To be honest, I welcome any movement that brings to light the very real issue with dating inequality in society.
The problem with these "positivity incel" movements, inceltears, MGTOW, foreveralone etc. is that they DONT.
And they don't see that saying "it's all a choice" is the exact opposite of what needs to happen.
In China, there are millions of involuntary celibate men due to demographics. Millions. You can't just say to them, "it's all a choice bro" because even if they take nine showers a day and have great personalities, THERE ARE TOO MANY MEN.
The make-believe, woo-woo, self-help bullshit ignores the real problem when the reality is that when ten million disenfranchised men have nothing to lose, things tend to get horrific.
And that's what we're looking at. People aren't getting married. Women aren't having children. Men are ending up incels or going their own way and otherwise dropping out of society.
Society needs them to function.
Also, society is vulnerable because when a certain amount of men realise they're never getting what they want, shit gets really ugly.
And this is what we're heading towards.
The real answers lie in REINING THIS SHIT IN. They lie in reversing the consumerist, commoditised sexual practices of the last twenty-fifty years. They require everyone to live a less decadent way of life. (and I mean decadence in wide terms. for chads and stacys, it's stop fucking everything that moves until you get syphillis or otherwise are worn out and want autistic downs kids at 45. For incels, it's stop LDARing with pizza every night.)
The big problem with "but it's a choice!" thing is that IT FUCKING ISN'T A CHOICE. IT'S IN THE NAme INCEL.
You can be a "poscel" all you like, but that doesn't change the fact that the sexual marketplace is massively skewed against you and getting worse.
It's like people who are "positive" about the economy even when there's spiralling debt and living costs are out of control. "muh millenials aren't buying houses!" is ok until you realise that the numbers are FUCKED and we're heading towards an economic collapse and no amount of positive thinking is going to erase the fact that THERES NO FUCKING MONEY LEFT.