially excluded as a form of punishment other times people are socially excluded because they’re seen as someone with the worst potential. They’re are all sorts of reasons as to why people get socially excluded from some people are willing to socially exclude those they don’t agree with.

water incel experience

 

[Lux]

Since kindergarten

 

[DeadOnArrivalCel]

Yes
Looking back I didn't want anything to do with such human garbage and I consider it a compliment to be hated by scum.
Generally though people have asked me why I stopped socialising and they used to ask me to come out but I refused.

 

[Emba]

Excludes me

 

[PurgatoryPass]

I got excluded so much that I didn't learn how to try to include myself and so I just sit on my own and get called weird for it.

 

[Abacaxi14]

Of course. One time in 9th grade, there was a group project assigned. Everyone found a group within 20 seconds because they already had friends there, well, everyone except me. Nobody offered me to join their group, so I had to go around the room and ask all 10 or so groups there were if I could join. Guess what? Not one group let me join.

That was more embarrassing than you can possibly imagine to be the only one who didn’t have friends in the first place, but to be excluded still after asking that many groups was ridiculous.

Then, the teacher (who was a narcissist foid), looked at me like I was retarded and manually assigned me a group. And the group was full of bullies. They treated me like shit because I wasn’t a member of their friend group and because back then I was short and skinny, plus had a bad face.

That was my entire high school experience. I never suffered with bulying but I was invisible.

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

That was my entire high school experience. I never suffered with bulying but I was invisible.

Brutal

 

[ordinaryotaku]

How I found out I was ugly early on is that I have always been the last one picked for anything when I was in school. I would consider that in some way of social exclusion.

In middle school, I was either bullied or socially excluded. I had a couple of friends, though. In high school, I was socially excluded for my first two years and eventually found a good friend group. And then when I moved for college, I became socially excluded again.