Do you think your inceldom is to build your character?

[Midwestcel]

Maybe its a test to build inner strength?

 

[lightskin2thousand0]

It is too much, i thought that too for a while, and it just doesn’t explain enough.

 

[WawelDragon1683]

Nope. My inceldom absolutely broke me. Mentally and physically. It didn't make me stronger at all.

 

[bananapile69]

There are 2 options to deal with inceldom:
1) Break down mentally like @WawelDragon1683 just explained, and live an existence of coping.
2) Become completely numb/stoic.You won't experience pain and suffering anymore. But you lose all your passion, desire, happiness and your ability to love.

 

[Incline]

I like this particular quote that I saw on some cheap wallpaper once, don't know where it is from but its quite pleasant even if superficial. It goes like this "Face the darkness. It's a test of your courage".

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Sometimes I consider that if I weren't incel, then I'd have never discovered the truth about all sorts of things. As I'd neither have the time nor reason to question any of it, given that I wouldn't be rotting. However the problem is that facing the truth of things doesn't bring any comfort, in fact most of it causes severe emotional damage. Every bit of hope that I had for anything in this world is long gone now, my brain is fucked due to years of isolation, preceded by bullying and rejection. But ultimately it's due to coming to the realization that life itself exerts an active harm upon anyone whom it ensnares, that it could only ever be a harm due to the nature of pleasure being intrinsically tied to need fulfillment, and needs being impositions which we'd be better off without.

However I've still had valuable experiences, most of them being entirely internal, created only be me, and the rest being the appreciation for different forms of art. But none of it could justify living this life, tbh.

 

[Midwestcel]

Sometimes I consider that if I weren't incel, then I'd have never discovered the truth about all sorts of things. As I'd neither have the time nor reason to question any of it, given that I wouldn't be rotting. However the problem is that facing the truth of things doesn't bring any comfort, in fact most of it causes severe emotional damage. Every bit of hope that I had for anything in this world is long gone now, my brain is fucked due to years of isolation, preceded by bullying and rejection. But ultimately it's due to coming to the realization that life itself exerts an active harm upon anyone whom it ensnares, that it could only ever be a harm due to the nature of pleasure being intrinsically tied to need fulfillment, and needs being impositions which we'd be better off without.

However I've still had valuable experiences, most of them being entirely internal, created only be me, and the rest being the appreciation for different forms of art. But none of it could justify living this life, tbh.

Well put post.

 

[Deleted member 5712]

I used to think that but when I question why women get raped and molested as children then that whole theory falls apart
Our creator is just an asshole if there is one. If there isn't then the Universe dealt us a crappy set of cards and there is no logical reason for men to just rape and pillage everything in that case

 

[PPEcel]

Maybe its a test to build inner strength?

A test? By whom?

Hahahahahaha

 

[Midwestcel]

A test? By whom?

Hahahahahaha

I don't know....a deity if you believe in one?

 

[PPEcel]

I don't know....a deity if you believe in one?

Well, I don't. I think it's full of shit.

Shit things happen to good people all the time, and good things happen to people who don't deserve them.

This sounds like more "just world" nonsense. "To test and build my character" hahahaha

 

[Midwestcel]

Well, I don't. I think it's full of shit.

Shit things happen to good people all the time, and good things happen to people who don't deserve them.

This sounds like more "just world" nonsense. "To test and build my character" hahahaha

Maybe inceldom teaches you lessons of patience, humility, deferment of gratification and empathy for your fellow man. Isn't that worth the price?

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Sometimes I consider that if I weren't incel, then I'd have never discovered the truth about all sorts of things. As I'd neither have the time nor reason to question any of it, given that I wouldn't be rotting. However the problem is that facing the truth of things doesn't bring any comfort, in fact most of it causes severe emotional damage. Every bit of hope that I had for anything in this world is long gone now, my brain is fucked due to years of isolation, preceded by bullying and rejection. But ultimately it's due to coming to the realization that life itself exerts an active harm upon anyone whom it ensnares, that it could only ever be a harm due to the nature of pleasure being intrinsically tied to need fulfillment, and needs being impositions which we'd be better off without.

However I've still had valuable experiences, most of them being entirely internal, created only be me, and the rest being the appreciation for different forms of art. But none of it could justify living this life, tbh.

Agree. Learned a lot , But the truth didn't brought any comfort

 

[Deleted member 18435]

It isn't anything but to drive low value men crazy. There is no real benefit to this meaningless and unfair suffering/deprivation. Just makes hating this world and its socially privileged people all the more justified.

 

[Midwestcel]

It isn't anything but to drive low value men crazy. There is no real benefit to this meaningless and unfair suffering/deprivation. Just makes hating this world and its socially privileged people all the more justified.

 

[Saigon Depression]

There are 2 options to deal with inceldom:
1) Break down mentally like @WawelDragon1683 just explained, and live an existence of coping.
2) Become completely numb/stoic.You won't experience pain and suffering anymore. But you lose all your passion, desire, happiness and your ability to love.

I wish I could live by option 2, but unfortunately I'm much closer to 1.

 

[azakhan]

It destroyed me.

 

[Deleted member 8884]

It has done nothing but build resentment and bitterness for me.

I can't even interact with people the same anymore.

The blackpill ruined my life.

 

[based_meme]

There are 2 options to deal with inceldom:
1) Break down mentally like @WawelDragon1683 just explained, and live an existence of coping.
2) Become completely numb/stoic.You won't experience pain and suffering anymore. But you lose all your passion, desire, happiness and your ability to love.

Past a certain age, you're almost forced into option 2, because the alternatives are mania and/or suicide.

Thankfully, I gradually became numb/stoic due to various life experiences (losing family, near death experiences, surviving things that I shouldn't have etc.).

 

[78980n]

Maybe its a test to build inner strength?

I can safely say that this simply a statement of cope and nothing else.

 

[Jerek]

It's just a shitty condition, nothing more. The only benefit is that you do not get cucked, if you're blackpilled.

It has done nothing but build resentment and bitterness for me.

I can't even interact with people the same anymore.

The blackpill ruined my life.

Also this.

 

[M12Comic]

1) Break down mentally like @WawelDragon1683 just explained, and live an existence of coping.
2) Become completely numb/stoic.You won't experience pain and suffering anymore. But you lose all your passion, desire, happiness and your ability to love.

I'll stay coping

 

[IamJacksBrokenHeart]

We are in Limbo

 

[Deleted member 19546]

Le stoic cope

 

[bananapile69]

Every bit of hope that I had for anything in this world is long gone now, my brain is fucked due to years of isolation, preceded by bullying and rejection. But ultimately it's due to coming to the realization that life itself exerts an active harm upon anyone whom it ensnares, that it could only ever be a harm due to the nature of pleasure being intrinsically tied to need fulfillment, and needs being impositions which we'd be better off without.

Keep posting, good stuff. Although I think you didn't fully finish this verse

I wish I could live by option 2, but unfortunately I'm much closer to 1.

The grass on the other side is always greener

 

[ionlycopenow]

There are 2 options to deal with inceldom:
1) Break down mentally like @WawelDragon1683 just explained, and live an existence of coping.
2) Become completely numb/stoic.You won't experience pain and suffering anymore. But you lose all your passion, desire, happiness and your ability to love.

See my name

 

[Emba]

Uh... Yeah.

Im better than a normie.

But it doesn't help me much...

normies cannot see my value.

Because there's no value for my face!