I'm not going to make a bunch of threads or post everyday, I just want to explain context. I'll try to shorten it down, I type a lot because of nonNT . The videos fucked my life, we all know that, but my goal is to rebuild. 3 things.
I want to explain why I did go on the call because it wasn't for a debate or seeking advice. It was gullibility and stupidity. I got banned on .is in july of summer break, out of curiosity I joined a bunch of servers. God shitty luck, I joined the FitXFearless server without knowing much about the owner. The members were slimy, because they acted nice, like they were "friends", but in actuality wanted to set me up. They told me that there's a "live call" where I would go on, and they reworded it in a way which convinced my gullible idiotic 17 year old self. They said "the call is 21+ though, just say you're 21", "ask fit about the surgery." All I did was exactly what I was told. I joined the livecall, I looked at the chat where one of the discord members said "ask about the surgery", and I asked about cosmetic surgery. When he asked how old are you, I should have said 17, then he would have kicked me out, but my dumbass said 21. The same discord members were laughing in the livechat and said "clipped." I was nervous on the call, because I was hesitant. After the call, I was stupid so I hanged around the same server members who ruined my life, they kept shitting on me, the 32 year old mod said I was suicidal for attention, I got banned and that was a whole shitshow.
What I want to do is take the official videos and the reuploads, reactions, taken down. Find all the copies of the videos I can, and report all of them, send emails, send dm's just try to get as much of it taken down to try to bury it. If you want to help my situation, go to the videos, dislike, report, and file the privacy/online complaint on my behalf if you want to. It's not impossible, I got the Twitter reupload (350k views) and the official Tiktok video (1.7mill views) removed. Now if someone new goes on FitxFearless's official tiktok, the video wouldn't be there. I want to get the official videos removed before my brother's graduation in June 2025.
"It was your fault for being a dumbass, case dismissed." I don't think so. This was actual public defamation.
It was also non-genuine. I went on because of gullibility, but FitXFearless intended to make it bombastic humiliation because he knew he could milk me for views, the thumbnail, making me look stupid. I was considering "rhinoplasty and otoplasty" but he blowed it in proportion; "They're telling you to get reconstruction face surgery??!" He got veneers and a hair transplant, but he's making it seem as if I'm a complete wacko for thinking about a nosejob. That's all it is. Then at the end act like he has helpful intentions, in the process making me look like the fucking idiot. He wanted the views, knew I was a vulnerable individual and would do nothing about it, so he had no problem milking me for views, not thinking about the repercussions on my life in the process.
It fucks with my mind, getting called a loser in front of millions of people, knowing every previous classmate saw that video. If the video did destroy the life and reputation of a minor, even if it's my fault for going on the call and lying about my age (I was gullible and told to), it's FitXFearless's fault for exploiting a vulnerable individual for views and not confirming they were actually of age. It's online shit until it actually affects my real life, so I think it can be taken in real life. That's why I want to sue/take legal action against FitXFearless as soon as I'm financially able to. That's my motivation, I want all of this to be compensated for. This set me back on the same level as a drug addiction. If the videos get taken down, and I get some sort of legal compensation (defamation of a minor, the emotional distress, suicidal thoughts, public humililation) at least something for 1 of these, then I consider that compensation for my situation. Even if it's just the videos being taken down on the official accounts and 500 dollars, at least something.
I want to explain why I did go on the call because it wasn't for a debate or seeking advice. It was gullibility and stupidity. I got banned on .is in july of summer break, out of curiosity I joined a bunch of servers. God shitty luck, I joined the FitXFearless server without knowing much about the owner. The members were slimy, because they acted nice, like they were "friends", but in actuality wanted to set me up. They told me that there's a "live call" where I would go on, and they reworded it in a way which convinced my gullible idiotic 17 year old self. They said "the call is 21+ though, just say you're 21", "ask fit about the surgery." All I did was exactly what I was told. I joined the livecall, I looked at the chat where one of the discord members said "ask about the surgery", and I asked about cosmetic surgery. When he asked how old are you, I should have said 17, then he would have kicked me out, but my dumbass said 21. The same discord members were laughing in the livechat and said "clipped." I was nervous on the call, because I was hesitant. After the call, I was stupid so I hanged around the same server members who ruined my life, they kept shitting on me, the 32 year old mod said I was suicidal for attention, I got banned and that was a whole shitshow.
What I want to do is take the official videos and the reuploads, reactions, taken down. Find all the copies of the videos I can, and report all of them, send emails, send dm's just try to get as much of it taken down to try to bury it. If you want to help my situation, go to the videos, dislike, report, and file the privacy/online complaint on my behalf if you want to. It's not impossible, I got the Twitter reupload (350k views) and the official Tiktok video (1.7mill views) removed. Now if someone new goes on FitxFearless's official tiktok, the video wouldn't be there. I want to get the official videos removed before my brother's graduation in June 2025.
"It was your fault for being a dumbass, case dismissed." I don't think so. This was actual public defamation.
I got the death threats, insults, mockery, people saying on Instagram and Twitter that I should kill myself. Real people in my real life saw the video, people have laughed, snickered, approached me over the video, affecting my reputation in real life. This affects my public and professional reputation as "incel" has a very negative connotation, the thumbnail is made with intent to mock me, it's a false statement to say I'm a 21 year old virgin when I was 17 years old not taking a call fully seriously because I didn't know it would be posted for millions to see. This video will always be tied to my name, I lost opportunities because of this. I can no longer be a respected individual, I'm considered a lolcow, so it destroyed my reputation before I was even legally an adult. If it destroyed my entire reputation, how is it not public defamation?
There were 2 minors in the video because I was 17 years old, and my little brother was 13 years old. It also exposed private information, as you don't want to tell the entire world you're considering cosmetic surgery.
It was also non-genuine. I went on because of gullibility, but FitXFearless intended to make it bombastic humiliation because he knew he could milk me for views, the thumbnail, making me look stupid. I was considering "rhinoplasty and otoplasty" but he blowed it in proportion; "They're telling you to get reconstruction face surgery??!" He got veneers and a hair transplant, but he's making it seem as if I'm a complete wacko for thinking about a nosejob. That's all it is. Then at the end act like he has helpful intentions, in the process making me look like the fucking idiot. He wanted the views, knew I was a vulnerable individual and would do nothing about it, so he had no problem milking me for views, not thinking about the repercussions on my life in the process.
It fucks with my mind, getting called a loser in front of millions of people, knowing every previous classmate saw that video. If the video did destroy the life and reputation of a minor, even if it's my fault for going on the call and lying about my age (I was gullible and told to), it's FitXFearless's fault for exploiting a vulnerable individual for views and not confirming they were actually of age. It's online shit until it actually affects my real life, so I think it can be taken in real life. That's why I want to sue/take legal action against FitXFearless as soon as I'm financially able to. That's my motivation, I want all of this to be compensated for. This set me back on the same level as a drug addiction. If the videos get taken down, and I get some sort of legal compensation (defamation of a minor, the emotional distress, suicidal thoughts, public humililation) at least something for 1 of these, then I consider that compensation for my situation. Even if it's just the videos being taken down on the official accounts and 500 dollars, at least something.
