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Serious Does anyone else just lose all attraction for a girl when you find out she had a prior sexual partner (or multiple)?

ordinaryotaku

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If I was in the position to date, I would even hate thinking about how a potential girlfriend had a boyfriend, even if she was still a virgin. It's just an instant turn off to me. I refuse to watch porn with men in it, I only like looking at just women in a sexually explicit manner. I hate watching people have sex or watching anyone have any softer intimate relations, I want myself and myself only to be in those situations. Dating someone who was in those situations with other men is a sickening thought to me.

Nowadays, 99% of girls by 14-16 are having sex or had sex with their Chad boyfriends. On a couple Discord servers I was invited to many years ago with other normies in them, there were multiple girls closer to my age talking about losing their virginities at young ages. This was back in 2016-2017 when I was 16-17 years old.

I will admit, even late bloomer Chads get the short end of the stick in this category. There are many cases of guys who look sub-6 in high school, but the stars somehow align, and their bone structure develops better later in life once they are in their 20s (natural male facial development doesn't stop until 24-25), which allows them to be sexually successful with women, but not successful with ideal women in the slightest, due to them losing their virginities and having boyfriends at earlier ages. This might sound like a cope, but some of you are still young (under 22-23) and have this potential, and I won't blame you even if you do ascend to Chad and still aren't happy, because I would be applicable in that scenario, too.

If you aren't/weren't Chad in your first couple years of high school, you are absolutely fucked for the rest of your life and have to settle for already used women. Gone are the days of Silent Generationers and Boomers having their "high school sweethearts" where they were each other's first, and one and only, back some decades ago, now women just jump onto the first Chad cock they see the second they are teenagers.

Very fucking unfortunate.
 
Khanivore

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OP is a volcel, i only get a boner for a woman who had 10+ sexual partners
 
ordinaryotaku

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OP is a volcel, i only get a boner for a woman who had 10+ sexual partners
It would only make me a volcel if I actively denied a woman which fit the criteria, which I have not.
 
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High Autistic Thread
I can relate but finding a virgin nowadays is impossible
 
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Reminds me off Chris Chans Expectations off a Boyfriendfree Girl :feelskek:
 
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if she's had a boyfriend before, even if she's a virgin, it makes me sick.
 
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Good post. You managed to put into words exactly what I've always thought.
The thought of my partner having an ex-boyfriend(s) makes me sick and angry. Even the word "ex" makes me roll my eyes. To think that someone else got to take her virginity or be her first kiss or first bf makes me lose all interest in the foid (not that I've ever gotten close to ascending, even with a used up whore). I can't fathom how there are soyfags and normies that date and marry foids with multiple body counts or hoe phases. Maybe it's an autistic thing but I can't imagine loving a toilet with a past before me. Her past would be weighing on my mood and making me constantly irritable. They're only good for a pump and dump.
 
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If she isn't a virgin, she will constantly be comparing you to her previous boyfriends in every regard. It will feel like you're in a constant competition that's impossible to win.
 
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No, I don’t lose attraction, just the little respect I may have had for her.
 
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Not really, I assume most people my age have had sex and I'm the exception, so that whole virginity thing doesn't mean much to me. Plus it's not like anything really changes when anyone loses their virginity other than, well, they know what sex is like.
 
ordinaryotaku

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If she isn't a virgin, she will constantly be comparing you to her previous boyfriends in every regard. It will feel like you're in a constant competition that's impossible to win.
Yup, this is 100% factual.
 
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OP when he visits the only place where women are still virgins
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I'd still pump and dump but yeah I can't have any kind of meaningful attraction for a girl if she's been defiled by someone in the past
 
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I'm going to college in a few months and even then it's brutal if I do ascend because i missed out on teen love
 
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Cope or die

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More retard low iq "muh virgins" nonsense. :feelstastyman: :feelsclown:
 
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I'm going to college in a few months and even then it's brutal if I do ascend because i missed out on teen love
Yup, many such cases. I felt the same way before I went off to college a few years ago.
 
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its a turn off for me if women are into REAL MEN, so that makes me a hentaisexual
 
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Sort of.. yes, I don’t want to lose my virginity to some girl isn’t a virgin herself
 
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Sort of.. yes, I don’t want to lose my virginity to some girl isn’t a virgin herself
ya good luck finding a virgin foid in 2023
 
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ya good luck finding a virgin foid in 2023
Particularly one that's a 5/10 or more!! I'm 26 KHHV no social life since I was 13, so my chances are 1 in 300 million. I'll win the lottery first
 
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I don't care if she has an ex as long as it's some LDR online thing
 
92 drowsiness?

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Not really, I assume most people my age have had sex and I'm the exception, so that whole virginity thing doesn't mean much to me. Plus it's not like anything really changes when anyone loses their virginity other than, well, they know what sex is like.
search for a thing called telegony.
 
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If I was in the position to date, I would even hate thinking about how a potential girlfriend had a boyfriend, even if she was still a virgin. It's just an instant turn off to me. I refuse to watch porn with men in it, I only like looking at just women in a sexually explicit manner. I hate watching people have sex or watching anyone have any softer intimate relations, I want myself and myself only to be in those situations. Dating someone who was in those situations with other men is a sickening thought to me.

Nowadays, 99% of girls by 14-16 are having sex or had sex with their Chad boyfriends. On a couple Discord servers I was invited to many years ago with other normies in them, there were multiple girls closer to my age talking about losing their virginities at young ages. This was back in 2016-2017 when I was 16-17 years old.

I will admit, even late bloomer Chads get the short end of the stick in this category. There are many cases of guys who look sub-6 in high school, but the stars somehow align, and their bone structure develops better later in life once they are in their 20s (natural male facial development doesn't stop until 24-25), which allows them to be sexually successful with women, but not successful with ideal women in the slightest, due to them losing their virginities and having boyfriends at earlier ages. This might sound like a cope, but some of you are still young (under 22-23) and have this potential, and I won't blame you even if you do ascend to Chad and still aren't happy, because I would be applicable in that scenario, too.

If you aren't/weren't Chad in your first couple years of high school, you are absolutely fucked for the rest of your life and have to settle for already used women. Gone are the days of Silent Generationers and Boomers having their "high school sweethearts" where they were each other's first, and one and only, back some decades ago, now women just jump onto the first Chad cock they see the second they are teenagers.

Very fucking unfortunate.
No. I don't have much of a choice and I fantasize fucking MILFs
 

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