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Hard times create more stable bonds, modern boring life enables hookup culture

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Marriage rates peaked during world war 2 going down after the war ended. My theory is that when shit hits the fan and humans have to work together, these hardships create stable and meaningful relationships between us. If you have to go through a tough time together you will bond much more than living in those sort of meaningless city environments with passive entertainment, guaranteed health care, guaranteed food etc. Because we have everything and everything is safe, relationships are so unstable and quickly suffer under this modern boredom. The cope for females is then too have multiple relationships and create drama because otherwise the understimulation of modern life would make them suffer. Therefore industrial society and technology destroyed the depth of relationships. Ted kaczynski is just too right with his manifesto and it can be applied on a lot of problems nowadays. If humans actually have to work together and cooperate to survive people will be integrated and made usefull, the bonds will increase when challenges are faced and we wont sit inside being bored to death while working a boring job.

Hunter gatherers lived the good life. Relationships back then were more meaningful and there was no disconnect between tribe members. There were no supertribes with millions of people (cities and tinders give acces to those supertribes) and relationships just existed because there was no other choice.

In the end i blame the industrial revolution for almost everything may it be climate change, depression, destruction of small communities and purposeful work, destruction of the family unit, destruction of pairbonds.
 
High IQ. In prehistoric times you were always part of a tribe. Nowadays you can live in the proximity from so many people while at the same time everyone treats you like a stranger. Individualism has created a psychological hell. We live in a constant fight-flight mode. Also social media made us completely narcissistic
 
Cope, humans are always humans, no matter technology or wealth, just remember the french sluts fucking nazi soldiers. Also this is why only 1 in 17 men reproduced in ancient times. Foids and normies will always be degenerates, its their nature
 
Everyone swears they can be rich like some sort of gta online world or whatever game lets you stack in game currency and just apply it to real life. They’re so into their own ego and like status they don’t try to actually make connections. I wish I had a real life group of friends I would like hug them and be there for them
Same... I asked multiple girls to lunch in college, not even in a romantic way, but just trying to be friends with them. They all make up stupid excuses. Some people who I've known for years reject my facebook friend request and even linkedin request. The people from my original class always looked at me like I killed someone, I still don't understand it. Have never had a real life friend group during my college life, and I don't have a single lasting connection :cryfeels:
 
Same... I asked multiple girls to lunch in college, not even in a romantic way, but just trying to be friends with them. They all make up stupid excuses. Some people who I've known for years reject my facebook friend request and even linkedin request. The people from my original class always looked at me like I killed someone, I still don't understand it. Have never had a real life friend group during my college life, and I don't have a single lasting connection :cryfeels:
Its the status racers, dont even bother to care about them. College is highly competitive and a mating ground with all its muddy games. The school system im general is aimed on individuals competing and not rewarding collectivism. Instead of letting people retake classes, classes should only be able to succeed and pass together, helping the weaker ones. Of course thats not helpful for the economy so those individual racer types get rewarded. Its hard to make really good friends, especially because of globalization people move a ton of times and if you are born in a city you dont have a feeling of belonging whatsoever. I often thought you have to move to the countryside, something like sweden. Only with likeminded people of course.
 
Regardless it brings out human nature the only time people work together in a tribe is for the benefit of themselves not dying cities unshackled humans from that tribalism hence showing that humans are selfish disgusting creatures I dont want to go back to tribalism becuase people will only work together for their self interest I want the world to burn
 
Cope, humans are always humans, no matter technology or wealth, just remember the french sluts fucking nazi soldiers. Also this is why only 1 in 17 men reproduced in ancient times. Foids and normies will always be degenerates, its their nature
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wish I could die fighting for Shlomo and his globohomo agenda :feelscomfy:
 
Cope, humans are always humans, no matter technology or wealth, just remember the french sluts fucking nazi soldiers. Also this is why only 1 in 17 men reproduced in ancient times. Foids and normies will always be degenerates, its their nature
:blackpill::blackpill::blackpill:
 
Regardless it brings out human nature the only time people work together in a tribe is for the benefit of themselves not dying cities unshackled humans from that tribalism hence showing that humans are selfish disgusting creatures I dont want to go back to tribalism becuase people will only work together for their self interest I want the world to burn
If you love your wife, your children and your tribe then you work together because your loved ones benefit. Of course thats selfish but its not a bad thing. The same way your tribe cares about you and most probably needs you to survive. Western culture and society is very hierarchical and competitive, due to western imperialism this spreads to every corner of the globe. Humans do not have to be like this and werent always like this. Peaceful tribes with mysticism towards nature existed. Not anymore since the mcdonalds was built around the corner. Just look at hawaii. You want a world where you are important, loved and where you are valued. Industrial society doesnt give that to you. I understand you want this system to burn and there are reasons for wanting change. You can change your life for the better though, fellow brocels can still bond hard and go on world trips together, enjoy nature, go fishing, go diving, go enjoy technology, go to the stripclub. Yeah people reject us, but outcasts will find other outcasts and unite.
 
If you love your wife, your children and your tribe then you work together because your loved ones benefit. Of course thats selfish but its not a bad thing. The same way your tribe cares about you and most probably needs you to survive. Western culture and society is very hierarchical and competitive, due to western imperialism this spreads to every corner of the globe. Humans do not have to be like this and werent always like this. Peaceful tribes with mysticism towards nature existed. Not anymore since the mcdonalds was built around the corner. Just look at hawaii. You want a world where you are important, loved and where you are valued. Industrial society doesnt give that to you. I understand you want this system to burn and there are reasons for wanting change. You can change your life for the better though, fellow brocels can still bond hard and go on world trips together, enjoy nature, go fishing, go diving, go enjoy technology, go to the stripclub. Yeah people reject us, but outcasts will find other outcasts and unite.
Sounds greycel tbh
 
Marriage rates peaked during world war 2 going down after the war ended. My theory is that when shit hits the fan and humans have to work together, these hardships create stable and meaningful relationships between us. If you have to go through a tough time together you will bond much more than living in those sort of meaningless city environments with passive entertainment, guaranteed health care, guaranteed food etc. Because we have everything and everything is safe, relationships are so unstable and quickly suffer under this modern boredom. The cope for females is then too have multiple relationships and create drama because otherwise the understimulation of modern life would make them suffer. Therefore industrial society and technology destroyed the depth of relationships. Ted kaczynski is just too right with his manifesto and it can be applied on a lot of problems nowadays. If humans actually have to work together and cooperate to survive people will be integrated and made usefull, the bonds will increase when challenges are faced and we wont sit inside being bored to death while working a boring job.

Hunter gatherers lived the good life. Relationships back then were more meaningful and there was no disconnect between tribe members. There were no supertribes with millions of people (cities and tinders give acces to those supertribes) and relationships just existed because there was no other choice.

In the end i blame the industrial revolution for almost everything may it be climate change, depression, destruction of small communities and purposeful work, destruction of the family unit, destruction of pairbonds.
Yeah based high iq
 
Marriage rates peaked during world war 2 going down after the war ended. My theory is that when shit hits the fan and humans have to work together, these hardships create stable and meaningful relationships between us. If you have to go through a tough time together you will bond much more than living in those sort of meaningless city environments with passive entertainment, guaranteed health care, guaranteed food etc. Because we have everything and everything is safe, relationships are so unstable and quickly suffer under this modern boredom. The cope for females is then too have multiple relationships and create drama because otherwise the understimulation of modern life would make them suffer. Therefore industrial society and technology destroyed the depth of relationships. Ted kaczynski is just too right with his manifesto and it can be applied on a lot of problems nowadays. If humans actually have to work together and cooperate to survive people will be integrated and made usefull, the bonds will increase when challenges are faced and we wont sit inside being bored to death while working a boring job.

Hunter gatherers lived the good life. Relationships back then were more meaningful and there was no disconnect between tribe members. There were no supertribes with millions of people (cities and tinders give acces to those supertribes) and relationships just existed because there was no other choice.

In the end i blame the industrial revolution for almost everything may it be climate change, depression, destruction of small communities and purposeful work, destruction of the family unit, destruction of pairbonds.
Quality post..
 
LOL at thinking hard times make stronger bonds. There was much more casual violence and backstabbing in the past.
1945-65 was the golden period of America. More like prosperous men in a based society makes stronger bonds for chads :redpill:

In reality humans are still savages who will screw each other over to survive:blackpill:
 
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Some truth in this, Hard times, often equates to poverty so travel and social events suffer. This creates a lack of Dating opportunities and lack of choice. people tend to be less fussy in these circumstances bonds are important for security reasons
[UWSL]In today's western world the exact opposite is happening[/UWSL]
 
LOL at thinking hard times make stronger bonds. There was much more casual violence and backstabbing in the past.
1945-65 was the golden period of America. More like prosperous men in a based society makes stronger bonds for chads :redpill:

In reality humans are still savages who will screw each other over to survive:blackpill:
Some other member gave the perfect example with the paradise bird which lives in a low predator environment with food abundance. This made mating a big activity and females became picky (same happening with us today?). The male birds went under competition and developed more and more sex characteristics to please the females (colourful feathers etc). Isnt the modern gymster normie trying the exact same thing. Everybody training, doing nofap, reading etc. Femalse can choose and have a slow life strategy waiting for the perfect partner. This is only because we too live in an environment low on predators and with an abundance of everything. I propose that the hypergamy is even stronger because of that since there is no danger in our lifes. If you pleased your basic needs you want to have sex. Your mating strategy can be developed to perfection.
Additionally to that its hard to bond with any human because you dont NEED each other. Everyone is surviving for themselves. Thats why females became even more obnoxious cause now entertaining them became a factor. They are too stupid to realize industrial revolution makes them bored.
They literally have the time now to discuss your average lenghted dick size instead of helping survive and respecting what you do to protect them.
 
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