Classic_Jarvis
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found this on /r/dating_advice/
Here are two images for guys to remember when asking about dating advice on Tinder
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Here are two images for guys to remember when asking about dating advice on Tinder
So, guys, you may not be doing anything "wrong" per se...you're just not the absolute "best of the best" to stand out in an environment where a woman can get 25,000 likes in 2 years, and where guys outnumber girls significantly.
PS - Stop swiping right so much. Be pickier. No person is worthy of 25,000 likes from people who only know her from a few photos and a (pretty shitty) bio.
PPS - And, it may be time for us to just get off these apps and meet women in person, where we can use our presence and charm.
EDIT: Based on some comments, the 25,000 number is likely after a few months of being on the app.
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The woman got likes because she is a pretty woman. If you think most guys swiped right because they were thinking of her personality, I have no idea where to even begin addressing that. She could have posted one pic of her face or sexy body and she'd have done fine.
And not only does the tinder algorithm punish swiping right on too many people, the more guys who like a girl, the more likely she'll just choose from the top 1%. Instead, guys need to swipe right on girls who share their values and not just based solely on the face. I came across an average 40 something woman recently who mentioned getting 1000 likes in a week.