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Do you think your inceldom is cus Of you being a mentalcell/Lack of exposure

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Do you think if you do better mentally and social max you can escape inceldom or it's purely cus your looks being bottom tier?

I had Little to no exposure growing up with girls and locked myself in room all my teenage so idk what the case with me ( Yet to join uni This year)
 
I was extremely awkward and underdeveloped at the ages where it mattered most. My looks certainly didn't help but idk if it could have been different if I had more psychological development
 
I'm weird and rank average at best in appearance. Possibly autistic but still have yet to take a test for that. As for lack of exposure no. Girls simply didn't like me. In fact I once tried getting a girlfriend when I was 13 years old. I went to this teen party event that was happening with friends and they tried getting me to hold hands with her. She immediately noped out. Other than feeling disappointed I bumped into someone that very same night, spilled their drink, and they splashed the remainer in my face..... I wanted to punch the guy out but security was like 10 feet away. My friends said they looked around and chased him off but honestly idk if they really did anything.

Before that I used to hang out with some girl I knew in the neighbourhood and we became friends. I was like 10-11 so sexual attraction wasn't there yet. Anyways she moved away and then like almost a decade later I saw her again. Tried hanging out longer but my mom took me away. A year later she has a bf and she's pregnant......why even try? As for school settings I've always been extremely socially awkward in those.
 
This has been my entire life…….
 
No

It’s purely because my looks are bottom tier. How is more exposure supposed to help me in any way? I get to rack up even more negative experiences with foids? Cool, cool
 
There is no such thing as socialmaxxing dude. If socialmaxxing was real we would all have tried it and made actual friends and connections but that's not the case, normies won't even let you into their circles to begin with, and you can't develop any meaningful social skills if you aren't in a normie circle, it's a vicious cycle of rejection and inability

and even if you were successful at that, getting a girlfriend is mostly rooted in looks even if you were a social mogger, if you look ugly but hyper nt you still won't get a girlfriend
 
Probably

I have schizophrenia and high social inhibition

Holds me back a lot
 
Its the heightpill
 

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