Maybe a controversial topic and not everyone will agree but I still want to share some thoughts.
With all the incel talk regarding female hypergamy, women seeking top 20% of men & treating others as invisible, I mostly agree with this stuff, but I have always felt like there's some important detail being missed, not acknowledged, and the actual truth is even more bleak.
I think a reason why a confusion arises is that incel community, being male (I think yall agree that "femcel" is not a thing), projects their well-known concept of love onto females for whom it is unfamiliar, which leads to misconception known as "foids love Chads". Which is not quite true. In fact, most women only truly love themselves: their body, their comfort, overwhelming attention & affirmation they receive from men (which is hated at the same time), free stuff they could get from simps, and emotions and sexual experience delivered to them by Chad. But usually, none of these men receive anything meaningful in return. The only people women are capable of giving their love to are their children.
This is proven by various independent observations:
If you don't agree with the subject, please provide reallife examples where a woman shows genuine love for a man in modern society.
With all the incel talk regarding female hypergamy, women seeking top 20% of men & treating others as invisible, I mostly agree with this stuff, but I have always felt like there's some important detail being missed, not acknowledged, and the actual truth is even more bleak.
I think a reason why a confusion arises is that incel community, being male (I think yall agree that "femcel" is not a thing), projects their well-known concept of love onto females for whom it is unfamiliar, which leads to misconception known as "foids love Chads". Which is not quite true. In fact, most women only truly love themselves: their body, their comfort, overwhelming attention & affirmation they receive from men (which is hated at the same time), free stuff they could get from simps, and emotions and sexual experience delivered to them by Chad. But usually, none of these men receive anything meaningful in return. The only people women are capable of giving their love to are their children.
This is proven by various independent observations:
- There are vast communities of women who spread hatred towards ALL men and genuinely don't want to do anything with us (women with low libido, lesbians, 4b movement). There is no such thing for their male counterparts: MGTOW and incels still desperately crave for female attention & reciprocity, or are depressed due to absence of it.
- You will hardly ever see a woman saying something positive about a man in a romantic context, say they have a crush on a guy, say they're into a guy, say they wanna date a guy, etc. However you can often see rude & unreasonable generalisations like "man vs bear" debate. It seems like foids generally view men from a presumption of guilt stance.
- If you google "what do you feel when you are in love" and observe people's responses from sites such as Reddit/Quora, etc., the experiences vary significantly depending on the gender. While men manifest signs of actual affection & commitment (e.g. spending money on their partner's needs, solving their problems, sometimes being sacrificial of sorts), women talk about extremely pretentious, superficial and performative shit which once again revolves around themselves. Smth like "I like to feel vulnerable around him"
- There is a whole sub dedicated to this phenomenon that miracoulously survived the anti-men purges, plenty of useful material out there. (Prepare to go beyond blackpill though, you have been warned.)
r/WomenAreNotIntoMen - I guess this phenomenon was less present in pre-digital/pre-Internet/pre-social media era. One can compare it to gaming: during early 2000s, Internet access was scarce and every gaming CD was precious and valuable. Nowadays, with all the entertainment available online, the bar to get somebody's attention has risen much higher. The same happened to women, especially gen Z / younger millenials who since their early years have learned that all men are expendable & replaceable, and operate with this knowledge in mind. They became over-saturated with male attention and thus incapable of holding genuine feelings to anyone.
If you don't agree with the subject, please provide reallife examples where a woman shows genuine love for a man in modern society.
