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LDAR Don’t approach her

When did you stop approaching women?

  • 1 year ago

    Votes: 7 11.7%
  • 3+ years ago

    Votes: 13 21.7%
  • I never did

    Votes: 30 50.0%
  • I’m going to stop

    Votes: 7 11.7%
  • I won’t stop

    Votes: 3 5.0%

  • Total voters
    60
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Some gen z women (realistically 1999-2017) and everyone generation after will think like this millennial black women who is aggressive out of fear and lack of chad or tyrone look at that like number imagine if a white woman posted it :feelsseriously: . Remember they get to choose their destiny and they have the rights to do everything that hurts them in the end and you get to watch for entertainment .Don’t approach her at the bar,park,job,grocery,transit, and if she’s in danger you might not want to approach. Its really going to be it never began for a lot of future young men soon.
 
Do people actually approach women in coffee shops and shit like that? It seems autistic as fuck to me. I'd feel cringe doing it in a bar lmao.
 
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My friends like being approached, but it's true most people engage in relationships within their own category. Some of you guys can go for the less pretty first and go up as you gain more confidence!
 
I might start again to make women uncomfortable. Unironically I hate them so much.
 
That sheboon is telling you not to approach her in a grocery store because she's busy looting I mean shopping u silly inkel
 
My friends like being approached, but it's true most people engage in relationships within their own category. Some of you guys can go for the less pretty first and go up as you gain more confidence!
You're a fucking women I knew it!

@Fat Link if you'd so kindly
 
My friends like being approached, but it's true most people engage in relationships within their own category. Some of you guys can go for the less pretty first and go up as you gain more confidence!
Wat
 
There's only one based answer and you know what it is.
 
The time I stopped with the approach BS is when I started to realize/gain enough self-awareness to see how cringe it was, both viewing it from my own perspective and the perspective of the women I was pursuing. Why the fuck would some woman want some undesirable male she has no attraction toward walking up to her and talking to her? You have to have no self-awareness and maybe even a low IQ literally if you persistently approach women and think it's optimal. Anyone here sentient enough should realize just how wrong it feels the first few times.

I mean just think about it ... Other than her being extremely nice, what the hell can you realistically expect from approaching a woman? She's suddenly going to start finding you attractive and you'll both fall for each other? Yeah, wake up from that Disney movie kids... It pretty much never works that way, plain and simple. It's cringe, either to both you and her/others around, or just to her if you lack sentience/awareness to see how futile or ridiculous the whole ordeal is when you truly understand how people and life works deeply enough. If it don't come on to you first, it can fuck off -- same in life applies to women/girls and any opportunity really. You can't increase your luck -- all you can do is live the hand you're given basically in life. You can try and work around your obvious limitations, but good luck if you literally think being a PUA is worth it.

LMAO
 
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My friends like being approached, but it's true most people engage in relationships within their own category. Some of you guys can go for the less pretty first and go up as you gain more confidence!
This doesnt work.:(
 
If she really wanted to, that cute girl would've approached you. You wouldn't have had to do anything
'Oh just go up to her bro she's not paying attention to you cause she's shy bro' jfl
 
Do people actually approach women in coffee shops and shit like that? It seems autistic as fuck to me. I'd feel cringe doing it in a bar lmao.
I’ve tried that shit a million times and it never works. People who say the whole “it’s just a numbers game bro” are full of crap.

Maybe that would work if you’re Henry Cavill or some such Chad, but my observation is women are repulsed and disgusted and annoyed (etc) when someone they don’t find attractive “dares” try to talk to them.

So many women exaggerate (I honestly think they believe their own bullshit) and tell these ridiculous stories about how they were ”””harassed””” when really an ugly guy just tried to strike conversation or ask them out.

Sort of related tons of women lie about having been raped because it’s something no one can disprove and it’s an easy way to farm sympathy and attention and to convince others “you’ve had it hard and are a strong person” blah blah. Really they’re probably spoiled as fuck … because they’re a woman in modern western society.
That sheboon is telling you not to approach her in a grocery store because she's busy looting I mean shopping u silly inkel
Kek
If she really wanted to, that cute girl would've approached you. You wouldn't have had to do anything
'Oh just go up to her bro she's not paying attention to you cause she's shy bro' jfl
It’s definitely true that if a woman is interested they’ll make that known and make it easy for you to ask them out. Too many guys push too hard for too long, she’s just not into you bruv
 
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Autistic, can't even approach women:cryfeels:
 
My friends like being approached, but it's true most people engage in relationships within their own category. Some of you guys can go for the less pretty first and go up as you gain more confidence!
You have chad friends? :feelswhat:
 
If she doesn't approach you and beg you to let her serve you as your personal cumdumpster it's over
I know, the only reason women talk to me it's either about a lecture/exam at uni or they ask for directions
 
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These are the same women who will tell you to leave your basement/forest and go talk to women, then tell you not to approach them.

Women's rights were a mistake.
 
People never approached but claim they are incel :feelsohh:
My heart starts racing thinking about approaching women, I don’t think I can do it irl without being drugged up.
Learn pick up and canned material to gain confidence
 
I think... the approaching thing only really works if your mind is quite focused on looks. Not that I don't care at all about looks but I really am more about personality. Someone I am similar to, etc.

I just can't tell that about MOST people. Some kind of advertise their personalities a bit, so that's maybe different.

But yeah to me... a woman is just... another stranger. I'm the kind of person who really benefits from an environment where I can just socialise with people including women, and then inevitably over time relationships will form.
 
Braindead if you approach (regardless if cold or warm) without
receiving any IOIs whatsoever (well, unless you want the little of what's left from your self-esteem to get destroyed :feelsaww::feelshaha::feelsokman::feelsautistic::feelshmm::feelsEhh::feelsYall::feelsclown::feelsgah::forcedsmile::):waitwhat:;):D:p:lul: )
 
My friends like being approached, but it's true most people engage in relationships within their own category. Some of you guys can go for the less pretty first and go up as you gain more confidence!
foid spotted. horrible advice btw
Braindead if you approach (regardless if cold or warm) without
receiving any IOIs
 
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Some gen z women (realistically 1999-2017) and everyone generation after will think like this millennial black women who is aggressive out of fear and lack of chad or tyrone look at that like number imagine if a white woman posted it :feelsseriously: . Remember they get to choose their destiny and they have the rights to do everything that hurts them in the end and you get to watch for entertainment .Don’t approach her at the bar,park,job,grocery,transit, and if she’s in danger you might not want to approach. Its really going to be it never began for a lot of future young men soon.
Translation: Only Chad can approach me
 
Never fucking do, rejection is worse than murder
 
My friends like being approached, but it's true most people engage in relationships within their own category. Some of you guys can go for the less pretty first and go up as you gain more confidence!
Reported for "toxic positivity" & having a vagine
 

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