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Optional: If yes, how did she respond?
Yes, thrice
That must've been painful, i'm sorry homiestraight up tell me I'm ugly
SuicidefuelThe worst part of this situation was my friend mocking me about the rejection. He made jokes about me about what happened during the week.
After a month, a new guy came to the swim class, and the mini-foid started dating him.
Brutal.I try talking to foids but every foid always starts off with “i have a boyfriend” the second she sees me
oh I've had that one several times at least 3, possibly more I don't rememberuse some excuse like them being lesbian (one girl who said this to me later dated a chadlite jfl)
My friends already approached for me, so it's not like there was never a tryDam 40% non-initiated non-legit faggot cels here
Would not have thought that
SameI've always either gotten the "I'm not ready for a relationship" or been left on read if it was over text.
Wouldn’t that be against the rulesOptional: If yes, how did she respond?
when I was a in my mid-teens and at my best looking (was leaner compared to now, maybe a 5-6 instead of 3-4) I sent out feelers for a lot of foid profiles on dating sites and eventually got a positive response from a landwhale in her late 20s that I hit up on a site called GothicMatchOptional: If yes, how did she respond?
how did he find out?My first rejection occurred when I was 12. The girl was 13, and we were both going to swimming classes.
The worst part of this situation was my friend mocking me about the rejection. He made jokes regarding what happened during the week.
do you also hold doors for guys? that tends to help IMO like maybe a guy would recognize you held door for him once so he could say "this guy holds doors for everyone"I'm too afraid of even holding the door for a female because then they'd think I'm hitting on them.
sounds interesting, what did you try to talk about?I have approached a foid but was too high inhibition to ask her out
We were from the same swim class and she eventually told him about what I've done.how did he find out?
TBH even though I'm not into sharing, a hilarious counter to this would be "would you like a second one?" Would keep the conversation going at least another beat where she might be startled before saying "no" and you can go "okay..."Every one I've tried just tells me they have a boyfriend.
Christ dude don't fucking do that, she knows you're lying.Even with this one girl that was there when I was talking about how I don't really try to ask girls out. I didn't actually ask her out, and she still said she had a boyfriend.
My immediate response was "Well, it's a good thing I wasn't thinking of asking you out, then."
any idea how convo moved in that direction?We were from the same swim class and she eventually told him about what I've done.
and then you stop the story right here and don't tell us how it progressedone hole told me she's a sixth grader but wasn't prepared for that to not bother me at all anyway she didn't look like a sixth grader
It is not against the rules to say you approached women or discuss the results as long as the results aren't overly positive.Wouldn’t that be against the rules
Approaching is bluepilled, if you are chad you don’t have to approach.
if you are ugly, you can approach or not approach, either way you get the same result
I wasn't lying though. I built an entire reputation of being honest over the years, just ask anyone in my family.[UWSL]Christ dude don't fucking do that, she knows you're lying.[/UWSL]
You weren't PLANNING on asking her out, but you WERE thinking about it.I wasn't lying though. I built an entire reputation of being honest over the years, just ask anyone in my family.
I try talking to foids but every foid always starts off with “i have a boyfriend” the second she sees me
Some members here experienced thatTBH even though I'm not into sharing, a hilarious counter to this would be "would you like a second one?" Would keep the conversation going at least another beat where she might be startled before saying "no" and you can go "okay..."
Christ dude don't fucking do that, she knows you're lying.
Should've countered with something like "your boyfriend sounds like a cool confident guy, do you think he could give me better advice than you on how to effectively converse with women?"
any idea how convo moved in that direction?
and then you stop the story right here and don't tell us how it progressed
It is not against the rules to say you approached women or discuss the results as long as the results aren't overly positive.
Obviously if it's something like "she said yes and dropped to her knees and sucked my cock and then I came in her pussy" then yeah you can't post bragshit like that.
I don't really think that's the lived experience of most of our forum members though.
exprienced what?Some members here experienced that
“exprienced what?
Cucked world.Same
The girl told my friend what happened through internet messages. Then he made fun of me when I was alone with him in the locker room.any idea how convo moved in that direction?
I think also she invented bf, she probably had mental problems and got scared when you asked her to go out.when I was a in my mid-teens and at my best looking (was leaner compared to now, maybe a 5-6 instead of 3-4) I sent out feelers for a lot of foid profiles on dating sites and eventually got a positive response from a landwhale in her late 20s that I hit up on a site called GothicMatch
she showed up at a public library (this is where we agreed to meet, I think it was my idea) and we talked about our shared interest in Neil Gaiman, for me that's due to having read American Gods
she had hairy arms yet a lot of makeup, it was a weird contrast between being natural/artificial which confused me
it felt weird hanging in library stacks so I asked if she wanted to go walk on the grass outside the library. It seemed to me we could get more space from other people to talk in privacy
she got all defensive and asked why so I stumbled a bit and said something like "uh, fresh air and exercise?"
then she was all saying (approximately, remember this was around two decades ago in the early internets) "I get all the exercise I need having sex with men, like my boyfriend who's in prison right now but will be getting out next week"
so I realized at that point if this foid had any willingness to do anything sexual it would only be to piss off her BF because she gets off on seeing him assault other guys, so I just lost all enthusiasm at that point and waited out the clock
she mentioned something like she had a friend coming to pick her up so I just left her in the parking lot
At the time I thought maybe I came across too much of a weakling to impress her (low-inhib) but part of me wonders if somehow I came across as too assertive and high-inhib and that's what inspired her to put up an inflated wall, like what if she didn't really have a BF in prison at all?
Guess I'll never know. I'm a weird contradiction that I'm pretty low-inhib so I should be non-intimidating, but the way I stand around awkwardly and hesitate around people apparently creeps a lot of girls out too.
as though they were insulted that a LVM asked them outOptional: If yes, how did she respond?
The point is that I got rejected without even needing to actually ask her out.You weren't PLANNING on asking her out, but you WERE thinking about it.
Guys don't talk to girls about asking girls out without it occuring to them "what if I asked this one out"