Venting Even though I’m lonely I don’t get anything accomplished

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I am completely lonely on the weekends and even evenings after wage slaving. However I am just so mentally drained from the loneliness, anxiety and inceldom, that I don’t have the energy to get things done, even though I have plenty of time. Also my sleep cycle is fucked.
 
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I wish there was a community of bandits of incels. Just groups of nomads or vagabond incels. The normie life is not the life for us. Just doesn't make sense when you can't even form a family or do any normalnigger shit. We are bohemians by birth.
 
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me too , i need to learn dicipline tbh its hard to raise yourself
 
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I haven't done anything remotely productive in many, many years. Basically drink alcohole from the moment I wake up until I pass out.
 
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IamJacksBrokenHeart said:
me too , i need to learn dicipline tbh its hard to raise yourself
Again think of Maslow hierarchy of needs. If you were dying of thirst would you say you need to “learn discipline”. No you need water. Same for sex which is a basic need at the bottom of the pyramid, just like water.
 
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Ellsworth said:
Again think of Maslow hierarchy of needs. If you were dying of thirst would you say you need to “learn discipline”. No you need water. Same for sex which is a basic need at the bottom of the pyramid, just like water.
positive reinforcement is like a drug that helps you to push beyond those obstacles .
But there are many people who managed to defeat their inner demons all alone .
 
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IamJacksBrokenHeart said:
positive reinforcement is like a drug that helps you to push beyond those obstacles .
But there are many people who managed to defeat their inner demons all alone .
That’s true, unfortunately they are in the minority.
 
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I feel you boyo. I haven't had a friend in over a year, and I'm LDAR'ing hard after quitting my job.
 
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Ellsworth said:
That’s true, unfortunately they are in the minority.
Lets change that
 
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IamJacksBrokenHeart said:
positive reinforcement is like a drug that helps you to push beyond those obstacles .
But there are many people who managed to defeat their inner demons all alone .

positive reinforcement= validation= positive feedback loop= productive human being

Without it, one is fucked
 
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Warmest Black said:
I wish there was a community of bandits of incels. Just groups of nomads or vagabond incels. The normie life is not the life for us. Just doesn't make sense when you can't even form a family or do any normalnigger shit. We are bohemians by birth.
 
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Ellsworth said:
I am completely lonely on the weekends and even evenings after wage slaving. However I am just so mentally drained from the loneliness, anxiety and inceldom, that I don’t have the energy to get things done, even though I have plenty of time. Also my sleep cycle is fucked.
can very much relate to this.
wageslaving and being outside of my comfort zone is so mentally taxing that I just find myself coming home after getting off of work and drinking until i fall asleep. just to repeat it all again the next day.
this is our lives until the day we die. :feelsrope:
 
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true, on weekends im full LDAR, apart from driving my nice car, my BMW.
 
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Ellsworth said:
I am completely lonely on the weekends and even evenings after wage slaving. However I am just so mentally drained from the loneliness, anxiety and inceldom, that I don’t have the energy to get things done, even though I have plenty of time. Also my sleep cycle is fucked.
Sounds familiar
 
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Ellsworth said:
I am completely lonely on the weekends and even evenings after wage slaving. However I am just so mentally drained from the loneliness, anxiety and inceldom, that I don’t have the energy to get things done, even though I have plenty of time. Also my sleep cycle is fucked.
 
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yeah this has to be hell
 
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