Friend found a girl, now I don't matter

[Tenshi]

Dude used to be always calling me to hang out, always chatting with me and everything, I was always down to anything. Guess what?[UWSL] Now he's hooking up with some goblina and I don't matter anymore. Dude didn't called me at all these two weeks, barely replied my messages, blew me off last sunday when he invited me to go shopping. Ask him if he could take me to a health center with his car, was too busy "working"[/UWSL]

[UWSL]that's friendship for you, not jealous or anything, but it makes you think. When he was down feeling bad and had no pussy I was there to help him cope, now that I need some help, at least go out and make me feel less shitty dealing with this hellish withdrawal, but nothing.[/UWSL]

[UWSL]mind you, this is an old friend, an actual friend. Still, you can't compete with pussy. For those who want friends, that's the best you can expect.[/UWSL]

[UWSL]That's why friends are overrated[/UWSL]

 

[Deleted member 30198]

thats brutal as fuck man

pussy indeed is unbeatable

 

[BlkPillPres]

The only true friend you will ever have is yourself, because you are the only person who will ever truly have your best interests at heart

Well that isn't completely true, to do that requires that you be honest with yourself and self-aware, some people are their own worst enemies. If you are an emotional person and you aren't pragmatic, you can't even trust your own decisons tbh, you can't even trust yourself, there are certain personality and mindset changes you have to make before you can start "living for yourself"

Before any of the friendships I had ever got the point you are talking about I ended them, I just stopped communicating the moment I saw they started getting into relationships, because I knew I'd just end up being the "third wheel", and they would prioritize our friendship less

If you are honest with yourself and you are self-aware, nothing will ever come as a shock to you, in fact you would have already been preparing for it

I was already prepared for these things to happen so I decided to end all of my friendships "on a good note" where we just have good memories to look back on, rather than the memories of abandonment and resentment that would come about from a "third wheel" situation

You are going to have to do the same thing with family too, I hope you are prepared

I'm already prepared to leave my entire life behind and start a new one, in fact that's my plan


If you want an enjoyable life you have to live completely for yourself

This is something I notice most incels simply do not want to do, its either their mother, or a friend, etc that they use as excuses as to why they can't leave their country, or they can't kill themselves, or they can't do X, its all bullshit, if you aren't living for yourself, you aren't living, you are just a slave to other peoples desires

For an incel to have an enjoyable life nobody else can be even an afterthought, or some crux holding you back and making you restrict your thoughts and actions

 

[Deleted member 30198]

The only true friend you will ever have is yourself, because you are the only person who will ever truly have your best interests at heart, well that isn't completely true, to do that requires that you be honest with yourself and self-aware, some people are their own worst enemies

Before any of the friendships I had ever got the point you are talking about I ended them, I just stopped communicating the moment I saw they started getting into relationships, because I knew I'd just end up being the "third wheel", and they would prioritize our friendship less

If you are honest with yourself and you are self-aware, nothing will ever come as a shock to you, in fact you would have already been preparing for it

I was already prepared for these things to happen so I decided to end all of my friendships "on a good note" where we just have good memories to look back on, rather than the memories of abandonment and resentment that would come about from a "third wheel" situation

You are going to have to do the same thing with family too, I hope you are prepared

I'm already prepared to leave my entire life behind and start a new one, in fact that's my plan


If you want an enjoyable life you have to live completely for yourself

This is something I notice most incels simply do not want to do, its either their mother, or a friend, etc that they use as excuses as to why they can't leave their country, or they can't kill themselves, or they can't do X, its all bullshit, if you aren't living for yourself, you aren't living, you are just a slave to other peoples desires

For an incel to have an enjoyable life nobody else can be even an afterthought, or some crux holding you back and making you restrict your thoughts and actions

thats a truthpill right there

 

[Caesercel]

I have to keep my guard up even with the people I call "friends". My bestie rn is a toxic pos who explicitly said that if his life was better he wouldn't be talking to me. But atleast I can open up to him unlike my friends in neighbourhood, who used to bully me once they sensed weakness. My high school bros were the only true bros. I wished I didn't cut off contact with them.

 

[Deleted member 30198]

My bestie rn is a toxic pos who explicitly said that if his life was better he wouldn't be talking to me.

cut this faggot off your life immediately

 

[BlkPillPres]

My bestie rn is a toxic pos who explicitly said that if his life was better he wouldn't be talking to me

A lot of you guys are so desperate for friendship, that you create these ridiculous standards for what you would consider "a friend", you are setting the bar ridiculously low

That guy isn't your friend at all, its like a woman telling you - "I'm only with you for your money" but you say "that's my girlfriend"

Is she REALLY your girl friend? or are you just her betabuxx provider, are you just a "customer" purchasing a "girlfriend experience"

The kind of shit on this site I see guys calling friendships is pathetic

For example, a guy saying his "friend" made fun of him in front of a girl on purpose to impress her and then walked off with her laughing

That's obviously not a friend by any measure of the word, but incels on this site keep saying "my friend did X to me and I feel bad now"

cut this faggot off your life immediately

Doubt he will, most guys on this site are the "emotional type" as much as they like to go around pretending to be "cold" and "uncaring" and as much as they like to say shit like "JFL at that roastie getting killed" if they ever saw a dead body in real life they'd freeze up and panic

They are desperate just to have someone to talk to and relate to, talking to themselves isn't enough, they need to feel like someone cares about them

They can't live for themselves so they will cling to whatever attachments they have in life and they will pursue more and more attachments so they have an endless list of excuses as to why they can't make X change in life

I always laugh everytime I see an incel say they can't kill themselves because their mother is still alive and it would hurt her feelings, it doesn't even make sense, its a convenient excuse. I knew someone personally that killed themselves, both of their parents were still alive, if you want to REALLY kill yourself you'll do it, no attachments will limit your actions

 

[your personality]

I have to keep my guard up even with the people I call "friends". My bestie rn is a toxic pos who explicitly said that if his life was better he wouldn't be talking to me. But atleast I can open up to him unlike my friends in neighbourhood, who used to bully me once they sensed weakness. My high school bros were the only true bros. I wished I didn't cut off contact with them.

Brutal

cut this faggot off your life immediately

But then he'll have no one to talk to and be completely alone, which in the absence of having people online to talk to would be unbearable loneliness after being used to talking to at least someone IRL

 

[Deleted member 30198]

But then he'll have no one to talk to and be completely alone, which in the absence of having people online to talk to would be unbearable loneliness after being used to talking to at least someone IRL

better alone than with people who are not even your friends
better incel than a cuck

 

[your personality]

better alone than with people who are not even your friends
better incel than a cuck

Yeah but if it was that easy no one would even muse about it. It's understandably hard to cut people off if they are the only ones you to talk to IRL. Even more if before that you had been really lonely.

 

[Deleted member 30198]

Yeah but if it was that easy no one would even muse about it. It's understandably hard to cut people off if they are the only ones you to talk to IRL. Even more if before that you had been really lonely.

i agree, im just stating that its better alone than with people who are not even your friends, not that its easy to do so

 

[Transcended Trucel]

The only true friend you will ever have is yourself, because you are the only person who will ever truly have your best interests at heart

Well that isn't completely true, to do that requires that you be honest with yourself and self-aware, some people are their own worst enemies. If you are an emotional person and you aren't pragmatic, you can't even trust your own decisons tbh, you can't even trust yourself, there are certain personality and mindset changes you have to make before you can start "living for yourself"

Before any of the friendships I had ever got the point you are talking about I ended them, I just stopped communicating the moment I saw they started getting into relationships, because I knew I'd just end up being the "third wheel", and they would prioritize our friendship less

If you are honest with yourself and you are self-aware, nothing will ever come as a shock to you, in fact you would have already been preparing for it

I was already prepared for these things to happen so I decided to end all of my friendships "on a good note" where we just have good memories to look back on, rather than the memories of abandonment and resentment that would come about from a "third wheel" situation

You are going to have to do the same thing with family too, I hope you are prepared

I'm already prepared to leave my entire life behind and start a new one, in fact that's my plan


If you want an enjoyable life you have to live completely for yourself

This is something I notice most incels simply do not want to do, its either their mother, or a friend, etc that they use as excuses as to why they can't leave their country, or they can't kill themselves, or they can't do X, its all bullshit, if you aren't living for yourself, you aren't living, you are just a slave to other peoples desires

For an incel to have an enjoyable life nobody else can be even an afterthought, or some crux holding you back and making you restrict your thoughts and actions

Based and woke post. I have cut off maybe 4-10 normies I used to know cause they either got a foid, were no longer fun to hangout with, or were unemployed/untalented/useless.

 

[Deleted member 30198]

or were unemployed/untalented/useless.

useless in what sense? elaborate

 

[Caesercel]

cut this faggot off your life immediately

Harder than you think. I've been wanting wanting to cut him off for 5 years. That was the right choice. He's a loser who won't make any progress in life and his negative attitude is rubbing off on me and holding me back. Plus he doesn't want the best for me since that would mean I would move ahead leaving him behind. But we've been tight for 8 years. I've opened up to him like I never did with anyone else. He opened my eyes to a lot of things with high iq perspective, which has affected my sense of self and of the world. Basically we have a dynamic and giving it up is not that easy.

Brutal

But then he'll have no one to talk to and be completely alone, which in the absence of having people online to talk to would be unbearable loneliness after being used to talking to at least someone IRL

This basically

 

[BlkPillPres]

Based and woke post. I have cut off maybe 4-10 normies I used to know cause they either got a foid, were no longer fun to hangout with, or were unemployed/untalented/useless.

Yes, like you pointed out you also have to cut out people who aren't conducive to you being productive and pursuing your goals

Having LDAR "friends" when you want to have an enjoyable future one day is counter productive

 

[Transcended Trucel]

Yes, you also have to cut out people who aren't conducive to you being productive and pursuing your goals

Having LDAR "friends" when you want to have an enjoyable future one day is counter productive

Yes many of them also start low key insulting you for hustling, saying hurr durr nothing works, you'll never succeed bro, give up, your a wageslave cuck etc.
No sane man would stay in touch with such people.

 

[BlkPillPres]

i agree, im just stating that its better alone than with people who are not even your friends, not that its easy to do so

I've always been someone who spent most of their time alone, thinking, planning, talking to myself really (in my mind, not vocally, that would be tiring lol)

So I never saw it as "hard" to leave friends or family behind and "move on"

Even when nobody else is there I've always been there, I don't have this "dependency" that I see many people have when it comes to having "friends" and "family"

Intrapersonal communication is the most important kind of communication in my book

Those who are used to it will never feel "lonely"

 

[Transcended Trucel]

useless in what sense? elaborate

They are too stupid to have fun with, can't offer any valuable conversations, one curry NEET got disability bux for asthma and was a pakistani military enthusiast. He would take me to restaurants, and I would be the one paying the bill literally 100% of the time. Only reason I used to hang out with him was because he was enjoyable and I liked military topics at the time. he also knew many other curries that he used to leech off of for free restaurant food. I used him to know some good programmer/IT curries. And eventually didn't need him to know more people and I stopped caring about military bullshit.

So I thought might as well save time and money and ignore him and move on.

I've always been someone who spent most of their time alone, thinking, planning, talking to myself really (in my mind, not vocally, that would be tiring lol)

So I never saw it as "hard", even when nobody else is there I've always been there, I don't have this "dependency" that I see many people have when it comes to having "friends" and "family"

Intrapersonal communication is the most important kind of communication in my book

Those who are used to it will never feel "lonely"

This too is major key. Learning to live with your own thoughts. Constantly planning and learning to make gains(physically, mentally and ofc most importantly financially).

 

[BlkPillPres]

They are too stupid to have fun with, can't offer any valuable conversations, one curry NEET got disability bux for asthma and was a pakistani military enthusiast. He would take me to restaurants, and I would be the one paying the bill literally 100% of the time. Only reason I used to hang out with him was because he was enjoyable and I liked military topics at the time. he also knew many other curries that he used to leech off of for free restaurant food. I used him to know some good programmer/IT curries. And eventually didn't need him to know more people and I stopped caring about military bullshit.

So I thought might as well save time and money and ignore him and move on.

JFL at all these "muh NEETbux" guys on this site that think living a "NEET life" is going to be this enjoyable thing (you can barely afford to eat well)

Having limited options and resources in life is never enjoyable, at that point you are no longer "LIVING" you are just "SURVIVING"

As a species we innately want to do everything in our power to make our lives more convenient so we can "live", that's why we have cars today and we don't walk everywhere, that's why we have running water and plumbing instead of a well and a bucket

Being a NEET is completely unnatural and is against our nature as humans, and many of these guys will only realize this too late, when the depression sets in and they are in their mid 30's and stuck in their NEET life

 

[Transcended Trucel]

JFL at all these "muh NEETbux" guys on this site that think living a "NEET life" is going to be this enjoyable thing (you can barely afford to eat well)

Having limited options and resources in life is never enjoyable, at that point you are no longer "LIVING" you are just "SURVIVING"

As a species we innately want to do everything in our power to make our lives more convenient so we can "live", that's why we have cars today and we don't walk everywhere, that's why we have running water and plumbing instead of a well and a bucket

Being a NEET is completely unnatural and is against our nature as humans, and many of these guys will only realize this too late, when the depression sets in and they are in their mid 30's and stuck in their NEET life

Yup, this Pakistani NEET lived with 3 room mates, had a shitty bathroom and paid like $500-800/month in rent(was back in 2014-2017). He had very little space to live in. No car and has to use the shitty Subway and bus system. He would also only use rice cooker and basic stove to cook food. Buying only frozen veggies and occasionally cheap meat. I think he received around $1.5-2k /month due to worker comp and disability bux. He also had a good pc.

But either way he was living a pretty shit lifestyle imo. Only being able to eat out from leeching from others. Using shitty public transport. And wasting his day watching military videos and reading books, then ofc leeching off other curries.

He can't ever afford a vacation, can't even travel anywhere by car due to budget constraints, has to savr and worry about unexpected expenses etc.

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

Dude used to be always calling me to hang out, always chatting with me and everything, I was always down to anything. Guess what?[UWSL] Now he's hooking up with some goblina and I don't matter anymore. Dude didn't called me at all these two weeks, barely replied my messages, blew me off last sunday when he invited me to go shopping. Ask him if he could take me to a health center with his car, was too busy "working"[/UWSL]

[UWSL]that's friendship for you, not jealous or anything, but it makes you think. When he was down feeling bad and had no pussy I was there to help him cope, now that I need some help, at least go out and make me feel less shitty dealing with this hellish withdrawal, but nothing.[/UWSL]

[UWSL]mind you, this is an old friend, an actual friend. Still, you can't compete with pussy. For those who want friends, that's the best you can expect.[/UWSL]

[UWSL]That's why friends are overrated[/UWSL]

Yeah they all ostracized me when a new girl came to our group ,I hate friends ! They are lying snakes ! I wouldn’t have done that shit

 

[your personality]

Yes, like you pointed out you also have to cut out people who aren't conducive to you being productive and pursuing your goals

Having LDAR "friends" when you want to have an enjoyable future one day is counter productive

Having friends as a male in a hyper competitive society that the world is now isn't possible in the long run if you don't naturally possess the inherent social status to keep a social circle no matter what happens. Only chads and charismatic high tier normies have that.

 

[RoastieBeef]

He'll be back in 2 months for you

 

[Transcended Trucel]

He'll be back in 2 months for you

OP should ignore them tbh if they try hanging out again. If a person doesn't value you, you shouldn't value them.

 

[erenyeager]

In this world it's the living or the dead

 

[Transcended Trucel]

In this world it's the living or the dead

It's over, we need Fantasy land max like Chris Chan.

 

[erenyeager]

It's over, we need Fantasy land max like Chris Chan.

Oh yeah that fucker fucked his granny mommy

 

[Transcended Trucel]

Oh yeah that fucker fucked his granny mommy

He went insane. Governments fault tbh, they should offer to euthanize ugly autistic trucels rather than letting them suffer and become degenerates(tranny, furry, pedo, mother fucker etc.).

 

[Shigechi]

That's how usually works, as a sub average man you are alone and always alone.

 

[SerCel]

At the end of the day, you can only truly rely on yourself.

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

The only true friend you will ever have is yourself, because you are the only person who will ever truly have your best interests at heart

Well that isn't completely true, to do that requires that you be honest with yourself and self-aware, some people are their own worst enemies. If you are an emotional person and you aren't pragmatic, you can't even trust your own decisons tbh, you can't even trust yourself, there are certain personality and mindset changes you have to make before you can start "living for yourself"

Before any of the friendships I had ever got the point you are talking about I ended them, I just stopped communicating the moment I saw they started getting into relationships, because I knew I'd just end up being the "third wheel", and they would prioritize our friendship less

If you are honest with yourself and you are self-aware, nothing will ever come as a shock to you, in fact you would have already been preparing for it

I was already prepared for these things to happen so I decided to end all of my friendships "on a good note" where we just have good memories to look back on, rather than the memories of abandonment and resentment that would come about from a "third wheel" situation

You are going to have to do the same thing with family too, I hope you are prepared

I'm already prepared to leave my entire life behind and start a new one, in fact that's my plan


If you want an enjoyable life you have to live completely for yourself

This is something I notice most incels simply do not want to do, its either their mother, or a friend, etc that they use as excuses as to why they can't leave their country, or they can't kill themselves, or they can't do X, its all bullshit, if you aren't living for yourself, you aren't living, you are just a slave to other peoples desires

For an incel to have an enjoyable life nobody else can be even an afterthought, or some crux holding you back and making you restrict your thoughts and actions

 

[erenyeager]

He went insane. Governments fault tbh, they should offer to euthanize ugly autistic trucels rather than letting them suffer and become degenerates(tranny, furry, pedo, mother fucker etc.).

Ngl the comprehensive series is prolly the most interesting thing to see about it tbh would recommend

In this world it's the living or the dead

 

[Deleted member 31630]

same thing happened to me too.
once your friend gets a gf, the become overloaded with “feel-good tingly bones” whenever he talks to her, so that’s all he’ll want to do

 

[Linesnap99]

yes and most girlfriends will tell their boyfriends to not talk to the friends that she finds useless. fucking cunts .

 

[Deleted member 28148]

That's usually how it goes

 

[Mecoja]

once she dumps him he will regret.

 

[AllanKing]

really feal sorry for you，many people only care about their own interests

 

[Deleted member 6214]

I'm already prepared to leave my entire life behind and start a new one, in fact that's my plan

What's your plan brocel? I also have a plan which involves moneymaxxing and then leaving the UK forever for another country and just starting my life over again.

 

[BlkPillPres]

What's your plan brocel? I also have a plan which involves moneymaxxing and then leaving the UK forever for another country and just starting my life over again.

Same, not sure which country I'll move to yet though, I'll probably end up settling down in some SEA country, easy access to sex (prostitution is plentiful and priced well), good food, traditional culture, low cost of living, etc

 

[Sportbro]

Doubt he will, most guys on this site are the "emotional type" as much as they like to go around pretending to be "cold" and "uncaring" and as much as they like to say shit like "JFL at that roastie getting killed" if they ever saw a dead body in real life they'd freeze up and panic

You are a clown if you think you wouldn't do that yourself

 

[Deleted member 6214]

Same, not sure which country I'll move to yet though, I'll probably end up settling down in some SEA country, easy access to sex (prostitution is plentiful and priced well), good food, traditional culture, low cost of living, etc

My ideal place would be Dubai or any other developed city in the UAE or Qatar, good infrastructure, less degeneracy (although that is slowly changing), less crime and less taxes to pay. However I will have to make a lot of money in order to settle there so it might just be a distant pipedream after all. But I'll try.

 

[BlkPillPres]

My ideal place would be Dubai or any other developed city in the UAE or Qatar, good infrastructure, less degeneracy (although that is slowly changing), less crime and less taxes to pay. However I will have to make a lot of money in order to settle there so it might just be a distant pipedream after all. But I'll try.

I like the idea of Qatar too, but isn't it illegal to trade as a Muslim (well not "illegal" but "haram", so its the same thing basically). I plan on making my money trading so I doubt I could live there

Islam is really the ONLY religion worth converting to these days:

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TMqePtltQoE

 

[Deleted member 33054]

Dudes will always go after vaginas.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

I like the idea of Qatar too, but isn't it illegal to trade as a Muslim (well not "illegal" but "haram", so its the same thing basically). I plan on making my money trading so I doubt I could live there

Islam is really the ONLY religion worth converting to these days:

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgbdrFdQ-Jw

I'm not sure tbh, because I know of crypto traders who have specifically moved to the UAE or Saudi Arabia since there are no taxes on cryptocurrency earnings. There's a youtuber who streams himself trading from his Dubai flat so I think it should be fine lol

And same, I plan on making money through trading, crypto trading to be exact - this is because it's still in its infancy regarding adoption so we're very early. I plan on making long term investments and day trading using leverage.

 

[Tenshi]

same thing happened to me too.
once your friend gets a gf, the become overloaded with “feel-good tingly bones” whenever he talks to her, so that’s all he’ll want to do

brutal

btw obligatory morrissey song to this thread:


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6g0gDrCUi8

 

[wasted12years]

That's happened to me atleast 5 times througout my teens and early 20s.

 

[FukFeminism]

thats brutal as fuck man

pussy indeed is unbeatable

This world is cruel.

 

[ldargoblin]

friends are overrated

Let's hope he gets cucked.

 

[Dregster]

Dude used to be always calling me to hang out, always chatting with me and everything, I was always down to anything. Guess what?[UWSL] Now he's hooking up with some goblina and I don't matter anymore. Dude didn't called me at all these two weeks, barely replied my messages, blew me off last sunday when he invited me to go shopping. Ask him if he could take me to a health center with his car, was too busy "working"[/UWSL]

[UWSL]that's friendship for you, not jealous or anything, but it makes you think. When he was down feeling bad and had no pussy I was there to help him cope, now that I need some help, at least go out and make me feel less shitty dealing with this hellish withdrawal, but nothing.[/UWSL]

[UWSL]mind you, this is an old friend, an actual friend. Still, you can't compete with pussy. For those who want friends, that's the best you can expect.[/UWSL]

[UWSL]That's why friends are overrated[/UWSL]

He'll come crawling back when goblina cucks him with one of those tyroneriguez hybrid chads you got down there

 

[ineedassistance]

I tell you the meaning of friendship in my latest post