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I saw a couple of people here who tried cold approach and got rejected but I feel like they were kinda creepy and I would get better results because I am a chill guy. I don't know how to record it though but if I can figure out I will also post here
 
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No, i don't want to be seen as a creep
 
Every time I try to flirt with a foid, they always give me vague answers and I know that they don't want me; they just don't want me to be angry
 
I don’t even know what to ask these creatures.
 
Good luck, hope it goes well. When I used to try to strike up a conversation with a foid in public, they were disgusted so I don't bother any more.
 
Every time I try to flirt with a foid, they always give me vague answers and I know that they don't want me; they just don't want me to be angry
but you would have a higher chance if they don't know your personality (at least for me)
 
but you would have a higher chance if they don't know your personality (at least for me)
unfortunately i think they know already my personality just by my way of speaking (I always try to find the right word, I talk every time about subjects I love like cinema, art, nihilist philosophy, linux). I'm a complete caricature
 
I saw a couple of people here who tried cold approach and got rejected but I feel like they were kinda creepy and I would get better results because I am a chill guy. I don't know how to record it though but if I can figure out I will also post here
They’ll see you as creepy too nigga. Remember it’s only creepy when ur ugly
 
yea, and it was brutal every single time
 
Unless you're Chad it doesn't work because at the absolute minimum she'll be amused by it and maybe laugh or something.

Worst case scenario you get your ass kicked or the cops called.
 
who cares, you wont ever see them again in your life
If it some random yea sure, i'm still high inhib, but most of people i want to approach are in my environment so they would just spread the word.
 
never seen anybody do that ever
 
Yes and it didn't go well.
 
I don't know how to record it though but if I can figure out I will also post here
Why would they be comfortable with some random coming up and recording them? You're just gonna lower your chances of succeeding even more.
 
Would approach somebody that is looking at you like this: :feelsUgh::feelspuke::feelswhat::feelsbaton::lasereyes::feelspuke: ?

I don't. No thank you. I know what would happens.
 
I tried many times. Cold approach don't work if you been sub5
 
When I used to try to strike up a conversation with a foid in public, they were disgusted so I don't bother any more.
Same here. I've even had foids be disgusted with me even if I didn't try to talk to them! They get disgusted by me just because I exist!
 
Nope. Maybe I'm wrong ,but If a woman has romantic interest in a man she will approach him herself. I have been on this earth for 32 years and not one woman has expressed romantic interest in me. Safe to say I'm unwanted by most women.

Like stated before approaching women as a unattractive man is a humiliation ritual.
 
Maybe I'm wrong ,but If a woman has romantic interest in a man she will approach him herself. I have been on this earth for 32 years and not one woman has expressed romantic interest in me. Safe to say I'm unwanted by most women.

Like stated before approaching women as a unattractive man is a humiliation ritual.
You are not wrong. It's true that if a woman has romantic interest in a man she will approach first. Even if she doesn't approach, she WILL give him "choosing signals"! Hell, when I was out at a bar, I've seen foids giving heavy choosing signals (such as S-tier) at a chad-light guy! BRUTAL TO THE BONE!!!

Yes, approaching a woman as an unattractive man is indeed a humiliation ritual, and sometimes dangerous too!
 
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when i was on holiday i went up to this chick with i promise you the worst underbite you have ever seen and glasses the size of windows and she just walked away from me
 
Why would they be comfortable with some random coming up and recording them? You're just gonna lower your chances of succeeding even more.
i have to hide it somehow
 
Creepy = ugly

And I’m probably one of the creepiest men alive. If I even attempt to approach a foid she bolts off like lightning
 
Humiliation ritual
 
Back around 2007-2011 I was into pua and stuff and really put in an effort to cold approaching and stuff like that.

Literal 0% success rate. Being shot down so many times after awhile really destroys your self-esteem.

Couldn't even get a number, couldn't even get 1 singular date.
 
Same here. I've even had foids be disgusted with me even if I didn't try to talk to them! They get disgusted by me just because I exist!
Same
And it's brutal, being judged only by superficial looks
 
I saw a couple of people here who tried cold approach and got rejected but I feel like they were kinda creepy and I would get better results because I am a chill guy.
tooting your own horn is off putting and in this case disrespectful.
 
Yea, multiple times and it never worked.
 
Yeah I could tell them about my wonderful life and all the great things I have achieved.
 
I did that in 2008 when I saw a girl I fancied. I ended up getting beaten up by a load of chads.
 
yes. most brutal rejection ive ever had was a cold approach. but it doesnt hurt as much as when you think things are going your way and then the block button comes. (it always comes)
 
No because I know it's stupid. Success in cold approaching requires good looks, and I lack that.
 
I saw a couple of people here who tried cold approach and got rejected but I feel like they were kinda creepy and I would get better results because I am a chill guy. I don't know how to record it though but if I can figure out I will also post here
Lastly in 2023
 

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