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Blackpill [Hard To Swallow Edition] Many Incels Don't Seem Realize That The AVERAGE Relationship Is Pretty Much "Sexless" (Because They Don't Talk To Other Men)

How Often Do You Think An Average Looking Male In A Relationship Has Sex?

  • Once A Week

    Votes: 56 58.3%
  • Twice A Week

    Votes: 19 19.8%
  • Three Times A Week

    Votes: 8 8.3%
  • Four Times A Week

    Votes: 2 2.1%
  • Five Tmes A Week

    Votes: 2 2.1%
  • Six Times A Week

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Everyday

    Votes: 9 9.4%

  • Total voters
    96
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BlkPillPres said:
The above stat included marriages, but lets still talk a bit about that. About now you are probably thinking if you get married to the "right girl" that you are lucky enough to "ascend" with, your marriage will be filled with a lot of sex, right?
That's underrating the community. Nobody here is retarded enough to think sex is frequent in marriages. Plenty of us had married parents and could see that they almost never fucked. Or watched sitcoms where the punchline of many a joke was how little the couple fucked. It's called settling down for a reason.

The ideal is a relationship where the foid actually attracted to the dude, rather just using him for emotional support and resources, and in that scenario sex multiple times a day is possible. Just not for us since we got fucked by genetics. Most beta buxers know they're just grasping for straws rather than getting the deluxe treatment.
 
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Fat Link said:
Probably the best post you’ve ever made BPP.:feelsUgh:

Good job.:feelsthink:

I voted twice a week btw as it’s the most common number that I’ve heard normies toss around about this during my life.

That said while I don’t necessarily agree with the all of us should go buck wild on prostitutes thing I do see your reasoning for it and hey if someone is a richcel or good at haggling/bartering down prices and lives in an area where this is either legal or they know they could get away with it if it’s not then have at it I guess.

Anyway BPP the last thing that I have to offer you on this topic is the reason you probably won’t be able to sell this idea to a lot of guys or at least not right away is that I believe many of us just wanted to be society’s idea of normal ie live normal and have a normal life even if that entails getting a virtually sexless or scraps of sex relationship.

It’s a tribal passage kind of desire most guys simply cannot break free of and probably to their detriment.

I personally don't give a shit about societial expectations. My reasons are practicality (financial, legality, location, etc) and simple resentment. Foids have bullied, rejected and literally walked up out of the ether to mock and spit on me. Taxation already forces me to enable them and the OP is making threads telling men like me to give these creatures even more of my money? It doesn't matter if you're moneymaxxed or not, its the principle. Even now, foids walk by and give disgusted looks or react with anger when I ask a work related question. Yet this cuck expects me to wageslave for a chance at being tolerated by them? Why would I give money to people that hate me? I don't care how depressed I get from the lack of sex, this is nonsense.
 
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AutisticMonstrosity said:
Didn't read yet, but my normie neighbour NEET couple (no betabux at all) now has sex every day, twice intercourse (separated by 6 hours) a day, more other forms of sex. Then they can go 2-3 weeks that I don't hear them having sex. I quite often hear the woman reject ("LOPETA!!!") the man's initiations. Then they can have sex later in the day or the next day.

So in real couples (long-term relations) it can vary A LOT.
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Wizard32 said:


I didn't vote in this poll because there was no result less frequent than weekly.

I'm guessing the true average is monthly.
Monthly or less for at least 30% of married men.
Twice a week for men with gf under 30 years old.
 
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I think once a week is for married, for younger couples is probably few times a week. Marriage is a scam, you can invest 20 years into marriage and to fall apart in minutes, sex was always foid doing her part for the husband. Women cant or wont marry a guy they are genuinely attracted to, Chads doesnt want to get married and rich guys are mostly butt ugly.
 
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It all fell down said:
Twice a week for men with gf under 30 years old.
ehhhh that seems like a high estimate tbh

I'm guessing even that is once per 7-14 days
 
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I hear my neighboors having sex 4 days a week, sometimes even 2 times a day
 
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Wizard32 said:
I didn't vote in this poll because there was no result less frequent than weekly.

I'm guessing the true average is monthly.
 
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Once a week with a nice civilian girl still mogs everyone here though, escortcels included
 
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Most couples have sex a shit ton when they first get together than it peters out to once a week after a few years..

Cope if you think you would be any different fucking the same woman every time.

Hence why chad cheats because he is looking for more of a thrill.
 
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waluigi_gang said:
Most couples have sex a shit ton when they first get together than it peters out to once a week after a few years..

I don't necessarily agree that this applies to "most couples".

I think your average couple probably does it weekly when they first get together, then in year 2 it's monthyl, then in year 3 it's seasonally, then in year 4 it's annually.
 
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Wizard32 said:
I don't necessarily agree that this applies to "most couples".

I think your average couple probably does it weekly when they first get together, then in year 2 it's monthyl, then in year 3 it's seasonally, then in year 4 it's annually.
It depends obviously:smonk:

If youre taking into account an average which includes all ages than maybe

But i doubt most young, attractive couples are having sex only once a week. More like every day lol
 
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BlkPillPres said:
FIRST ANSWER THE POLL WITH THE OPTION THAT SEEMS ACCURATE
(THEN READ BELOW)




















Like I said in one of my last threads:


Now why do I bring up this whole "incels think memes are real life" thing?

Its because I often see incels speaking about being in a relationship like it'll be an American Pie movie. Like you just get a girlfriend (in these times) and its going to be an endless orgy or something

Its clear that many incels don't really try to talk to normie males and "gauge the environment", well I've spent years doing this

AFTER READING THIS THREAD I WANT INCELS TO ASK THEMSELVES, DO YOU REALLY WANT TO DATE AND "ASCEND"?


I have a news flash for you guys, I've worked at like 5 different places over the years and talked to many men in relationships, from the love struck optimistic guy in his 20's, to the broken old married (or divorced) guy in his 40's and 50's, and there isn't really much sex going around in the AVERAGE relationship (and that's not due to the men, the men always want to have more sex)

The younger guys (20's) that I talked to seem to only really have sex around once or twice a week

Not what you expected right?, because if you had a GF you'd want to go out and have sex everyday if you could (or at least 3 to 4 times a week), right?

Well I literally just googled to confirm just before making this thread and here's the data that I keep seeing repeated:

THE AVERAGE COUPLE IS HAVING SEX
54 TIMES A YEAR



So its about once per week, so I guess the responses I received from these men were pretty accurate

What a lot of you guys don't seem to get is in this new modern age where women work and get "tired" from their "work life", they have even more excuses to reject the sexual advances of some guy that they are only "kinda attracted to" (because he's average). Peoples work lives also legitimately get in the way of their "sex life" so it isn't all just women using it as an excuse, sex is now something that couples have to "make time for" because we live in such a busy and fast paced world


NOW KEEP IN MIND, THIS IS DATA FROM 2017 ON COUPLES THAT DON'T LIVE TOGETHER

WHAT ABOUT THE COUPLES THAT LIVE TOGETHER?

WELL DATA FROM 2019 INDICATES LOWER RATES OF SEX FOR COUPLES THAT LIVE TOGETHER :feelskek:



You would think since you spend more time together you'd have more oppurtunities for sex, but here's the thing:
WOMEN DON'T REALLY WANT TO FUCK THE MEN THAT THEY ARE WITH (THEY FEEL LIKE THEY ARE SETTLING)


The above stat included marriages, but lets still talk a bit about that. About now you are probably thinking if you get married to the "right girl" that you are lucky enough to "ascend" with, your marriage will be filled with a lot of sex, right?

Well no, of all the older males I've talked to (30's to 50's), YOU GET LESS SEX, maybe once every two weeks if you are lucky, and the sex is barely any good either

Here's the deal:
1. Sex gets leveraged against you to make you do favors, hang out with people you don't care about, take her out, take out the trash, etc, etc, etc (YOU BECOME HER BITCH)

2. The effort your wife puts into sexually satisfying you goes down drastically

3. Women often "let themselves go" after they have you trapped in a marriage so her body isn't even as sexy as it was before

Etc, etc, etc

All of these guys I've talked to are miserable and one even talked about being cheated on by a past wife and then remarried another woman who physically attacks him and throws appliances, pots and pans at him :feelskek:. This is why being black pilled is better than being blue pilled, despite how much you think you are "suffering mentally" because you know the truth, it will prevent you from making stupid decision in the future

I think this thread right here is very relevant to that point:

Most of you think none of this is going to matter because "I'm unattractive" well you seem to be forgetting that women are getting off the cock carousel and willing to settle for guys like us, and in a state of desperation many of you are very likely to say yes, especially since a lot of you are keeping yourself virgins and avoiding prostitution, the temptation is going to be even stronger for those guys


SERIOUSLY, WHAT IS THIS "ASCENSION" SHIT I KEEP SEEING INCELS TALKING ABOUT?

IT DOES NOT EXIST

There is nothing waiting for you in the magical "normie world" that you guys keep obsessing about, and you don't know that BECAUSE YOU KEEP LIVING OUT YOUR LIFE IN THE "MEME WORLD" RATHER THAN IN ACTUAL REALITY

MOST MEN ARE PRETTY MUCH IN "SEXLESS" RELATIONSHIPS TO BEGIN WITH


LET ME GUESS, YOU GUYS PLAN TO PUMP AND DUMP, RIGHT?
:feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:

Good luck with that
Average couple has sex 54 times a year, average Stacey would be more like 300+ times a year. Doesn't account for all the sex out of relationships that foids have and cover up
Wizard32 said:
I don't necessarily agree that this applies to "most couples".

I think your average couple probably does it weekly when they first get together, then in year 2 it's monthyl, then in year 3 it's seasonally, then in year 4 it's annually.
lmao annual sex
 
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waluigi_gang said:
i doubt most young, attractive couples are having sex only once a week. More like every day lol
most attractive young couples just met, don't live together, and it would be a hassle to meet up every single weeknight
 
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How horny are you to even want sex more than twice a week
 
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Saber said:
How horny are you to even want sex more than twice a week
I want to have sex everyday and I'd argue that most men do. The average man with the average libido wants to do this, and would do that if he could

Women are a "limiting factor" when it comes to sex, this is why Gay men have a problem of too many STDs being spread around and Lesbian women have the opposite problem of sexless relationships to the point where the term "Lesbian Bed Death" is an actual documented phenomenon with stats backing it up lol
 
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Extra-Samsaric said:
Oh yeah I remember this shit :feelskek:

If this is the shit happening to normies, Imagine if you are an incel that "ascended" lol

A lot of incels are coping, ascension is just a meme, you are either attractive to women or you aren't

For Ascension Copers:
You don't magically become more attractive with age, as men you have to build your wealth and assets up and at that point SHE WANTS YOU ONLY AS A PROVIDER AND MERELY TOLERATES HAVING SEX WITH YOU

As time goes on she'll tolerate less and less

To all the delusional incels who think they are just going to wake up one day and be able to pump and dump and not have to be in a relationship or get married to have sex, you are delusional, that is never going to happen
 
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