Serious Do you think it´s possible to recover mentally after spending your teens and 20s as an incel?

[Robtical]

Sex is a very small part of the problem. I'm 36, I've seen a dozen prostitutes in the last 10 years. It didn't fix anything. I still have no idea how I should behave if I ever had a romantic date. Not that it's going to happen anyway...

Then you're only problem is not knowing how to behave around a female romantically, that doesn't mean you lost mental functionality.

 

[Hellothere]

Not a virgin, but an incel, I am in early 30s and this shit has not solved it's self. If i met someone, yeah, it would help out a lot, but fully recover from this? Well it would probably have to take a lot of sex.

 

[mylifeistrash]

- your miracle wife will have vastly more sexual experience than you and try to force you into facing it one way or another, and to her advantage (i.e she's not a whore and you're a loser), and she can bring this up any time during arguments
- your miracle wife will not coddle you or support you or give you "an easy time" because of what you've been through, show any visible sign of your mental scarring and you are in trouble
- sex with your miracle wife won't be a refuge or a place for healing, it will be exactly the same as the rest of your relationship with her, something where you are weak and she is strong in total defiance of the natural order of things

imagine having a wife in her 30s who's had countless bbcs, jocks, drug dealers inside her pussy and you're supposed to love her

LOL

 

[Robtical]

imagine having a wife in her 30s who's had countless bbcs, jocks, drug dealers inside her pussy and you're supposed to love her

LOL

Fuck that nonsense.

 

[Doub]

Then you're only problem is not knowing how to behave around a female romantically, that doesn't mean you lost mental functionality.

It was just an example. Also I'm not sure I lost any mental functionality, I just never developed some. But celibacy certainly takes up a lot of my thinking time and removes a lot of my will to do things in general.

 

[Deleted member 7438]

I still have issues from back when I was the school fuccboi.

It gets easier, but there's no full recovery.

 

[Robtical]

It was just an example. Also I'm not sure I lost any mental functionality, I just never developed some. But celibacy certainly takes up a lot of my thinking time and removes a lot of my will to do things in general.

We need to find a solution for inceldom, it's ruining many men's lives.

 

[Narazz]

if you can escape "work" and be able to make some type of livable money i think it can. these wage and career jobs are nothing but enslavement though.

 

[balkancel]

Not until now. I'm 30 and the only women I could get are the outliers and freaks. Bonus points they also rode most of the same cocks as stacy.

Also n count of < 30 at 30? I'd almost sign up if I didn't know any better. It's a fucking rarity these days.

I mean I have pretty much no shot at a normal woman around my age with an n count < 10.

 

[Evidential]

This lifestyle shapes your routine completely, and it could be extremely hard or impossible to adapt to "family life" because of old habits. imo

 

[masterwizard]

I think yes you could recover...its just very unlikely and there are so many barriers to entry. You need a career or money, a home and a car, white women are basically off limits unless you can find a unicorn. Even if most incels could get past all this and into a relationship, they would need months of sexual recovery to combat the damage that a decade of masturbation + pornography has done, without the alleviating effect of experiencing real women. I bet alot of guys here would struggle to orgasm from PIV sex alone at least for the first few times. Some guy posted about his first escort experience and suffering ED.

Even if you could recover from all of that, you have to deal with the bitterness of wasting so much time to get to that point. Some guys might handle it, many won't.

 

[Grotesque]

No.