Discussion Going to college feels extremely lonely,

[Logic55]

My next semester starts this month. I really don't want to go back. It feels awfully lonely there. I wake up, take the bus alone, then arrive at the train station, wait 40 minutes for the train to arrive then it drops me off on the University campus. I go to class sit there and listen to professor speak about boring topics for an hour, then I eat lunch alone. After lunch, I sit alone on a bench for another hour. Then I arrive to my 2nd class. After 2nd or 3rd class. I walk to train stop, and sit alone for 30-40 minutes minutes to wait for the train to arrive.

The train drops me off to the Bus station, and I sit alone on the bus for almost an hour as it takes me home. I go home and rot in my bed. After rotting in my bed, I wake up eat, and do tedious/mundane homework assignments. If I have free time, I play video games or browse incel forums. I repeat this cycle for about 5 months until my semester ends and its vacation.

I hate the feeling of waking up and feeling so alone. When I'm sitting alone in my library or in the University garden area, I feel so empty inside. Its as if theres a giant black hole inside my heart. I can feel my heart burn as I sit alone and see students my age with their partners and hanging out with their friends. I'm an outcast. At least I have this community to rot with. Do you guys feel the same way about college?

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

no interaction at all with other students? usually i found at least one other loser to be my friend

obviously if you are a normie you would have 50 friends including outside your own classes JFL

 

[Logic55]

no interaction at all with other students? usually i found at least one other loser to be my friend

I have zero interaction with other students. I have an incel friend who goes to the same college but I rarely see him.

 

[LeonTheSilent]

In my time college was exhaustive. I went from my job to home and from home to college and back home. Many times i was so tired that i just slept in the libary. By the last two years i was a zombie. I was to worn out to think.
But seeing people together, especially couples, was killing me to a point that sorrow became a literal pain in my chest.

Loneliness hits more brutally when you are amongst multitudes. But it will end eventually ( college, not loneliness). When you get a new job you'll also get new things to worry about, so you'll have less time to feel anything at all. Crazy as it seems some problems are actually good copes. One pain will distract you from another.

STAY STRONG FELLOW-DUDE

 

[Logic55]

In my time college was exhaustive. I went from my job to home and from home to college and back home. Many times i was so tired that i just slept in the libary. By the last two years i was a zombie. I was to worn out to think.
But seeing people together, especially couples, was killing me to a point that sorrow became a literal pain in my chest.

Loneliness hits more brutally when you are amongst multitudes. But it will end eventually ( college, not loneliness). When you get a new job you'll also get new things to worry about, so you'll have less time to feel anything at all. Crazy as it seems some problems are actually good copes. One pain will distract you from another.

STAY STRONG FELLOW-DUDE

I appreciate it

 

[LeonTheSilent]

I appreciate it

Together we stand.
But what course are you on ?

 

[Logic55]

Together we stand.
But what course are you on ?

What do you mean by "course"?

 

[Internalizzz]

I get up and attend 2 classes at college, go home, eat a quick snack and go to work, i’d never be able to achieve my leanmaxxing goals at this rate .. i’m a fat loser who’s also as alone as the rest of you collegecels

 

[Logic55]

I get up and attend 2 classes at college, go home, eat a quick snack and go to work, i’d never be able to achieve my leanmaxxing goals at this rate .. i’m a fat loser who’s also as alone as the rest of you collegecels

Absolutely brutal

 

[Internalizzz]

Absolutely brutal

very much so, any advice?

 

[LeonTheSilent]

What do you mean by "course"?

I mean your college course. The main focus of your classes.

 

[Internalizzz]

I mean your college course. The main focus of your classes.

data science with a minor in econ

 

[Eminemshalfbrother]

What do you mean by "course"?

What’s your major

 

[Logic55]

What’s your major

Literature

 

[Internalizzz]

Literature

bruh

 

[decembrist_kirillov]

mY COLLEG E LIFE

 

[lifeisfucked215]

 

[Revocyn]

Its the same for me but I don’t really relate to it being a bad thing tbh. Anything is better than staying in my home all day. I like the independence and being able to do my own thing, having to deal with forced group work or projects in school really made me hate talking to my classmates.

 

[geekpuk2]

My next semester starts this month. I really don't want to go back. It feels awfully lonely there. I wake up, take the bus alone, then arrive at the train station, wait 40 minutes for the train to arrive then it drops me off on the University campus. I go to class sit there and listen to professor speak about boring topics for an hour, then I eat lunch alone. After lunch, I sit alone on a bench for another hour. Then I arrive to my 2nd class. After 2nd or 3rd class. I walk to train stop, and sit alone for 30-40 minutes minutes to wait for the train to arrive.

The train drops me off to the Bus station, and I sit alone on the bus for almost an hour as it takes me home. I go home and rot in my bed. After rotting in my bed, I wake up eat, and do tedious/mundane homework assignments. If I have free time, I play video games or browse incel forums. I repeat this cycle for about 5 months until my semester ends and its vacation.

I hate the feeling of waking up and feeling so alone. When I'm sitting alone in my library or in the University garden area, I feel so empty inside. Its as if theres a giant black hole inside my heart. I can feel my heart burn as I sit alone and see students my age with their partners and hanging out with their friends. I'm an outcast. At least I have this community to rot with. Do you guys feel the same way about college?

If this is hell, wait until you enter the workforce.

Total misery for submales.

Gotta wageslave to pay back them Jew student loans

 

[geekpuk2]

Literature

My dude

Better dropout now. A life of misery awaits you.

 

[Logic55]

If this is hell, wait until you enter the workforce.

Total misery for submales.

Gotta wageslave to pay back them Jew student loans

I have enough money in my bank account to pay off my loans

 

[Hoppipolla]

I'll outline briefly what happened when I went to uni.

- I got dragged out for a night or two on fresher's week by a couple of girls from my dorm
- I met a friend I clicked with while I was out
- We basically hung out just me and him for the rest of the time, lol

Probably I shouldn't have done it that way - I should have made more of an effort. We did go out a bit but... I dunno. I get a bit comfortable I guess and find it hard to meaningfully engage with the rest of the world.

I think it would have helped if I'd done a different course. Most people on my course weren't really like me.

 

[StepyAkermanskie]

Yeah, it' especially brutal if other people don't want to socialise with each other because they already have some friends, so you can only small talk with them

 

[Logic55]

Yeah, it' especially brutal if other people don't want to socialise with each other because they already have some friends, so you can only small talk with them

This is exactly why it is nearly Impossible to make friends at college or university, almost everyone has a circle of friends. When you engage in a conversation with one of them, they only talk to you in class, and not out of class.

 

[1nsomniak]

I moved back the 2nd week of January. Though, I stay on campus so I'm close by. I don't know if accommodation is an option for you but that may be it. If you're living on campus, you'd make some friends during the orientation at least that's what I did. I have one main friend and like two partial friends and some acquaintances. It does feel lonely a lot though but I think if you live on campus, it's different cause you can go out and do stuff with the people around you

 

[mlcurrycel]

My next semester starts this month. I really don't want to go back. It feels awfully lonely there. I wake up, take the bus alone, then arrive at the train station, wait 40 minutes for the train to arrive then it drops me off on the University campus. I go to class sit there and listen to professor speak about boring topics for an hour, then I eat lunch alone. After lunch, I sit alone on a bench for another hour. Then I arrive to my 2nd class. After 2nd or 3rd class. I walk to train stop, and sit alone for 30-40 minutes minutes to wait for the train to arrive.

The train drops me off to the Bus station, and I sit alone on the bus for almost an hour as it takes me home. I go home and rot in my bed. After rotting in my bed, I wake up eat, and do tedious/mundane homework assignments. If I have free time, I play video games or browse incel forums. I repeat this cycle for about 5 months until my semester ends and its vacation.

I hate the feeling of waking up and feeling so alone. When I'm sitting alone in my library or in the University garden area, I feel so empty inside. Its as if theres a giant black hole inside my heart. I can feel my heart burn as I sit alone and see students my age with their partners and hanging out with their friends. I'm an outcast. At least I have this community to rot with. Do you guys feel the same way about college?

Yeah, it was the same for me as well

 

[Vendetta]

college is basically just reliving highschool again

 

[Gendocel]

college is basically just reliving highschool again

You got to be masochistic if you do that to yourself

 

[Grim_Reaper]

I only have one friend in my uni, and he was from my hs jfl.

 

[Friezacel]

You got a drivers license ?

 

[Restart80]

Holy shit your commute is horrendous.

 

[Logic55]

You got a drivers license ?

Nope. Ill get a car when I graduate

 

[gotet]

May you muster the strength to get through this Bro. I'm counting on you!

 

[Logic55]

May you muster the strength to get through this Bro. I'm counting on you!

Thank you

 

[Chingaquedito]

If this is hell, wait until you enter the workforce.

Total misery for submales.

 

[Logic55]

I can tolerate a 9-5 job as long as there is no females

 

[curryboy420]

- I got dragged out for a night or two on fresher's week by a couple of girls from my dorm

???

 

[Hoppipolla]

???

lol I didn't have sex with either of them.

 

[UglyDumbass]

My next semester starts this month. I really don't want to go back. It feels awfully lonely there. I wake up, take the bus alone, then arrive at the train station, wait 40 minutes for the train to arrive then it drops me off on the University campus. I go to class sit there and listen to professor speak about boring topics for an hour, then I eat lunch alone. After lunch, I sit alone on a bench for another hour. Then I arrive to my 2nd class. After 2nd or 3rd class. I walk to train stop, and sit alone for 30-40 minutes minutes to wait for the train to arrive.

The train drops me off to the Bus station, and I sit alone on the bus for almost an hour as it takes me home. I go home and rot in my bed. After rotting in my bed, I wake up eat, and do tedious/mundane homework assignments. If I have free time, I play video games or browse incel forums. I repeat this cycle for about 5 months until my semester ends and its vacation.

I hate the feeling of waking up and feeling so alone. When I'm sitting alone in my library or in the University garden area, I feel so empty inside. Its as if theres a giant black hole inside my heart. I can feel my heart burn as I sit alone and see students my age with their partners and hanging out with their friends. I'm an outcast. At least I have this community to rot with. Do you guys feel the same way about college?

Yeah it’s a pain. No one wants anything to do with us and everyone is out there hanging out with others while we rot alone

 

[Bruce_Bonepresser]

The worst part about it was seeing everyone else my age having the stereotype college experience like sitting in groups on the lawn between classes etc while I was never approached by anyone or invited to groups and was mostly just avoided

 

[SupremeGentleCel]

Ah... ok so luckily NEETmaxxers aren´t the only ones

 

[Logic55]

Yeah, I used to have some good friends in school, not in college though (partly due to my own neglect and LDARmaxxing tbh).

Are you a sperg? It's a big problem for spergs.

No, I'm a neurotypical

 

[Grotesque Deformity]

no interaction at all with other students? usually i found at least one other loser to be my friend

Mogs me to outer space and back.

 

[thespanishcel]

You reminded me of my uni years tbh but at least in uni there's so many people nobody cares about who you are or if you're lonely. While in high school everyone knows each other so if you're lonely you're classed as the weirdo loser.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

Mogs me to outer space and back.

there were always at least 3-4 incels in all of my classes at all education levels

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

You reminded me of my uni years tbh but at least in uni there's so many people nobody cares about who you are or if you're lonely. While in high school everyone knows each other so if you're lonely you're classed as the weirdo loser.

yes and you're classed as the weirdo loser on like day 2 max jfl, so much for not judging a book by its cover