Serious Does anyone else feel like they don't fit in here?

[JustAnotherCynic]

I feel like an outcast, to be honest. I shouldn't; I am basically a NEET except I study, have literally zero contacts, have no hobbies, and have never even held hands with a woman. And yet, I strangely feel left out. Like I am at the corner of the party even though I am like all of you.

I don't know. I just want attention, to be honest; I feel like I don't belong anywhere. I could vanish, and nobody would notice. Even among the losers, I am a loser.

Maybe I am truly the ultimate incel, so incel that I am an incel among other incels.

 

[ESL]

Maybe I am truly the ultimate incel, so incel that I am an incel among other incels.

@Truest truecel
thoughts?

 

[zd60]

I feel like a outcast everywhere

 

[lnceI]

Yes

 

[drowningindenial]

Even among the losers, I am a loser.

 

[kerberos41]

Go to the sewer, brocel. There won't be anyone who ignores you there. No matter what you post, they will reply to your avi.

 

[anon65]

If you have nothing and nobody at all you can make friends usually easily through some online games.

 

[Poindexter]

I feel like an outcast everywhere

It's the one thing i'll never get use to

 

[JustAnotherCynic]

If you have nothing and nobody at all you can make friends usually easily through some online games.

I simply don't know how to talk to people, and all the people in the games I play are underage.

 

[Midnight Animal]

Yes and No.

 

[Grodd]

Yes and No.

 

[anon65]

I simply don't know how to talk to people, and all the people in the games I play are underage.

I can use Dayz as an example. If you find a community server with nice people who don't KOS, walk around until you find someone and just say "hey wanna stick together" then go with them. You don't have to talk about much more than the game itself.

 

[Hoor Al-Ayn]

yes and for good reason

come to the sewers

 

[Teru Mikami]

We all do

 

[Epedaphic]

Ah man. Sorry you are feeling this way even here
Do you like being on the forum? Or some aspects of it?

 

[doomed2failio]

Yea. When I'm in groups or online like in team chat I just talk to entertain myself. If it isnt worth talking to entertain myself I feel like an outcast. So talk only about stuff you want to or when you want to. That's lt least one of my copes around the outcast feeling. I just then ignore the outcast part.
What ends up happening is people tend to only talk to their small group and being outsider to many groups is better than being an outsider to one group that you keep following around.

 

[Qizarate]

I actually don't want to belong here. I do my max to ascend

 

[JustAnotherCynic]

Ah man. Sorry you are feeling this way even here
Do you like being on the forum? Or some aspects of it?

I like the forum since you are all very honest regarding dating, unlike other places, but there is way too much ragebait and people trying to be edgy. It's like the opposite of virtue signaling.

 

[Animecel2D]

they will reply to your avi.

 

[ESL]

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[boh]

Feel the same to a certain degree.
I can relate a lot, but I do sort of suck at talking to people, at least through text.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

you're not supposed to care if you fit in here or not, you either do or you don't and you aren't acting like a fag or a fakecel so there's no reason why anyone here has any reason to hate you

 

[SlayerSlayer]

the whole point of this place is to get away with things you cant in real life tbh

 

[antisocialcel]

except I study

Social mogs me

 

[Trident]

The less "normal" you're in the head the more likely you won't fit in anywhere. Even the ugliest, shortest NT incels will always see you as other kind, you're not one of them, not narcissistic, not machiavellian enough.

 

[Epedaphic]

I like the forum since you are all very honest regarding dating, unlike other places, but there is way too much ragebait and people trying to be edgy. It's like the opposite of virtue signaling.

Ah yeah, I really don’t like the ragebait and edgeposting either. And yeah it’s rare to find somewhere that men can be honest about our romantic struggles these days

 

[Vakasneb3856]

I think you might be feeling natural dejection. well natural for us that is from the world. Don't really put too much thought into it, just be honest about what you have to say really. I mean if you change your name or AVI theme every week it can be a bit confusing.

 

[PersonalityChad]

Yes, I feel like an outcast even here

 

[hapakatt]

Your post resonated with me. It's very frustrating wheny you can't fit in anywhere no matter what, even with other outcasts who share your troubles.

Like I am at the corner of the party even though I am like all of you.

I could vanish, and nobody would notice. Even among the losers, I am a loser.

This is the brutal thing. I have to avoid thinking about it, or else it makes me want to rope more.