Even if you find a single girl that likes you

[Inbuddhist]

It wouldn't work because you can never have the tranquility, spontaneity, sheer POWER and carelesness of knowing you have alternatives if she ever get pissy or start liking you less. It will shows on your acts, your weakness will show in how you talk to her, need her and are dependant on her. She will never feel she has to fight for you or feel jealousy (jealousy is a good fuel for trying to please/giving you her best) because she will see that you have NO ALTERNATIVES. Like Trump would say "you know it, she knows it, everybody knows it" your actions and words will always be rooted in a position of weakness. Even if you are the best actor in the world and somehow pretend to be an alpha male it will be obvious to her that you have no alternative, it doesn't matter if "olol no i'm not a denegenerate i'm okay with a oneitis" HAVING ALTERNATIVES is necessary even to keep a oneitis if you believe in that shit.

If you fight, you risk coming to her almost begging and looking pathetic like a sad child who noticed his tantrum is working with his parents, a chad will just be "meh" knowing he has alternatives and she will come back begging "sry i'm moody you know us girls become crazy on our periods haha love u chad don't ever leave me"

If you don't have alternatives it's OVER even if miraculously some girl likes you.

 

[Deleted member 60]

didn't read but all females are worthless anyways, so yeah

 

[Weirdcel]

That's not what worried me when I wasn't incelibate. I didn't care that she can find others. If a girl likes you, she will stick by you.

When I was young, I'd pursue any girl who liked me, but nowadays I don't even care. I'll distance myself if anything.

 

[Inbuddhist]

That's not what worried me when I wasn't incelibate. I didn't care that she can find others. If a girl likes you, she will stick by you.

What you don't understand is that what i'm talking about is an important parameter that will define how much she likes you and for how long.

And i didn't even talk about her ability to find others. Re-read the post lol.

What's important is that YOU have alternatives

 

[SupremeG]

Woman liking man = Friendzoned

 

[Inbuddhist]

Woman liking man = Friendzoned

In the context i mean a sexual/romantic desire, but whatever if you wanna play on words.

 

[Minjaze]

The only reason a girl would want to "date" an incel is if she wanted to cuck him.

 

[Deleted member 1269]

There's no point in having a gf or a wife as an incel. You'd be cucked almost instantly.

 

[Jockcel]

Cope

 

[VST]

It will never work because you have no experience, women find male virgins over 18 utterly disgusting.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Sadly, you're right

 

[TheRealChincel]

No...I’d fake it til I made it!

 

[theultimate341]

didn't read but all females are worthless anyways, so yeah

 

[iblamemyself]

Ikr. I have no antidote but a very long term relationship will create comfort. Better hang around a partner you know very well instead of playing the tinder for some random guy.
Also escortcelling might help "your alpha frame".
Being rich would also be a great advantage.

 

[Hunter]

true. then again all i need is ONE relationship that lasts at least a couple of months and femoids usually tend to drop the "sweet girl" facade after marriage.

 

[NeverSubmit]

You are exactly right we need to be desirable males with options

 

[forevergymcelling]

most legit thread this week

 

[Poverty Cel]

Also when if you do find a girl that isn't disgusted by your presence. Remember there's at least 30+ other guys your competiting against. So unless your somehow the best in every aspect to her other beta orbiters than you don't stand a chance

 

[Enigmatic]

Legit thread. If you have to jump through hoops to get a girl chances are she will cuck you and treat you like shit.

The most successful relationships are always the one in which the guy mogs the girl and the girl likes the guy more than the guy likes the girl.

 

[Deleted member 2429]

"girl that likes me"

"incel"

pick one

 

[Inbuddhist]

I'm talking with experience, before hairloss i could get a decent gf from time to time, but when you have no alternatives and you know if she breaks up with you you may never have a gf in a year or two or ever, it instills a kind of weakness and fear in you, the girl sees it.

 

[Garbage]

i can guarantee i will never get a gf in my life no girl has ever liked me

 

[Diet_Choke]

This is a common theme in PUA circles, it's called "needyness."

The solution is supposed to be "abundance" but if you don't have "abundance" then you're stuck with "needyness."

 

[Inbuddhist]

This is a common theme in PUA circles, it's called "needyness."

The solution is supposed to be "abundance" but if you don't have "abundance" then you're stuck with "needyness."

That's a good way to describe it.

 

[Letting Go]

This is a common theme in PUA circles, it's called "needyness."

The solution is supposed to be "abundance" but if you don't have "abundance" then you're stuck with "needyness."

This is true. I would probably be more confident if I lived in a country with affordable, safe, and legal prostitution. With that fallback option on the table, there would be reduced pressure for me to succeed with regular women.