Soy "Getting a girlfriend wouldn't magically make your problems go away"

[WastedPotential]

Yes, yes it would.

So often you'll come across retards making this argument that if you managed to obtain a girlfriend you wouldn't automatically live a better life or you wouldn't magically fix the problems in your life.

I disagree with that argument. Because if I managed to get a girlfriend, I would no longer have to feel shame everytime I watch porn or goon. I would have someone that would support me during my lows, It would significantly increase my quality of life. I'd have something to look forward to every day.

But alas.

 

[goyim next door]

If getting a gf/bf doesn't mean shit, then how about these faggots drop their relationships right now and enjoy other aspects of life since "sex is not everything" according to them?

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

I think that it would have fixed my problems if it happened in HS or at 21 in college the latest, but now too much damage was done.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Yes, it would, and I know it without any doubt.

Although, qualifier, the female needs to actually love me and find me attractive. Not the typical arrangement every ugly guy has.

 

[Soystein]

Not having a GF is my only problem.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

If I get a gf I wouldn't become a bluepilled retard thinking everything is only sunshine and rainbows.

It would not erase all the bad experiences you had in this world.

You would stay in the constant fear that she cheats on you and/or that she leaves you. You would have to stay alert all the time.

 

[Giracel]

TRVTH in every word of this post…

Moreover, people who say things like this are often extremely privileged and have all the sex and companionship they could want. They should be deprived of this for a number of years, and then we can see if they will continue spouting off such nonsense.

 

[anon65]

If getting a gf/bf doesn't mean shit, then how about these faggots drop their relationships right now and enjoy other aspects of life since "sex is not everything" according to them?

 

[fatass30000]

honestly i’m so irreparably fucked up mentally that i don’t think it would. Have any of you had depression for long enough that you basically become numb? Even if i got one i don’t think i would feel any happiness. I don’t think i would feel happiness if i won the lotto and im broke as shit.

 

[Caichan]

Normies worship romance and then downplay it when we also want it

 

[fatass30000]

It would not erase all the bad experiences you had in this world.

You would stay in the constant fear that she cheats on you and/or that she leaves you. You would have to stay alert all the time.

that’s what i think too. Some of us are beyond saving at this point, our bad experiences have heavily shaped us as people and they would not go away with us getting a gf. A lot of us are also very deeply insecure about our appearance and our worth as members of society and that would not disappear with us getting a gf.

 

[WastedPotential]

honestly i’m so irreparably fucked up mentally that i don’t think it would. Have any of you had depression for long enough that you basically become numb? Even if i got one i don’t think i would feel any happiness. I don’t think i would feel happiness if i won the lotto and im broke as shit.

For me my depression comes in waves, but it's a downward trend. I think if I had a girlfriend I would still be having ups and downs but it would no longer be a downward trend and I would perhaps in the long term become more happy.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

that’s what i think too. Some of us are beyond saving at this point, our bad experiences have heavily shaped us as people and they would not go away with us getting a gf. A lot of us are also very deeply insecure about our appearance and our worth as members of society and that would not disappear with us getting a gf.

 

[Wrath]

solving 1 problem is better than solving none

 

[fatass30000]

For me my depression comes in waves, but it's a downward trend. I think if I had a girlfriend I would still be having ups and downs but it would no longer be a downward trend and I would perhaps in the long term become more happy.

maybe if the relationship lasted several years and there was constant positive reinforcement then i believe the damage could be undone but i don’t think that’s realistically possible. Even if your gf treats you good, outsiders are still gonna treat you as less due to your appearance. And you’re probably gonna get into several fights with her and she will probably attack your inceldom, looks, ability as a man etc. Having a gf that constantly loves us for us and never judges us would be something out of a fairy tale.

 

[Hombre Acné]

I just need fucking validation man.
Mom's and Grandma compliments don't work anymore

 

[The Death Devil]

If getting a gf/bf doesn't mean shit, then how about these faggots drop their relationships right now and enjoy other aspects of life since "sex is not everything" according to them?

They would respond to you with something like "The point is that you're supposed to be happy with yourself, inkwell! I can STAY in my relationship because I enjoy it and it makes me happy, but I don't need it!"

Of course, it's nonsense—but that's what they would likely tell you.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

If a thin female genuinely found me attractive, all those insecurities and mental health struggles would instantly disappear.

Of course, this will never happen, so I'm tired

 

[The Death Devil]

They're not entirely incorrect. If I had a loyal girlfriend tomorrow, it would be nice, but it wouldn't change the fact that I'm still hideous and short—and therefore treated like trash by everyone in society. I get your point, though.

 

[Todd’s Pay Pig]

Yes, yes it would.

So often you'll come across retards making this argument that if you managed to obtain a girlfriend you wouldn't automatically live a better life or you wouldn't magically fix the problems in your life.

I disagree with that argument. Because if I managed to get a girlfriend, I would no longer have to feel shame everytime I watch porn or goon. I would have someone that would support me during my lows, It would significantly increase my quality of life. I'd have something to look forward to every day.

But alas.

It wouldn’t fix all of them no but certainly the vast majority of them.

You instantly go from zero to hero and from a total nothing to having a future and reason for existing beyond taking your next breath or wage slaving for the Jews that hate you.

Love and support goes a hell of a long way but the gaslighters and bullshitters that are already “well fed” and have “got theirs” lie to us like it’s unimportant when it is essential.

 

[ihatelife2]

Why do the people who say that date then, if it won't make their problems go away? They just want the rich (in relationships) to get richer and the poor to get poorer

 

[Q. H. Cooks]

That is one of the stupidest catchphrases normies and foids say.

Nothing will make all your problems go away, but you still have needs, desires, biological drives, etc.

 

[ThePornographer]

Having a girlfriend or wife solves 90% of the problems a man faces; it can even improve his life drastically. Why? Because if you have a partner you want to marry, you become driven to provide and make her life better. Knowing she loves you and shows you intimacy gives you a reason to strive.

Women are the greatest motivation a man can have. People wonder why men don't work as hard as they did in the good old days , well, if you give a man a wife to care for, he will work his hardest with a smile on his face.

 

[sub3genecel]

Getting a girlfriend would literally fix all of my problems. Loneliness, lack of motivation, everything

 

[ogercel]

The right gf would make life easier

 

[VanGobbel]

Just get a gf theory

 

[Autistic Uggo]

It doesn't have to solve all of our problems. Having a partner and a family gives most people enough of an impetus to carry on with their lives despite their problems, which is more than enough of a reason to recognize their importance. Besides, having a girlfriend would give us more confidence, motivation and enthusiasm. This would naturally solve many of our problems or at least make them more bearable.

 

[Karlicel]

Yes, yes it would.

So often you'll come across retards making this argument that if you managed to obtain a girlfriend you wouldn't automatically live a better life or you wouldn't magically fix the problems in your life.

I disagree with that argument. Because if I managed to get a girlfriend, I would no longer have to feel shame everytime I watch porn or goon. I would have someone that would support me during my lows, It would significantly increase my quality of life. I'd have something to look forward to every day.

But alas.

It wont fix every problem but improve your live dramatically.
its like saying beeing a millionär wont fix all your problems

 

[Shitskin=Shitlife]

It wouldn't now because I am old and have suffered a lifetime of celibacy and loneliness. If I had gotten a girlfriend when I was a teenager or in my early 20s it would have completely altered my life trajectory. I would be much happier, much more mentally healthy, much more sociable, and I would even make more money.

If I got one now it would still be such a joyful boost that it would make my problems seem smaller than they are. I would still be a traumatized, autistic, ugly, loser but I wouldn't care because I have a girlfriend.

 

[Grodd]

Normies worship romance and then downplay it when we also want it

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Yes, yes it would.

So often you'll come across retards making this argument that if you managed to obtain a girlfriend you wouldn't automatically live a better life or you wouldn't magically fix the problems in your life.

I disagree with that argument. Because if I managed to get a girlfriend, I would no longer have to feel shame everytime I watch porn or goon. I would have someone that would support me during my lows, It would significantly increase my quality of life. I'd have something to look forward to every day.

But alas.

After one or two times having sex, she would leave you, cheat on you, or both at the same time.
You would probably end up even more depressed than before, heartbroken and suffering from severe oneitis, and maybe even rope.

 

[BasedGoyslopReviews]

Yes, yes it would.

 

[Yunoo]

It won’t fix all my problems but it would definitely make me happier

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

maybe if the relationship lasted several years and there was constant positive reinforcement then i believe the damage could be undone but i don’t think that’s realistically possible. Even if your gf treats you good, outsiders are still gonna treat you as less due to your appearance. And you’re probably gonna get into several fights with her and she will probably attack your inceldom, looks, ability as a man etc. Having a gf that constantly loves us for us and never judges us would be something out of a fairy tale.

Realistic answer, I agree.

 

[Gaelic-Truecel]

I wouldn't be happy with a looks match girlfriend. I think this was maybe caused by years of watching porn. If I had a looks match girlfriend when I was 20 maybe I would have developed differently but years of watching cam girls means I wouldn't be content with a looks match girlfriend.
There is also the other problems it could bring, a gf may want a family and I wouldn't really want that stressful life of raising kids. I also would probably spread my autism to them.

 

[RandomGuy]

Just get a gf theory

View: https://youtube.com/shorts/mBwao3Ca7Hs?si=yZjn6KrkbcaAKu7_

 

[Ricecel Sungnodius]

Normies worship romance and then downplay it when we also want it

Right. Most songs are about love, for example.

 

[Last2025cel]

If I get a gf I wouldn't become a bluepilled retard thinking everything is only sunshine and rainbows.

It would not erase all the bad experiences you had in this world.

You would stay in the constant fear that she cheats on you and/or that she leaves you. You would have to stay alert all the time.

 

[sirlancelot]

I wouldn't be happy with a looks match girlfriend.

 

[Qech__]

Saying "a GF won't make all your problems go away" is a strawman. Of course getting a GF won't solve every single fucking problem I have in my life, but it would make my life a whole lot less miserable. Fucking normie retards.

 

[SilentScream]

Relationships are a stepping stone to participation in life. You are not and will never be a full member of society - and by extension humanity - as an unwanted single man. We are deeply rooted to seek approval from others and we will be treated accordingly to said approval.

A relationship's purpose isn't to solve personal problems. It literally grants you access to our world. Your life only starts the moment you have sex with a woman that desires you sexually. Anything before that is just limbo. Don't consider yourself alive, you are at best in a breathing state. Single celibate men will always be despised for existing. We are not biologically equipped to live among people that hate us. Tribal nature be damned.

 

[slavcel11]

It will help at least one major problem go away. And help a lot with dealing with the rest.

 

[andrej]

I just want to be loved for who I am and give that love back