Venting Has anyone else slowly lost all of their friends over the past few years?

[GucciPolo]

A few years ago I had a decent friend group, the most friends I’ve ever had, however every year since we’ve drifted further away from each other & my circle has significantly shrunk. They’ve all branched out and made new friends while I’m not able to. I don’t have close friends anymore, only acquaintances. People I can sort of call friends & talk to semi-often but I’m not close to or know well. It hurts

 

[Luxury]

Mogs me

 

[22yearoldcel]

All 3 of my close friend are incels so no

 

[JoeBruhcel]

I've never had any in the first place

 

[Luxury]

I've never had any in the first place

 

[MARTYRDOM GOD X]

Barely still in touch with the few friends I have. Would love to have Incel friends IRL, we would achieve great things

 

[Chingaquedito]

all of them betrayed me.

 

[GucciPolo]

A

All 3 of my close friend are incels so no

At least you have close friends. The “friends” I used to be closest to changed completely when they got their first girlfriend. They spent way less time with me & started hanging out with her friend group instead.

 

[Lonely4Ever]

I only had one friend and that was in High school, we were both Incels (this was way before being Blackpilled though), but it gradually turned out he was just a mentalcel (he was almost Adolf's wet dream of roughly 5'11" and blonde/blue eyed), with his dyslexia and nerdy hobbies only kinda holding him back socially, but last year, he made a shit-ton of friends and I became gradually forgotten. That was over a Decade ago.

 

[Wellington]

What friends?

I don't have friends to begin with

 

[unsettling]

you cant lose that what you never had

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

you cant lose that what you never had

Correct.

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

Yea they moved on and found more interesting friends than me

 

[Kaisercel]

Yes, I lost all my friends as we got closer to 30 yo. I went out socially ONCE in the entire 2021.

 

[Angry_runt]

All my friends started peeling off when they figured out I repel foids so hanging out with me is social cancer for them.

 

[HateMyLife]

i had some fake friends at high school but i got kicked out now i have none

 

[tomoe]

You guys have friends?

 

[FuRed]

What have I become, my[UWSL] sweetest friend[/UWSL]
Everyone I know go[UWSL]es away in the end[/UWSL]

 

[Emba]

What have I become, my[UWSL] sweetest friend[/UWSL]
Everyone I know go[UWSL]es away in the end[/UWSL]

 

[Shabba]

A few years ago I had a decent friend group, the most friends I’ve ever had, however every year since we’ve drifted further away from each other & my circle has significantly shrunk. They’ve all branched out and made new friends while I’m not able to. I don’t have close friends anymore, only acquaintances. People I can sort of call friends & talk to semi-often but I’m not close to or know well. It hurts

I had 5 close friends thanks to covid I've just distanced myself from,all of them lol social anxiety hits different after covid

 

[Miles Morales]

A few years ago I had a decent friend group, the most friends I’ve ever had, however every year since we’ve drifted further away from each other & my circle has significantly shrunk. They’ve all branched out and made new friends while I’m not able to. I don’t have close friends anymore, only acquaintances. People I can sort of call friends & talk to semi-often but I’m not close to or know well. It hurts

Yes. All increased their social circle and used it for job purposes while I was rotting. At this point most loyal friends are the old fucks of the bars.

 

[Animecel2D]

I've never had any in the first place

 

[Deleted member 38579]

had 3 groups of ''friends'', i dumped them quick when i was 18 year old, gave them another chance 5 years later, realised they were the same retards as before so i dumped them again.

 

[Ellsworth]

Still have them but the strength has diminished quite a bit so has the frequency I get to see them.

 

[Dregster]

Mogs me

Do you know about the user "Goyimwithattitude" ?

 

[Deleted member 34301]

How can one lose that which was never obtained

 

[Luxury]

Do you know about the user "Goyimwithattitude" ?

Never heard of him

 

[lemon21]

I have some left, then again im getting pretty tired of the constant mocking so maybe one of these days im just not gonna show up. who knows, it may fuck up my mental sanity but whatever

 

[senses fail]

I've noticed I have a tendency to completely shut myself out from people, just out cold. I do this to everyone. I am a normal person seemingly one day and the next I will not respond. I notice this in myself yet i cant stop. I just seem to cut all ties off, stop all communication, and just avoid all contact.
I wonder if its some sort of coping mechanism or what. Who the hell really knows?
That isn't to say i've been the one to cut ties with everyone tho. Some of the most memorable friends I've lost are the ones who were closest to me. Brothers. They were the ones who left me high and dry. Those were the ones who mattered to me most and they just up and left. Without saying anything.

 

[Evkakiy]

A few years ago I had a decent friend group, the most friends I’ve ever had, however every year since we’ve drifted further away from each other & my circle has significantly shrunk. They’ve all branched out and made new friends while I’m not able to. I don’t have close friends anymore, only acquaintances. People I can sort of call friends & talk to semi-often but I’m not close to or know well. It hurts

They just weren't your friends, there aren't many friends and there are practically none. A friend is a comrade who is with you until the end of your death. You didn't have any real friends.

 

[Deleted member 36342]

Can't loose something you've never had.

 

[tang ping]

i realised friends only exist based on the circumstance, most of ur friends u just happened to meet because they were in the same class in high school or uni. after every1 gets jobs and does their own thing theres no reason to keep in contact. noone is particularly interesting and everyone has different world views so theres no point discussing things.

 

[Deleted member 36342]

i realised friends only exist based on the circumstance, most of ur friends u just happened to meet because they were in the same class in high school or uni. after every1 gets jobs and does their own thing theres no reason to keep in contact. noone is particularly interesting and everyone has different world views so theres no point discussing things.

Yep. "Frens" exist because of mutual benefits. 99% of people WILL NEVER BE friends with someone from whom they can't gain anything

 

[tang ping]

Yep. "Frens" exist because of mutual benefits. 99% of people WILL NEVER BE friends with someone from whom they can't gain anything

they dont necessary have to gain a "thing" but more validation. i noticed from observing normies a lot of their 'friendship' is just them giving fake validation back and forth sucking on each others' dicks. for example they will talk about what they did for the weekend and throw fake compliments at each other and somehow that constitutes a "friendship". its almost impossible to find actual people that u can have interesting converations with besides the generic sports/tv/celebrity/social gossip.

 

[Deleted member 36342]

they dont necessary have to gain a "thing" but more validation. i noticed from observing normies a lot of their 'friendship' is just them giving fake validation back and forth sucking on each others' dicks. for example they will talk about what they did for the weekend and throw fake compliments at each other and somehow that constitutes a "friendship". its almost impossible to find actual people that u can have interesting converations with besides the generic sports/tv/celebrity/social gossip.

Nah, bruh, you lit have to gain something from your friends. If you don't gain anything, they're not your frens but just acquaintances with whom you just go out, meet up etc. Had such useless acquaintances.

 

[RejectReality]

i made sure no one from my high school could contact me after i graduated because i developed really bad schizoid personality and social anxiety in my senior year

 

[Dregster]

Never heard of him

Brutal ngl

 

[IceStorm]

Me