Let’s make a clear distinction right from the start.
Geomaxxing (getting laid for free purely off foreigner/white status, passport, or novelty in a better market) is not the same as escortmaxxing.
• Escortmaxxing (paying for sex, even while traveling) = still incel. You are not desired for yourself — you are a customer. This includes old men flying to Thailand or Colombia to pay for companionship.
• Free geomaxxing (ascending without paying, because local women choose you due to your Western/foreigner status) = fakecel territory. If you can get laid for free purely because of your location or passport, you were never truly doomed by your looks or genetics. You were simply in the wrong market.
You can be a geomaxxing escortcel (paying while abroad) and still qualify as incel. But if you are ascending for free via status/location, that crosses the line. This is exactly why so many proven fakecels turn out to be geomaxxers.
This distinction matters. The forum has always drawn it, and we need to keep drawing it clearly.
My Credibility
I’m not some random gray stirring drama. I’m a lifelong incel who has been tormented for years. I also have real-world experience traveling throughout Europe, Asia, and the Americas — and nothing came of it. I tried geomaxxing and failed, which is exactly why my username is FarangInDaNang, and my tag is Failed Sex Tourist, keyword; failed Successful or actively planning geomaxxers are not incels. We have to make this distinction crystal clear.
What Prompted This
The current beef with Sir Silentium perfectly illustrates the problem. The full archive is a total of 7 posts, I’ve included the key ones and excluded the latter ones as they devolved into personal attacks of character and an abundance of ad hominems and I want to keep the original message clear.
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Should Geomaxxers Be Banned? Yes — Forum Tradition and Precedent Demand It
There already exists geomaxx.me — a dedicated space where geomaxxers can congregate, brag, and incel-bash freely. This forum is not that place.
Let’s be crystal clear on the distinction:
• Escortmaxxing / paying for sex = still incel. You are not desired for yourself; you are a customer.
• Free geomaxxing (ascending via foreigner/white status, location, or passport without paying) = fakecel territory. If women choose you purely because of your status or novelty, you were never truly doomed by your looks/genetics. You were simply in the wrong market.
The Long-Standing Tradition of This Forum
Since the early days of incels.me / incels.is, the community has operated on a clear, unwritten (but consistently enforced) rule: this is a space for men who accept it’s over. Discussion of theory is tolerated, but active planning, investment, and especially bragging/proof of ascension have always been treated as fakecel behavior that demoralizes the community and violates the blackpill ethos.
The forum exists as a small corner for those who cannot escape through any means. Once someone demonstrates they can ascend (especially via geomaxxing), they no longer belong. This isn’t new — it’s foundational tradition.
The itsOVER Case
itsOVER (legendary white “incel” who went to Thailand) was banned primarily for bragging about successful geomaxxing/SEA ascension.
• He posted detailed trip reports claiming to have fucked 10+ girls in ~22 days, many non-hookers.
• He shared proof and rubbed it in.
• Mods warned him multiple times specifically for “bragging”.
• He was eventually permanently banned.
It was not just the act of ascending in private. It was the public proof + bragging that crossed the line. Forum consensus at the time (and still today in legacy threads) labeled him a fakecel who was never truly doomed. The ban reinforced the rule: if you prove you can escape via location/status, you are no longer one of us.
Applying This to Silentium
Silentium is not yet at the “bragging about slaying” stage — he is in the active preparation stage, which the forum has always treated as the precursor to the same outcome.
His own words (recent and past):
• “Yes I have been building my house with the help of my father, and wish to move over once I get my 10yr visa approved.”
• “Yes it would be heaps easier there since they are less westernised.”
• “Whites are held highly… it would be easy to find a mate.”
• “Still possible.”
This is a multi-year, active geomaxxing pipeline with timelines, financial investment (house construction), and explicit optimism about success. He is treating his inceldom as situational (Western hypergamy is the problem, not his genetics), not absolute. This is the exact fakecel mindset the forum has historically rejected.
The Real Question for His Defenders
If we accept the long tradition of this forum:
Do we disavow him now, while he is actively preparing the pipeline… or do we wait until he moves, gets the visa, ascends, and starts bragging about it (like itsOVER)?
Because the natural conclusion of his current path is the same outcome that got itsOVER banned. The only difference is timing. The line has always been drawn at the point where someone shows ascension is realistic and achievable for them. Silentium crossed that line with his own detailed, ongoing project.
We have to uphold the tradition. Fakecels have the whole world. Truecels only have this small corner. Letting active, optimistic geomaxxing pipelines slide erodes the entire purpose of the forum.
With all that being said, I’m willing to drop the beef and let the mods decide, I don’t want to start division in any way but it came to my attention these things were going on and it seemed in direct contradiction with this forums ethos and rules. If I’m wrong, I’ll happily retract my statements. It’s outside any of our jurisdiction but the mods at this point.
Tagging mods for clarity: @Ryo_Hazuki @proudweeb @24K Link @LeFrenchCel
The community deserves a consistent stance on this, don’t take this as a spam tag, or hate post but a genuine, serious discussion.
Geomaxxing (getting laid for free purely off foreigner/white status, passport, or novelty in a better market) is not the same as escortmaxxing.
• Escortmaxxing (paying for sex, even while traveling) = still incel. You are not desired for yourself — you are a customer. This includes old men flying to Thailand or Colombia to pay for companionship.
• Free geomaxxing (ascending without paying, because local women choose you due to your Western/foreigner status) = fakecel territory. If you can get laid for free purely because of your location or passport, you were never truly doomed by your looks or genetics. You were simply in the wrong market.
You can be a geomaxxing escortcel (paying while abroad) and still qualify as incel. But if you are ascending for free via status/location, that crosses the line. This is exactly why so many proven fakecels turn out to be geomaxxers.
This distinction matters. The forum has always drawn it, and we need to keep drawing it clearly.
My Credibility
I’m not some random gray stirring drama. I’m a lifelong incel who has been tormented for years. I also have real-world experience traveling throughout Europe, Asia, and the Americas — and nothing came of it. I tried geomaxxing and failed, which is exactly why my username is FarangInDaNang, and my tag is Failed Sex Tourist, keyword; failed Successful or actively planning geomaxxers are not incels. We have to make this distinction crystal clear.
What Prompted This
The current beef with Sir Silentium perfectly illustrates the problem. The full archive is a total of 7 posts, I’ve included the key ones and excluded the latter ones as they devolved into personal attacks of character and an abundance of ad hominems and I want to keep the original message clear.
Biblical perspective on Hardmaxxing
'Softmaxxing' - optimising physical appearance naturally 'Hardmaxxing' - undergoing surgeries or extreme physical alterations in order to change one's appearance What does the bible say about hardmaxxing? Aspects such as softmaxxing are beneficial biblically speaking; such as eating good...
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You should be banned if you successfully Geomaxx
You are no longer an incel. If you have plans to geomaxx an arranging a marriage, your a fakecel. If your an actual truecel like I am then geomaxxing isn’t enough and you will fail. If you manage to ascend via geomaxxing you were always a fakecel and just a failed Normie. Fakecels.is can use you...
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Who I think will be banned in the coming months - a prediction
With the recent ban of @FoidsEnshittifyAll, a ban I predicted btw. I want to shine some light on who else I believe may or not be banned in the coming months. Now this is all just fun and games and for a good laugh, don’t take this seriously and I myself could live and die by my own sword, or...
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Silentium addresses the allegations + relevant quotes
It's odd how I am in a position to make a thread about this when I have openly talked and made numerous threads on the matter since I joined the forum. But even so, I don't want to take a hardban for something completely false. I wasn't even planning on making this thread, until my long time...
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You Will Know Them by Their Fruits - A Response to Sir Silentium
Right off the bat classic ad hominem. mentioning .org and hexum and gray to try invalidate my points. I’ve known about all 3 of the major forums for years now — .is, .net, .org. You are not infallible just because you’re a 2025cel. I was probably lurking before you even made an account. I’ve...
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Should Geomaxxers Be Banned? Yes — Forum Tradition and Precedent Demand It
There already exists geomaxx.me — a dedicated space where geomaxxers can congregate, brag, and incel-bash freely. This forum is not that place.
Let’s be crystal clear on the distinction:
• Escortmaxxing / paying for sex = still incel. You are not desired for yourself; you are a customer.
• Free geomaxxing (ascending via foreigner/white status, location, or passport without paying) = fakecel territory. If women choose you purely because of your status or novelty, you were never truly doomed by your looks/genetics. You were simply in the wrong market.
The Long-Standing Tradition of This Forum
Since the early days of incels.me / incels.is, the community has operated on a clear, unwritten (but consistently enforced) rule: this is a space for men who accept it’s over. Discussion of theory is tolerated, but active planning, investment, and especially bragging/proof of ascension have always been treated as fakecel behavior that demoralizes the community and violates the blackpill ethos.
The forum exists as a small corner for those who cannot escape through any means. Once someone demonstrates they can ascend (especially via geomaxxing), they no longer belong. This isn’t new — it’s foundational tradition.
The itsOVER Case
itsOVER (legendary white “incel” who went to Thailand) was banned primarily for bragging about successful geomaxxing/SEA ascension.
• He posted detailed trip reports claiming to have fucked 10+ girls in ~22 days, many non-hookers.
• He shared proof and rubbed it in.
• Mods warned him multiple times specifically for “bragging”.
• He was eventually permanently banned.
It was not just the act of ascending in private. It was the public proof + bragging that crossed the line. Forum consensus at the time (and still today in legacy threads) labeled him a fakecel who was never truly doomed. The ban reinforced the rule: if you prove you can escape via location/status, you are no longer one of us.
Applying This to Silentium
Silentium is not yet at the “bragging about slaying” stage — he is in the active preparation stage, which the forum has always treated as the precursor to the same outcome.
His own words (recent and past):
• “Yes I have been building my house with the help of my father, and wish to move over once I get my 10yr visa approved.”
• “Yes it would be heaps easier there since they are less westernised.”
• “Whites are held highly… it would be easy to find a mate.”
• “Still possible.”
This is a multi-year, active geomaxxing pipeline with timelines, financial investment (house construction), and explicit optimism about success. He is treating his inceldom as situational (Western hypergamy is the problem, not his genetics), not absolute. This is the exact fakecel mindset the forum has historically rejected.
The Real Question for His Defenders
If we accept the long tradition of this forum:
Do we disavow him now, while he is actively preparing the pipeline… or do we wait until he moves, gets the visa, ascends, and starts bragging about it (like itsOVER)?
Because the natural conclusion of his current path is the same outcome that got itsOVER banned. The only difference is timing. The line has always been drawn at the point where someone shows ascension is realistic and achievable for them. Silentium crossed that line with his own detailed, ongoing project.
We have to uphold the tradition. Fakecels have the whole world. Truecels only have this small corner. Letting active, optimistic geomaxxing pipelines slide erodes the entire purpose of the forum.
With all that being said, I’m willing to drop the beef and let the mods decide, I don’t want to start division in any way but it came to my attention these things were going on and it seemed in direct contradiction with this forums ethos and rules. If I’m wrong, I’ll happily retract my statements. It’s outside any of our jurisdiction but the mods at this point.
Tagging mods for clarity: @Ryo_Hazuki @proudweeb @24K Link @LeFrenchCel
The community deserves a consistent stance on this, don’t take this as a spam tag, or hate post but a genuine, serious discussion.
