Discussion Does anyone hate the hyper-sexuality in society but also (hypocritically) want a piece of it?

[HowCanSheSlap]

I hate western degeneracy and the toxic sex-positive feminism we see in society. I literally have a problem with 95% of the way women dress where I live - even though its a relatively cold country (the 5% I don't are grannies who are to old to wear slutty clothing). I hate its okay to wear yoga pants or crop tops to the point where its become normalized. The fact that you can have sex with multiple partners before you 'settle down' is considered normal I find gross and disgusting.. At the same time, I will hypocritically admit I also want to be a part of this. I am a one-time escortcel, I'm grateful whores exist - I would love to be in a gangbang with several women and I am also grateful whenever I go out I get to see some great body figures in all their varying shapes and sizes. Unlike a lot of you guys, the idea that I'm 'missing out' doesn't cross my mind.

Although I know all this sexuality and sexual liberation is wrong and I hate on it, living in this society I'm happy at the same time I can have sex-filled lustful dream I otherwise may not have had.

 

[Robtical]

Not really, I'll be happy if I just got one virgin foid that's attractive to me

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

i would like to have some casual sex

 

[ordinaryotaku]

I don't want to really participate in it at all. I've started to think and I'm genuinely afraid of the thought of losing my virginity to the wrong girl and one I don't love -- a slutty bitch -- despite it never being able to happen anyways.

 

[Deleted member 15737]

No, I don’t want anything to do with this fucked up society. Most men have fapped so many thousands of times to gorgeous women that they can’t even get off to an average woman. Your dopamine receptors are fucked.

Imagine living 100 years ago, never seen a vagina or tits in your life and it’s your wedding night. Even if your first time having sex sucks, the shear amount of dopamine releasing from that event would have been amazing. Now 13 year olds have seen more tits, ass and vagina than my grandfather ever saw.

Society is overly sexualized and desensitized to sex. Something that was only done with people you loved in the past is now done with people you don’t event know their names.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

It's not hypocritical lol, we're wired to want to spread our seed. Our desires come from having sex rubbed in our faces all day

 

[Pinpoint]

People's preferences are not their true ones. Just the ones that represent the position they're stuck with. Like a short person saying they prefer smaller cars. Even though it's a pretext for wanting cars that don't make them look pathetic.

 

[metabuxx]

Yep. I definitely want a piece of it. I don't like women dressing immodestly now because whenever I see them I know I can't get any of it. But if were a Chad I wouldn't have any problem with their hyper sexuality since I would have also been a part of it.

 

[HowCanSheSlap]

It's not hypocritical lol, we're wired to want to spread our seed. Our desires come from having sex rubbed in our faces all day

Sex is a natural instinct sure. I'm not disputing that. But the unprecedented levels of sexual freedom and prevalence of it in media and culture is disturbing. That was the point of my thread. Even though it's disturbing, I feel like I want to be a part of it.

 

[Deleted member 23656]

You would a liar if you said otherwise

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Sex is a natural instinct sure. I'm not disputing that. But the unprecedented levels of sexual freedom and prevalence of it in media and culture is disturbing. That was the point of my thread. Even though it's disturbing, I feel like I want to be a part of it.

I understand, I just don't think "hypocritical" is the right word

 

[DunSorbus]

I would rather everyone be forced to stop partaking in this degeneracy and we go back to the traditional system rather than me having a piece of it

 

[based_meme]

I want no part in this degeneracy. I want to see this filth cleansed in a mushroom cloud.

My regret is that I participated in this degeneracy through porn consumption.

 

[HowCanSheSlap]

No, I don’t want anything to do with this fucked up society. Most men have fapped so many thousands of times to gorgeous women that they can’t even get off to an average woman. Your dopamine receptors are fucked.

Imagine living 100 years ago, never seen a vagina or tits in your life and it’s your wedding night. Even if your first time having sex sucks, the shear amount of dopamine releasing from that event would have been amazing. Now 13 year olds have seen more tits, ass and vagina than my grandfather ever saw.

Society is overly sexualized and desensitized to sex. Something that was only done with people you loved in the past is now done with people you don’t event know their names.

High IQ. I think your right. At the same time I feel I'm fucked beyond repair. I want to fulfil a fantasy the modern sexualized world has fed me but can never attain.

I would rather everyone be forced to stop partaking in this degeneracy and we go back to the traditional system rather than me having a piece of it

I know the 'traditional system' is better. But honestly If you gave me a choice saying I could take part in degeneracy today or go back to a traditional system - I feel like I would have my sexual urges more fulfilled in the former.

 

[Discipline]

I just want a lovely gf.

 

[Shigechi]

I think it's inevitable since we are being bombarded by sex imagery all the time, saying how good it is and how you are a loser for missing it, not directly of course.

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Not really, I'll be happy if I just got one virgin foid that's attractive to me

 

[Deleted member 15737]

High IQ. I think your right. At the same time I feel I'm fucked beyond repair. I want to fulfil a fantasy the modern sexualized world has fed me but can never attain.

I know the 'traditional system' is better. But honestly If you gave me a choice saying I could take part in degeneracy today or go back to a traditional system - I feel like I would have my sexual urges more fulfilled in the former.

The reality is, monogamy is dead except for very small pockets of very religious women, but even then you are walking in a mind field with modern marriage laws. Modern marriage is cucked beyond belief. It used to be signing your life and money away for access to a virgin woman to raise your kids and adultery was a criminal offense. Now she can just fuck another dude, take your money and kids and nobodies considered at fault, jfl.

As long as she has a smart phone, she has access to millions of men and their attention. It’s like going to a bar with your wife and she talks to every guy in the bar. Even soy cucks would feel uncomfortable with that, but when it’s hidden on her phone you won’t know until you catch her fucking some other dude, maybe months later.

Honestly, MGTOW is really the only option in the 21st century. Maybe a girlfriend in a state without common law marriage and marry her in a religious ceremony but don’t sign a marriage contract.

I’ve just stopped carrying about women myself, the juice isn’t worth the squeeze, especially for a low value male that might get a landwhale if he’s lucky.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Isn't that what being an incel is?

 

[Robtical]

I would rather everyone be forced to stop partaking in this degeneracy and we go back to the traditional system rather than me having a piece of it

That would be the most fair for everyone instead of a small group of fags, I mean chads, getting everything.

 

[TINMAN]

Perhaps it has to do with the fact that I am still a virgin, but all of this degeneracy just seems disgusting and unappealing to me. It's pretty likely the case that if I got the chance to try it myself that I would change my mind though.

 

[Subhuman Currycel]

No, I don’t want anything to do with this fucked up society. Most men have fapped so many thousands of times to gorgeous women that they can’t even get off to an average woman. Your dopamine receptors are fucked.

Imagine living 100 years ago, never seen a vagina or tits in your life and it’s your wedding night. Even if your first time having sex sucks, the shear amount of dopamine releasing from that event would have been amazing. Now 13 year olds have seen more tits, ass and vagina than my grandfather ever saw.

Society is overly sexualized and desensitized to sex. Something that was only done with people you loved in the past is now done with people you don’t event know their names.

Real talk drop the pornography degeneracy that shits on the neuroplasticy of our brains. JFL at thinking you can satisfy one of the most innate and complex biological desires with a screen. Porn is deadass the spawn of Satan and (((them))).

 

[HowCanSheSlap]

Isn't that what being an incel is?

I think its a major fault line within inceldom. Some of us seek to go back to a more traditional understanding of sex and relationships whereby our exposure to sex and the opposite sex is kept to a minimum. We all marry virgins who remain loyal to us for the rest of their lives. On the other hand, some others are not too bothered with the sexualized nature of society, just feel like they've got the rough end of the stick, and if foids were nicer rather than chase after Chads there would be no problems.

I'm in the middle. I dislike the sexualized and degenerate state of society, yet at the same time I'm a hypocrite and want to be a part of it.

 

[bait____]

Not at all,i would love to be a part of it instead to be a member on this forum.

 

[Deleted member 15737]

Real talk drop the pornography degeneracy that shits on the neuroplasticy of our brains. JFL at thinking you can satisfy one of the most innate and complex biological desires with a screen. Porn is deadass the spawn of Satan and (((them))).

Truth, but I don’t blame incels for indulging in it since we don’t have any other release for sexual frustration.

It’s when you realize that Chad’s and Normies will jerk off to porn instead of having sex with their girlfriends, that’s when porn becomes destructive. It really destroys your brains and makes you numb.

 

[Subhuman Currycel]

Truth, but I don’t blame incels for indulging in it since we don’t have any other release for sexual frustration.

It’s when you realize that Chad’s and Normies will jerk off to porn instead of having sex with their girlfriends, that’s when porn becomes destructive. It really destroys your brains and makes you numb.

If I ever had a partner I wouldn’t glance at porn even if I don’t already, it’s a gateway into self destruction of mental health marriages leads to degeneracy.

 

[Deleted member 5712]

I want to be a sexual being but I never wanted to be hyper-sexual if that makes any sense.
I'm from a religious background and as far back as I can remember I was rammed into thinking good boys become good men and good girls date good boys and then become good women for that good man. Regardless of my upbringing I still had this instinctual need or want that I gravitate towards a more traditional society/setting. As a teen I wouldn't have minded if I came upon a threesome. I wouldn't have minded fucking a different girl every week. Being invited to parties. Getting drunk. Doing drugs.

But in my heart of hearts I always knew I never really wanted that. I wanted a quiet life with my virgin wife who would give me 2 beautiful children. And that's the honest truth of what I had really hoped for when I was about 14/15 not going to lie.

Sadly, I was not apart of either and now I'm heading into my 40s and going to die soon. Funny how normies go on and on about how Life is a miracle and that we are lucky to be born. Sure doesn't feel that way from my end..

 

[Galleo]

I wouldn't mind it if it were fair.

 

[Bane of Arthropods]

You would a liar if you said otherwise

 

[MaxZM98]

the problem is female hypergamy. we see all this hyper-sexualisation and it pisses us off because these girls wouldnt give us the time of day. it's like hanging candy infront of a child and never letting him have any, which is just cruel.

 

[Teutonic Knight]

You confirmed that what I thought about Muslims was true. Muslims want this. Their religion doesn't teach them to be volcels.

 

[HowCanSheSlap]

You confirmed that what I thought about Muslims was true. Muslims want this. Their religion doesn't teach them to be volcels.

I never said it promotes volcels. On the contrary, it encourages marriage and although it doesn't promote degeneracy, it recognizes the need for sex (especially in men) although it should be a private affair.

It is ambivalent towards volcels and incels. They are neither looked down upon nor praised like celibate popes or nuns in Christianity.

 

[Deleted member 22571]

I hate it tbh. I hate sluts, I'd never sleep around even if I was Chad.

 

[Deleted member 18214]

i would like to have some casual sex

 

[steel_reserve]

You seem unable to distinguish between your desires (instinctual/unconscious) and your principles or values (conscious/rational). Consider a reformed alcoholic who's successfully abstained for years, tho the lower parts of him still crave alcohol. Does his craving make him a hypocrite? It's one thing to desire, another to act. Only the active betrayal of one's principles can make a hypocrite.

 

[ShyManlet]

Not at all,i would love to be a part of it instead to be a member on this forum.

 

[Deleted member 21514]

I would prefer to have a romantic relationship than to fuck a lot of disgusting whores tbh

 

[LostInTheStatic]

Not really, I'll be happy if I just got one virgin foid that's attractive to me

 

[TuxDix]

Just want one faithful and compatible looksmatch but I guess thats too much to ask for these days. Sucks being a romantic type.

 

[FinnCel]

Having a piece would make life more tolerable but I would prefer not having hypergamy

 

[BigHeadCel]

would have been cool as a teenager, but now its too little too late