Serious Does longterm inceldom destroy a man's pairbonding ability?

[Cryotron]

i can't even make friends, let alone meet women, form relationship. I'm just an alien, observer.

 

[ElephantMan]

i can't even make friends, let alone meet women, form relationship. I'm just an alien, observer.

I am an alien observer also .It really surprises me how the sex havers are even meeting females...It seems they are living in a completely different reality than us incels ..This is one of the few things I don't understand about my own inceldom ..Even meeting females is nearly impossible, let alone having sex ...

 

[Cryotron]

I am an alien observer also .It really surprises me how the sex havers are even meeting females...It seems they are living in a completely different reality than us incels ..This is one of the few things I don't understand about my own inceldom ..Even meeting females is nearly impossible, let alone having sex ...

when i was in school, college, most of these dudes get to know females from their social circles or just met them at clubs, work, college, university etc, at least it was like that before popularity of dating websites. They''re NT and low inhib enough to initiate stuff.

 

[Waterbender5]

Agreed

Me too but I doubt just inceldom destroyed mine, bullying from everyone ostracizing and having a horrible life fucked up my mind

Yep

 

[Waterbender5]

I am an alien observer also .It really surprises me how the sex havers are even meeting females...It seems they are living in a completely different reality than us incels ..This is one of the few things I don't understand about my own inceldom ..Even meeting females is nearly impossible, let alone having sex ...

super relatable.

 

[Waterbender5]

Yeah, I've noticed this about myself in the last few years. Every little thing they do or say, or even just the sound of their voices sets me off and makes me want to punch a wall. It's like listening to a whining child in a restaurant.

described it perfectly

 

[KrazedKanga]

When my family was renting in my late teenager years our Nigger neighbour got dog and it was in the shared back garden .... it used to be a guard dog it'd drive me out the back garden when i went there. The Housing Association sent round a council animal welfare officer after I'd bought an electronic canine deterrent which didn't work and then the Nigger accused me of using it and unnerving the dog .
The Nigger mentioned my schizophrenia to Foid officer and then any question i asked the animal welfare officer went on the Nigger side .
She told me to ask the neighbour to bring the canine in when i was using the back garden.
In the end i managed to befriend the canine i could sit in the back garden and read a book knowing i had the dog for protection .
Never was able to bond with that Nigga though me and that dog got on fine . However after a six month stint in the Mental Hospital i found out that Nigger moved and i admit i did miss that dog friendship .

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Think there is a lot of emotional bias in there. When you are miserable, it can feel impossible to even hope. There is comfort in embracing your misery, wallowing in it. A bit like a mental version of cutting your own arms up.

But realistically, if a cute girl was giving you positive attention, spending time with you, laughing at your jokes, touching you, letting you touch her... pretty sure the majority of even the most broken, black-pilled men would suddenly find the capacity for happiness again.

 

[zashternity]

I've been an incel for over 27 years and it destroys much more than that

 

[Darth Aries]

Yes. It destroys everything, the very soul until nothing is left but a shell of a man.

 

[overbeforeitbegan]

I'm in the same boat, age 35 and have never even had a female friend. I have no idea how to act around women even how to breathe

 

[aswellfella]

Men don’t have “pair bonding” in the same way women do. If you have a girlfriend and fuck another foid, you’ll still treat your girlfriend the same and not think any less of her. For women cheating it’s a different story.

Like even if you fucked escorts on the side you wouldn’t divorce your wife. But a woman with 3+ body count WILL divorce Chad for very little reason.

Women are the ones who need to pair bond because they are not mentally capable of forming non-dominance-related friendships with other people. For women it’s all about being owned by the right master. For men it’s about having something the fuck that isn’t completely miserable to hang out with.

 

[wereq]

Yes. It destroys everything, the very soul until nothing is left but a shell of a man.

 

[Caesercel]

For me it's a different issue. I've lost a good part of my horniness. Couldn't care about pair bonding to begin with because I did not think about having "love" or "emotional connection" with women even when I was younger. But I was definitely horny. And let me tell you becoming less horny will affect the kind of relationship you'll eventually have with a woman