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In late 2000s during one of our sex ed classes a girl remarked about her intimate experience with boyfriend: "he gets hard while we make out, is it normal?" laughter erupted in the classroom and another girl yelled out loud "eww, is he really that sex deprived or what haha". I couldn't fathom what was so strange about getting hard while kissing, but I was an incel.
Back then getting sexually excited too fast was a serious stigma. For girls it meant they were dealing with a inexperienced virgin loser. In those times everyone was still strategizing how not to cum in the first 30 seconds after putting it in -- last longer was the motto -- and every rag had a column in the health section on how to increase your stamina.
Today taking 'too long' to finish has become a red flag. It's a sign that you're a pornsick coomer, which is also synonymous with inexperienced virgin loser. Female dating strategists list "If he is not hard while kissing" and if a man "needs more than just nice underwear to get hard" as signs of impotence.
What a fucking ontological predicament.
Back then getting sexually excited too fast was a serious stigma. For girls it meant they were dealing with a inexperienced virgin loser. In those times everyone was still strategizing how not to cum in the first 30 seconds after putting it in -- last longer was the motto -- and every rag had a column in the health section on how to increase your stamina.
Today taking 'too long' to finish has become a red flag. It's a sign that you're a pornsick coomer, which is also synonymous with inexperienced virgin loser. Female dating strategists list "If he is not hard while kissing" and if a man "needs more than just nice underwear to get hard" as signs of impotence.
What a fucking ontological predicament.
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