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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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I was always a loner with no friends, so I found the whole "groups of friends who always hang out together" thing very different from my experience.

Anyway, recently I read some reddit posts, and it turns out people have these kinds of things, until the age of ~23 when they finish uni. From highschool to uni is where it's at.

After that, most people report being vastly more antisocial and never actually making any new friends, and drifting apart from their old friends for their jobs and to start a family.

So, not only have I never experienced love, sex or affection, it's too late to get friends too.
 
You don't miss that much. If you have no value in your group of friends, you'd be their bitch.
 
i only have like two friends left. one that pisses me off and who id be fine with never seeing again and the other is a real friend ill probably have forever. my parents both have like 1 or 2 friends they see consistently and it seems most adults are like that after college/high school.
 
"groups of friends" are just social cliques where few low status males do everything they can to impress leader of the group and boost their status
 
it's too late to get friends
it is.
I've had some based friends in Uni but they all ghosted me sooner or later after they became pussy-slaves.
it's always sad to see someones life being controlled by a vagina.
 
I had a small group of friends in school, don’t have anything like that anymore. I’m all alone.

At least I got to experience friendship, some here didn’t have that luxury.
 
I have like 2 specifically because of online gaming
 
I always isolationmaxxed, i don't like to be with people.
Mpv shot0674
 
I don't like the hierarchies that form in groups of more than two people, the bullshit social games, the one upping. It's easier to understand and truly connect with people online, but sadly our brains don't treat this the same as irl interaction.
 
I actually do have maybe 3 good friends and some acquintances
 
I never really fitted into a group. Just always lonely
 
this is kind of true, man. you'll notice that the friends groups of older people (past 23 like you said) have this......"tryhard" quality to them, like they're barely hanging by a thread, there's a reason for that, they're going against the grain

it is so over if your high-energy optimistic phase has ended, and you still haven't met your romantic and professional goals......so fucking over.....
being gaslighted over this extremely simple concept caused me enormous pain last year
 
We missed what was supposed to be the best point of life.
 

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