Feeling so old at 25

[Summer202]

Life sucks for everyone, in my honest opinion. Thats how it was meant to be, in a way

Different definition for "sucks". Go watch an amateur porn video with chad getting a blowjob from a young beautifull girl. Then imagine his entire youth is made up of moments like that plus a bunch of friends and a bunch of awesome parties. After having fun, partying and in general having an amazing youth, he reaches 35 and marries a cute girl in her mid 20s. Then stay together until the end of his life, have kids that grow up to be happy and sucessfull. He dies of old age in his bed surrounded by his family, remembering the good times of his youth.

Now look at your life and the lives of most people here. Rotting away in some room, probably ending up in suicide, and pherhaps a pathetic one like the founder of r/Braincels. Try to tell me that life "sucks" for everyone. What a complete load of bullshit.

I have flaws which have come into my life which have severely hindered my chance of getting a girl I would be satisfied with. I want to learn about looksmaxing and cope strategies.

This website is going to shit when people like you start to get allowed in.

 

[CopingGymcel]

I have flaws which have come into my life which have severely hindered my chance of getting a girl I would be satisfied with. I want to learn about looksmaxing and cope strategies.

lookism.net is better for that tbh.

 

[赤い太陽]

I guess that's the fate we all have to come to terms with.

I've come to realize that many of the things that I wanted aren't the things that I wanted after all. I wanted to live in a new country, but now I realize that most countries have so many problems that I'm not prepared or willing to deal with.

So at this point, it's all amount finding homeostasis.

 

[hermitcel]

feels like my life is coming to a close, and I'm 21. I don't even feel like suicide tbh, but it feels like I'm on my deathbed, or the doctor told me I have 2 months to live. I'm just wasting time, and I'm kind of okay with it. Life just feels surreal.

 

[TechnoGoose]

I know that feeling man. I'm 24/almost 25, which I guess can be considered almost 30. I have nothing to show for myself. I have friends who are my age and even younger who are happily married, have kids, houses, good paying careers, ect...

And then there's me. I have an "okay" job, it pays the bills, but if something happens (have to go to the hospital, or even a traffic ticket, ect..) I'm basically broke. No actual skills apart from firearms and outdoors/survival knowledge I thought would be useful when I was younger (it's not). No girlfriend, no kids, no aspirations, can't find a better paying job (aforementioned lack of skills). Most of the people I know who have all of these things were handed them as well.

For example, one of my childhood friends was born into an extremely wealthy family, his grandpa owns a mutli-million dollar business, his dad runs the place (is also worth millions, if not almost), and of course, being the son, he's immediately granted an entry level position within the company as soon as he's legally able to work. Mind you, that entry level position he had pays more than the job that I have NOW, and I had to actually try and get raises to where I'm at. He doesn't have to worry about getting fired, laid off, ect.. he just cruises by in life. I love him because we've always been very close, but I hate him for what he has. I hate that I've worked 10x harder than him to even get to the point where I can move out and struggle on my own, and what does he get? A great, good paying career that results in happiness, love, affection, ect.. I've always been told that if you just work hard and do the right thing you'll come out on top. That's such bullshit. It should be me having that success, instead, I'm left to struggle in a perpetual state of agony.


Sorry for the long rant. tl;dr: life sucks.

 

[Existentialcel]

Almost 26. I feel ancient and young as f at the same

 

[Haywire]

you 20ish year olds dont really know it quite yet.... if you think mid twenties is bad ooooooh just wait.

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

As you get older your perception of time changes. The years seem to go by faster and faster.

When you're 15 and you look back to when you were 10...it seems like forever ago.

When you're 20 looking back to when you were 15...it doesn't seem that long ago.

When you're 25 looking back on when you were 20...you wonder where the time went.

When you're 30 looking back on when you were 25...it seems like it was practically yesterday.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

As you get older your perception of time changes. The years seem to go by faster and faster.

When you're 15 and you look back to when you were 10...it seems like forever ago.

When you're 20 looking back to when you were 15...it doesn't seem that long ago.

When you're 25 looking back on when you were 20...you wonder where the time went.

When you're 30 looking back on when you were 25...it seems like it was practically yesterday.

I don't like this. I don't like this at all. Especially cause you're absolutely right.

 

[Deleted member 1252]

When you get a lil older you'll back on your teens and early 20s with joy.

Trust me, I was socially isolated and incel from 18-25 but at 32 I can honestly say I was happier back then. Maybe it's because I had hope for a bright future that never came. I wasn't as worried about my looks and lack of accomplishments either.

This, totally. I’m 37 and I now have zero hope left because I’m actually past it. In my 20s I still believed the whole “women will love you in your your 30s if you’re not chad because they will happily settle down for a smart guy with a good career”. It’s bullshit. Women have no wall, they do not change, they always want chad and nothing else. My depression has peaked and I see no hope for the future.

 

[mylifeistrash]

As you get older your perception of time changes. The years seem to go by faster and faster.

When you're 15 and you look back to when you were 10...it seems like forever ago.

When you're 20 looking back to when you were 15...it doesn't seem that long ago.

When you're 25 looking back on when you were 20...you wonder where the time went.

When you're 30 looking back on when you were 25...it seems like it was practically yesterday.

depends on if you're doing the same stuff over

which 99% of people are so I guess this is a pointless post

This, totally. I’m 37 and I now have zero hope left because I’m actually past it. In my 20s I still believed the whole “women will love you in your your 30s if you’re not chad because they will happily settle down for a smart guy with a good career”. It’s bullshit. Women have no wall, they do not change, they always want chad and nothing else. My depression has peaked and I see no hope for the future.

i've seen exactly zero evidence women are willing to settle under any condition

at best they'll show slight interest to a submissive cuck who will buy them shit
at best

This, totally. I’m 37 and I now have zero hope left because I’m actually past it. In my 20s I still believed the whole “women will love you in your your 30s if you’re not chad because they will happily settle down for a smart guy with a good career”. It’s bullshit. Women have no wall, they do not change, they always want chad and nothing else. My depression has peaked and I see no hope for the future.

i've seen exactly zero evidence women are willing to settle under any condition

at best they'll show slight interest to a submissive cuck who will buy them shit
at best

 

[SupremeG]

No it isn't. They obviously were not your friends to begin with. A lot of my so called 'friends' let me down and I am stronger than ever. It was good relinquishing them and cutting them out for good.

Real friends doesn't exist to me, I did cut out a lot of former "friends", but cutting out everyone would be suicide. I keep fighting for the the only friends I have left because 1) they accept me and 2) I can't go alone all the time in my life, even though it's my destination. Fuck god for creating me.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Real friends doesn't exist to me, I did cut out a lot of former "friends", but cutting out everyone would be suicide. I keep fighting for the the only friends I have left because 1) they accept me and 2) I can't go alone all the time in my life, even though it's my destination. Fuck god for creating me.

Idk, I never had a friend, ever, and I really don't want/need one. What the fuck are they good for anyway?

 

[David_the_Fugitive]

45-year-old here.....dudes, if you don't rope and actually make it beyond 30, pour yourselves into your work, make a lot of money, and take a lot of drugs. I only did number 3, and it RUINED my life. Most of my peers, with or without women, at least have gained some fulfillment from their occupations. I didn't have my first, and last so far, REAL substantial g/f until I was 35. You guys who are 18-25 out there don't give up, seriously.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

45-year-old here.....dudes, if you don't rope and actually make it beyond 30, pour yourselves into your work, make a lot of money, and take a lot of drugs. I only did number 3, and it RUINED my life. Most of my peers, with or without women, at least have gained some fulfillment from their occupations. I didn't have my first, and last so far, REAL substantial g/f until I was 35. You guys who are 18-25 out there don't give up, seriously.

You probably grew up without spending 100% of your free time in front of a screen though. I did, and it made me socially retarded on top of my normal retardation.

 

[David_the_Fugitive]

No, my "screen" was the TV playing Super Mario Bros. on Nintendo 1989 or then abouts, which will also cause social retardation.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

try being over 30

the urge to suicide is like an airhorn going off in your ear

 

[grayjedi90]

It's not just cause I'm a kissless hugless virgin, I don't really care about that anymore, I made my peace with that long ago.

But it just feels like my best years have already gone by, and I was miserable through all of them.

It's all downhill from now but it was shit and hell to begin with.

Tfw you will be 28 next month

 

[Deleted member 11032]

Real friends doesn't exist to me, I did cut out a lot of former "friends", but cutting out everyone would be suicide. I keep fighting for the the only friends I have left because 1) they accept me and 2) I can't go alone all the time in my life, even though it's my destination. Fuck god for creating me.

Well if they accept you keep them in that case. Friends are a useful tool to enter social circles. It also gives you plausible deniability to talk to girls without appearing creepy. Although I have very few friends now I'm grateful for the friends I had in the past as they allowed me to have a social life in my teens and early 20s.

Real friends doesn't exist to me, I did cut out a lot of former "friends", but cutting out everyone would be suicide. I keep fighting for the the only friends I have left because 1) they accept me and 2) I can't go alone all the time in my life, even though it's my destination. Fuck god for creating me.

Well if they accept you keep them in that case. Friends are a useful tool to enter social circles. It also gives you plausible deniability to talk to girls without appearing creepy. Although I have very few friends now I'm grateful for the friends I had in the past as they allowed me to have a social life in my teens and early 20s.