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Serious Going without sex for months isn't just frustrating, it's devastatingly bad for your health (evidence)

Foids have a mental breakdown if they go without chad cock for 3 weeks, but us? We're fucking ruined.
 
I guarantee that if your mother went without love, romance, intimacy, social interaction and sex for her whole life, she wouldn't have said that non-sense she told you in those quotation marks.
exactly. also she's 60 and divorced for 5 years now. problem is she can feel empathy for other men my age (overheard it) but not for her son. she thinks I have autism and only want a gf bc I saw it on tv or some shit JFL. Knowing her she thinks I'm in an autistic "phase" which will pass in 2-3 yrs. It's all just one BIG FAT COPE.
basically she's not taking me seriously at all and this both angers and saddens me.
 
exactly. also she's 60 and divorced for 5 years now. problem is she can feel empathy for other men my age (overheard it) but not for her son. she thinks I have autism and only want a gf bc I saw it on tv or some shit JFL. Knowing her she thinks I'm in an autistic "phase" which will pass in 2-3 yrs. It's all just one BIG FAT COPE.
basically she's not taking me seriously at all and this both angers and saddens me.
I see. My mom is always asking me why I don't have a gf, I explain to her that it is because of my looks, but she doesn't belive me. My parents think I am weird for not having a girlfriend, and they think I am making excuses
 
I see. My mom is always asking me why I don't have a gf, I explain to her that it is because of my looks, but she doesn't belive me. My parents think I am weird for not having a girlfriend, and they think I am making excuses
"Funny" bc I just thought before: I should have told her, most moms ask their sons why he doesn't have a gf, but my mother tries to talk me out of it (she admitted it would be good for her if I have a gf, she'll have less work and I won't always be at home). But yeah I regret not telling her that I might get a chance one day
 
If you can't get something, learn to live without, don't cry after it every day. Do whst you can to obtain it
 
You have to just learn to live with it :soy:
 
You have to just learn to live with it :soy:
Homer hang 1
 

@asocialcel
 
Sex is a human need and soicety should ensure everybody gets it
 
Once again, sex is a primary need. As if Maslow didnt' illuminate this fact for us all already.
 
it "hurt"? WDYM ? You mean, you knew you'd not experience it again? I'm 26 and a KHHV still
Hard to explain. Maybe I'm just not used to females touching me lol.
 
We get 2 Sunday newspapers every Sunday and my mother reads both. I'll send the newspapers these articles, suggest it as an idea for an article. And we get a daily newspaper but nobody ever touches it kek




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I've gone without sex for 28 yrs :feelsrope::feelsrope:
 
my mother:
- "you can be happy without a relationship, many people are, like our neighbour" [one of our neighbour's, who I suspect is a 40-year old asexual or even lesbian]
- "there's much more to life than being in a relationship. Plus it won't make you less depressed."
- "so many people's lives are destroyed by relationships. You'll be hurt a lot."
-"women, especially the GL ones, cheat."
-"you're putting relationships on a pedestal, it's never as good as you think it is."
-"friends are more important than having a gf."

She doesn't believe a sixth of the things she says, she tells herself she means well, as I, her son, cannot get a gf anyway. So she's trying to convince me not to want one (as like I said, I can't have one because of my face and weirdness). But I want her to understand, I won't let myself be manipulated, even if I wanted to.

(She also doesn't feel sorry for her own son who is lonely and can never get a gf, she tells herself that's how it has always been and that I'm used to it, at 26 years old. But for anyone else she has expressed empathy A LOT.)
Women always judge things by themselves. She cannot understand your perspective.
They think: "if I can live without relationships for a prolonged time, why men can't?".
Or 'I'm doing this or that and acting in a certain way, why men can't '.
But if men start acting identically to her, they will be seen as a faggots and sissies. But women don't care about men being seen as fags or sissies because them acting in such a way doesn't bring social ostracism and disgust primarily from the opposite sex.
They are too solipsistic to see things from others perspective.
 
We get 2 Sunday newspapers every Sunday and my mother reads both. I'll send the newspapers these articles, suggest it as an idea for an article. And we get a daily newspaper but nobody ever touches it kek




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I'm good. I jerk off 3x times a day. I have more orgasms than Chad.
 
you sound like an IT infiltrator
I am not, but i had some life expiriences. Anyways, if you had no libido you wouldn't even care about foids or sex and you could live your life fully uninterested in them. I am not saying you should take anaprodisiacs, but do what you can in life, don't spend all your time crying about what you currently can't. In time, you might get what you want by doing what you can to live your life and improving what you can instead of constantly being depressed.

Even if there is really no hope for you, even then it makes no sense to cry after what you can't have, as it makes no difference and only wastes your life, no matter how stupid your existance is.

Saying sex is needed for life while not having it is mental suicide. Saying you can't live without sex, but if there is no sex for you, it means you ceased to live right there. Find a way to have sex you care about or just find a way not to care about it if you can't, but don't spend all your life crying, as it is the habit that will kill you minute by minute if you don't stop yourself somehow and pull out of it.
Rather research every option you have to fix your condition, or do everything to have better options in future, but don't let your whole existance becomes being a slave to pussy and women that don't care about your existance. Either find a way to get what you want or find a way to stop caring.
 
Pretty sure if i could smell a teenage girls butt daily Id be happier ded srs
 
I am not, but i had some life expiriences. Anyways, if you had no libido you wouldn't even care about foids or sex and you could live your life fully uninterested in them. I am not saying you should take anaprodisiacs, but do what you can in life, don't spend all your time crying about what you currently can't. In time, you might get what you want by doing what you can to live your life and improving what you can instead of constantly being depressed.

Even if there is really no hope for you, even then it makes no sense to cry after what you can't have, as it makes no difference and only wastes your life, no matter how stupid your existance is.

Saying sex is needed for life while not having it is mental suicide. Saying you can't live without sex, but if there is no sex for you, it means you ceased to live right there. Find a way to have sex you care about or just find a way not to care about it if you can't, but don't spend all your life crying, as it is the habit that will kill you minute by minute if you don't stop yourself somehow and pull out of it.
Rather research every option you have to fix your condition, or do everything to have better options in future, but don't let your whole existance becomes being a slave to pussy and women that don't care about your existance. Either find a way to get what you want or find a way to stop caring.
My libido is very weak but I'm still attracted to females if they have a desirable bodies and I used to masturbate for many years.
 
Evidence that we should be able to punish the people who deprive us of this.
 
why does an article need to tell me this? I have known this for years. Feels like these news corps are just trying to stir the pot and make people more sexually driven. " waaa i havent had sex with chad for 1 month, i dont wanna be a loser like this article is saying, time to ring chad up and get my fuck teehee"

also they are acting like a few months is a big deal, YEARS is what is fucking painful
 
"Going without sex for months" :lul: :feelsclown:
What about decades? Im closing in on 2 decades counting from the point I hit puberty
 
29 KHHV it ain't easy that's for damnn sure
 
Wow so a lifetime without sex must be really suicidefuel :waitwhat: :waitwhat: :waitwhat:
 
"months" TRY TWENTY ONE FUCKING YEARS
 
Touch starvation only was a problem for me until I whoremaxxed.
 
Are you going that route anytime you feel the need to be touched?
Its not like that. I never experience touch starvation anymore. Not even when I do without whoremaxxing for months. Either I am hardened or broken. That is probably subjective.

Before I whoremaxxed I was 24 y.o. virgin and finally started doing somewhat better in life, so relationship sphere briefly turned to be my number 1 priority. Tinnitus and insomnia reduced me to simpleton, susceptible to this idea that I can just hug it out with foid and feel some relief. At the same time I was thinking that I am high IQ and mentally strong, so I reasoned feeling like this should be beneath me. I acknowledged that I failed to rationale out of this "touch starvation" problem, that suddenly became so hard to endure. So next rational solution was visiting prostitute.
 

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