BlkPillPres
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Romantic Love = Physical Attraction - A bond that is induced by ones biological imperatives to reproduce
Familial Love = Genetic Preservation - A bond that is induced by ones biological imperatives to ensure that members that share their genes survive
Platonic Love (Friendship) = Survival Instincts - A bond that is induced by ones biological imperatives to survive through strength in numbers
Humans evolved all these "emotions" and "bonds" because they increased our chances of surviving. People who were "more caring" and "more emotional" had a higher "trust score" and therefore made more allegiances/pairings that lasted longer, and when those associations ended they were less likely to end in a fight or murder.
So those individuals were more likely to survive long enough to reproduce and more likely to have multiple offspring in safer communities. That's why those "emotional traits" survived and became more and more pronounced over time, as more humans who bore those traits intermingled and reproduced.
None of these things are "deep", "special" or "magical" (as much as you may want them to be).
Us experiencing "empathy", strong "sadness" (to the point of crying unlike any other animal), infatuation with those were physically attracted to, etc, is the reason why we made it this far as a species. These emotions made us bond more strongly to others, and therefore created stronger communities and partnerships.
We evolved to be "team players".
We evolved to want to like people.
We evolved to want to care about others.
ITS ALL JUST BIOLOGY.
I know how it "feels" to you, I've felt it too, but feelings don't matter. What you feel is just what your brain is using chemicals TO MAKE YOU FEEL.
A lot of you like to talk all of this "evolution psychology" shit but then you like to quietly push it into the corner when it comes to this reality. All of a sudden logic and reason doesn't matter when it comes to your mother, or brother, or sister, or best friend, or some random hole who you like to call your "oneitis", etc (a lot of you guys are really just hypocrites lol).
At the end of the day were all being USED by our own bodies, used by our own minds, to carry out its goals, were only partially in control of ourselves.
The only way to exert "true control" is to be self aware of this reality, acknowledge it as true, and act in accordance (not just be blindly led by the switchboard in your mind that your brain is having a fun time playing around with).
In a sense, from our brains perspectives, were the character in the game that it is controlling, but there isn't full control, it can only attempt to direct or divert your path, but ultimately we control where we go (if we choose).
To me, the key difference between a human and an animal, is the self awareness to realize this, accept it, and not be blindly led by your emotions and biological imperatives.
Anyone who hasn't reached that state of mind to me is really no different than an animal.
It makes no sense to place high value on these phenomena when you know full well the "mechanisms" that influence us are all just "part of the machine", and were being manipulated.
To me being black pilled is to be aware of this fact and only allow your biological imperatives to be used to your own benefit.
Its should be a give and take relationship but you dictate what is of value.
I am in no way arguing that you need to rebel against your biological imperatives entirely.
We eat food because it tastes good and we get hungry (nobody is thinking "mmmmm nutrition" when they eat lol).
We have romantic feelings towards women because of our sexual urges and instinct to reproduce.
The things that we "FEEL" are a lot more "MECHANICAL" than we'd like to admit
These things aren't going to just go away because you are aware that its all just your body "manipulating" you via a punishment vs reward system.
If you don't comply to an extent with the demands of your body you will suffer because of it, both physically and mentally. Were all essentially being held hostage within a biological existence, we have no choice but to comply.
However, what I am arguing is that you should not be so wholely manipulated to the point that you forsake logic and reason, and then try to rationalize it with "but, muh feelings ".
You should comply based on logic and reason, not emotions.
You don't eat only things that taste good all day everyday regardless of health concerns now do you? (of course not, that would impact your health and reduce your quality of life).
You aren't going to become a betabuxx or be in an open relationship out of desperation for romanticism are you? (of course not, that would be a waste of your time and resources).
Everybody feels, its biology, to let yourself be guided by those feelings is idiotic, feelings are never a legitimate excuse.
In the same way that you KNOW "personality matters" is BS based on biology.
In the same way that you KNOW "just be yourself" is BS based on biology.
Etc, etc, etc.
You SHOULD KNOW that all these bonds that you are so strongly attached to ARE ALSO BS based on biology.
They aren't as special as you treat them and no, they aren't "off limits" from the black pill as some sacred special concepts that you get to give yourself "a pass" to be blue pilled on.
They don't matter, stop clinging to them and stop endlessly chasing after them your entire life.
The black pill isn't some pick and choose all you can eat buffet, you either accept all of it or you are just kidding yourself, you can't have it both ways.
You can't whip out evolution psychology whenever its convenient, but when it comes to an issue that is sensitive to you, all of a sudden emotions matter and you stop thinking about things in terms of logic.
What is the point of this thread? (you may ask).
Well it should be obvious from the title and also obvious if you are aware of the kind of incels we get on this forum (there are a lot of them).
This thread is to address the endless complaints by overly emotional, romantically obsessed, man children, who excuse their endless pursuit of subjective emotional ideals with "but I feel X" (while ironically in other threads they'll call women illogical and emotional, so add hypocrites to that list).
If you are still chasing after the concept of romantic love despite everything you've experienced as an incel, YOU ARE NOT BLACK PILLED.
If familial and platonic relations determine all of the key choices you will or will not make in life (leaving your country, leaving your past life behind for better opportunities, etc) YOU ARE NOT BLACK PILLED.
If you are CHAINED by any emotional connection in life that will make you restrict yourself so that you can cling to those bonds, YOU ARE NOT BLACK PILLED.
You are no different from any blue pilled normie, so stop speaking about blue pillers as if you are so different.
Familial Love = Genetic Preservation - A bond that is induced by ones biological imperatives to ensure that members that share their genes survive
Platonic Love (Friendship) = Survival Instincts - A bond that is induced by ones biological imperatives to survive through strength in numbers
Humans evolved all these "emotions" and "bonds" because they increased our chances of surviving. People who were "more caring" and "more emotional" had a higher "trust score" and therefore made more allegiances/pairings that lasted longer, and when those associations ended they were less likely to end in a fight or murder.
So those individuals were more likely to survive long enough to reproduce and more likely to have multiple offspring in safer communities. That's why those "emotional traits" survived and became more and more pronounced over time, as more humans who bore those traits intermingled and reproduced.
None of these things are "deep", "special" or "magical" (as much as you may want them to be).
Us experiencing "empathy", strong "sadness" (to the point of crying unlike any other animal), infatuation with those were physically attracted to, etc, is the reason why we made it this far as a species. These emotions made us bond more strongly to others, and therefore created stronger communities and partnerships.
We evolved to be "team players".
We evolved to want to like people.
We evolved to want to care about others.
ITS ALL JUST BIOLOGY.
I know how it "feels" to you, I've felt it too, but feelings don't matter. What you feel is just what your brain is using chemicals TO MAKE YOU FEEL.
A lot of you like to talk all of this "evolution psychology" shit but then you like to quietly push it into the corner when it comes to this reality. All of a sudden logic and reason doesn't matter when it comes to your mother, or brother, or sister, or best friend, or some random hole who you like to call your "oneitis", etc (a lot of you guys are really just hypocrites lol).
At the end of the day were all being USED by our own bodies, used by our own minds, to carry out its goals, were only partially in control of ourselves.
The only way to exert "true control" is to be self aware of this reality, acknowledge it as true, and act in accordance (not just be blindly led by the switchboard in your mind that your brain is having a fun time playing around with).
In a sense, from our brains perspectives, were the character in the game that it is controlling, but there isn't full control, it can only attempt to direct or divert your path, but ultimately we control where we go (if we choose).
To me, the key difference between a human and an animal, is the self awareness to realize this, accept it, and not be blindly led by your emotions and biological imperatives.
Anyone who hasn't reached that state of mind to me is really no different than an animal.
It makes no sense to place high value on these phenomena when you know full well the "mechanisms" that influence us are all just "part of the machine", and were being manipulated.
To me being black pilled is to be aware of this fact and only allow your biological imperatives to be used to your own benefit.
Its should be a give and take relationship but you dictate what is of value.
I am in no way arguing that you need to rebel against your biological imperatives entirely.
We eat food because it tastes good and we get hungry (nobody is thinking "mmmmm nutrition" when they eat lol).
We have romantic feelings towards women because of our sexual urges and instinct to reproduce.
The things that we "FEEL" are a lot more "MECHANICAL" than we'd like to admit
These things aren't going to just go away because you are aware that its all just your body "manipulating" you via a punishment vs reward system.
If you don't comply to an extent with the demands of your body you will suffer because of it, both physically and mentally. Were all essentially being held hostage within a biological existence, we have no choice but to comply.
However, what I am arguing is that you should not be so wholely manipulated to the point that you forsake logic and reason, and then try to rationalize it with "but, muh feelings ".
You should comply based on logic and reason, not emotions.
You don't eat only things that taste good all day everyday regardless of health concerns now do you? (of course not, that would impact your health and reduce your quality of life).
You aren't going to become a betabuxx or be in an open relationship out of desperation for romanticism are you? (of course not, that would be a waste of your time and resources).
Everybody feels, its biology, to let yourself be guided by those feelings is idiotic, feelings are never a legitimate excuse.
In the same way that you KNOW "personality matters" is BS based on biology.
In the same way that you KNOW "just be yourself" is BS based on biology.
Etc, etc, etc.
You SHOULD KNOW that all these bonds that you are so strongly attached to ARE ALSO BS based on biology.
They aren't as special as you treat them and no, they aren't "off limits" from the black pill as some sacred special concepts that you get to give yourself "a pass" to be blue pilled on.
They don't matter, stop clinging to them and stop endlessly chasing after them your entire life.
The black pill isn't some pick and choose all you can eat buffet, you either accept all of it or you are just kidding yourself, you can't have it both ways.
You can't whip out evolution psychology whenever its convenient, but when it comes to an issue that is sensitive to you, all of a sudden emotions matter and you stop thinking about things in terms of logic.
What is the point of this thread? (you may ask).
Well it should be obvious from the title and also obvious if you are aware of the kind of incels we get on this forum (there are a lot of them).
This thread is to address the endless complaints by overly emotional, romantically obsessed, man children, who excuse their endless pursuit of subjective emotional ideals with "but I feel X" (while ironically in other threads they'll call women illogical and emotional, so add hypocrites to that list).
If you are still chasing after the concept of romantic love despite everything you've experienced as an incel, YOU ARE NOT BLACK PILLED.
If familial and platonic relations determine all of the key choices you will or will not make in life (leaving your country, leaving your past life behind for better opportunities, etc) YOU ARE NOT BLACK PILLED.
If you are CHAINED by any emotional connection in life that will make you restrict yourself so that you can cling to those bonds, YOU ARE NOT BLACK PILLED.
You are no different from any blue pilled normie, so stop speaking about blue pillers as if you are so different.
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