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Blackpill Half of my mental problems would disappear if I had friends or was outside doing things.

Wilmoty_95

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Having fun, not caring about some health ailment drawn from hypochondria, OCD, depression, and perhaps even anxiety. I have suffered with these for over 13 years now. I've come to hate being a NEET, but I don't know how to get out of the mental prison I have constructed for myself.
 
Im a NEET but feel like is should be doing something else, Used to be a wagie
but still was stuck in my genetic prison, I dont know how to get out.
 
I have a garden
 
I know that its caused by all the negative experiences, but i feel better alone. For a long time im completely invisible in any social situation and being outside. Prefer being alone, it gives me peace. Having friends and having to go outside now would make me see it as a burden and it would be mentally heavy for me.
 
I agree, luckily the people in my island are still good people (normie tier men at least), I've had a normie best friend since middle school and a group of normie-sub 5 friends. I would be way more sad if I didn't have irl friends.
 
No friends for your lack of female attention
 
Having fun, not caring about some health ailment drawn from hypochondria, OCD, depression, and perhaps even anxiety. I have suffered with these for over 13 years now. I've come to hate being a NEET, but I don't know how to get out of the mental prison I have constructed for myself.
So go touch grass Enoch
 
Im a NEET but feel like is should be doing something else, Used to be a wagie
but still was stuck in my genetic prison, I dont know how to get out.
improve your personality by not being an agecuck
 
Same isolation makes you more non-NT
 
I really wanna be outside with friends too.
 
Having fun, not caring about some health ailment drawn from hypochondria, OCD, depression, and perhaps even anxiety. I have suffered with these for over 13 years now. I've come to hate being a NEET, but I don't know how to get out of the mental prison I have constructed for myself.
There’s legit no copes for being friendless and support system less
 
Half of my mental problems would disappear if a woman gave me access to her holes :feelsdevil:
 
I agree, luckily the people in my island are still good people (normie tier men at least), I've had a normie best friend since middle school and a group of normie-sub 5 friends. I would be way more sad if I didn't have irl friends.
I'm sure you know this already, but consider yourself lucky to at least have a friend group and especially a best friend. I haven't had a true friend in over 5 years. The loneliness gets absurd sometimes.
 
I'm sure you know this already, but consider yourself lucky to at least have a friend group and especially a best friend. I haven't had a true friend in over 5 years. The loneliness gets absurd sometimes.
It does get stupid, doesn't it?

Like, because I am so lonely, my brain creates problems (real or imagined) that tarnish my entire week. Loneliness is the sole vector of my mental problems I feel, and feeling like I don't matter - or that nobody cares about me outside of immediate family. Even then, all my mother does is talk about peripheral dramas at work and then shouts at me whenever I express my OCD fears or anxieties.

Sometimes I wonder what I have to do to get people to pay attention.
 
It does get stupid, doesn't it?

Like, because I am so lonely, my brain creates problems (real or imagined) that tarnish my entire week. Loneliness is the sole vector of my mental problems I feel, and feeling like I don't matter - or that nobody cares about me outside of immediate family. Even then, all my mother does is talk about peripheral dramas at work and then shouts at me whenever I express my OCD fears or anxieties.

Sometimes I wonder what I have to do to get people to pay attention.
Yeah, it does get ridiculous. Loneliness causes most of my mental problems too. It makes me depressed, fucks up my sleep, and even makes my OCD worse. I've had severe OCD since age 8 that has been chewing away at me for almost 12 years. The loneliness without a doubt makes every single thing worse. Basically nobody cares about me other than my immediate family. I don't even think my parents realize how abnormal it is to be a 19 year old who rots in his room and has no close friends plus never had a gf.
 
Yeah, it does get ridiculous. Loneliness causes most of my mental problems too. It makes me depressed, fucks up my sleep, and even makes my OCD worse. I've had severe OCD since age 8 that has been chewing away at me for almost 12 years. The loneliness without a doubt makes every single thing worse. Basically nobody cares about me other than my immediate family. I don't even think my parents realize how abnormal it is to be a 19 year old who rots in his room and has no close friends plus never had a gf.
I'm 23 going on 24 this year, it hasn't gotten better for me.
 
I'm 23 going on 24 this year, it hasn't gotten better for me.
I’m sure it won’t get any better for me either. It has only gotten worse each passing year for a long time now.
 
My peak loneliness started in early high school since then I’ve had zero friends apart from a few online, I don’t count on this changing anytime soon.
 
Same



That’s like 80% of this form
 
I really wanna be outside with friends too.
Yes, precisely this.

I think most of us would be normal, well-adjusted people if we had community. I've worked for free at a construction company because I was so desperate for social connection, but it ultimately went nowhere.

Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs.

People burn villages down to feel the warmth etc.
 
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Yes, precisely this.

I think most of us would be normal, well-adjusted people if we had community. I've worked for free at a construction company because I was so desperate for social connection, but it ultimately went nowhere.

Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs.

People burn villages down to feel the warmth etc.
:feelsbadman: :feelsbadman: I feel you man
I’m so isolated
 

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