Serious Do you think it´s possible to recover mentally after spending your teens and 20s as an incel?

[Getlooksordie]

say you do end up finding a wife at 30.

To me it would feel like surviving the holocaust then having to marry a former Nazi officer who gassed your entire family.

 

[Deleted member 1252]

I'm in my late 30s. It gets worse. Much worse.

 

[Dispair]

I don't think you can recover. I'm about to turn 23 and i already feel like i've missed out on too much.

 

[towncel]

It's impossible to recover from bullying in the first 4 years of elementary school, once you finish them you're guaranteed to be an anomaly

 

[CaptainCuck]

I don't think so.

Once an incel misses the early stages of romantic development, he will always be behind and scarred from missing out all the time.

 

[doktordoom]

no

 

[Cancel]

Would someone who has been in solitary confinement and without human touch be okay after 10 years?

I'd say no. I feel like broken goods at this point.

 

[kvn]

Yeas you can if you fuck tons of young females. Im not saying such situation is on par with never being incel, but after fucking many young foids you can at least partially get rid of the regret and feeling of having missed out and get on with your life

 

[SATANIST]

you will recoverr mentally if only you manage to take the virginity of a girl

 

[rockwell1488]

I'm 27 years old and I'm taking a break from chasing pussy, it saps a man's energy. I spent years pursuing one chick who I really liked. She was gorgeous and intelligent, but she was also extremely autistic and a SJW. All I got from her in the end was some blushing and smiling. Now there's no-one else I desire, all the chicks I meet are the same.

I will recover but I need a good bro alliance first and a squadron of wingmen. I want a band so that I can be as awesome as Glenn Tiptop and KK Downing. Once I've got male friends and some cash then I'll travel to a country where the women are less cunty. I just need to take my mind off this shit and not think about how much time I wasted chasing that beautiful piece of autistic pussy. I knew she was bonkers but I went with my heart and D'UH it didn't work out. I don't regret pursuing her but I admit that it was kind of a wasted effort. I'll be agonising over this failure for the rest of my life. That girl meant a lot to me and she never explained why she doesn't like me and why we aren't friends. If she would talk to me I would feel much better.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

I don't think so

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

- your miracle wife will have vastly more sexual experience than you and try to force you into facing it one way or another, and to her advantage (i.e she's not a whore and you're a loser), and she can bring this up any time during arguments
- your miracle wife will not coddle you or support you or give you "an easy time" because of what you've been through, show any visible sign of your mental scarring and you are in trouble
- sex with your miracle wife won't be a refuge or a place for healing, it will be exactly the same as the rest of your relationship with her, something where you are weak and she is strong in total defiance of the natural order of things

 

[Mr100]

I can imagine all you sub 30s telling yourself - it will be all right in the end - someone will walk into my life and hey presto - I'll heal.

Wrong - you wont meet anybody and you wont heal.

Take it from an oldcel - if you cant get your shit together in the prime years of your life - you never will. You will be like that poor fuck that shot Bruce Willis in Sixth Sense - only you wont have a shrink to blame and shoot when you feel like pulling the trigger on your self.

 

[BKing]

You'll have to cope tremendously... I'm not sure if you could do it, maybe if you live really hedonistic?

 

[Fuckmyexistence]

man im only 16 and i can safely say this experience has changed me forever

 

[TheGoodGuy]

No you can´t. The person you become later in life is created by previous experiences and especially the teenage years are crucial to who you become.

 

[quazz]

The ideal age to lose virginity/start to have a relationship is like 14-17. The next stage were you kind of missed out on things but it's not to big a deal is 18-19.I think early 20's is your last chance to stop being an incel, most heart throbs are in their early 20's and basically all teens lust after guys in their early 20's because they think they are hotter then boys their age and by going for these guys they think they are being "mature". Once you are out of your early 20's that is also the end of college age so that is another reason it could be over cause now people your age are starting to take things more serious and "settle down". If you don't escape inceldom in your early 20's yes it is most likely over. So at 30 it is definitely to far from the ideal 14-17 ages and still to far from the last chance of early 20's. At 30 your best bet will be to richcel get at least $10billion dollars since I have some suspicion extremely rich people or high level scientists have access to some kind of time travel. At 30 you should just focus on science/getting rich and maybe somehow you can time travel/alter the universe and go back to being 14 and enjoying yourself at the start.

 

[VLÖ]

I'm 27 years old and I'm taking a break from chasing pussy, it saps a man's energy. I spent years pursuing one chick who I really liked. She was gorgeous and intelligent, but she was also extremely autistic and a SJW. All I got from her in the end was some blushing and smiling. Now there's no-one else I desire, all the chicks I meet are the same.

I will recover but I need a good bro alliance first and a squadron of wingmen. I want a band so that I can be as awesome as Glenn Tiptop and KK Downing. Once I've got male friends and some cash then I'll travel to a country where the women are less cunty. I just need to take my mind off this shit and not think about how much time I wasted chasing that beautiful piece of autistic pussy. I knew she was bonkers but I went with my heart and D'UH it didn't work out. I don't regret pursuing her but I admit that it was kind of a wasted effort. I'll be agonising over this failure for the rest of my life. That girl meant a lot to me and she never explained why she doesn't like me and why we aren't friends. If she would talk to me I would feel much better.

Should've asked her if she wanted to go out with you or something.

 

[Asianmanletcel]

No you can´t. The person you become later in life is created by previous experiences and especially the teenage years are crucial to who you become.

 

[fred_herbert]

I don't agree with what people say here at all. The damage has already been done, i.e. your genetics. If you could magically become taller, better looking, etc. in your 30's sure you would recover. The reason why most incels will not recover is because the issues they have are not fixable and only get worse with age. The whole psychological damage thing is bs. If the physical issues you have are not resolved you will still be incel in your 30's wether you have psychological damage or not.

 

[Mik_TFL]

If you are really hardcore about hobbies / school / career you might just be able to recover

 

[happiless]

no

 

[chadlandic]

Yes but you'll always feel a little bitter about it when people start talking about how crazy their highschool college years were.

 

[ToDragonia]

I think recover is not the right word cause if this shit is a big part of your life now it is gonna stay with you forever.
The best you can hope for is to know how not to act, but if you're not NT in your prime(high school /college) you'll never be NT

 

[Gremlincel]

no

 

[Evildoer]

No, i heard they moved the last frontier of brain development somewhere around 23-25-27. Your personality isn't gonna change really drastically after these ages.

 

[Ritalincel]

Yes bro

 

[Uglymonster]

That's a good analogy. I think it's possible to forgive women but it's not easy. I want to forgive them not because they deserve it but because I want inner peace.

 

[Hunter]

teens? maybe.

20s? its over. enjoy your wizard powers.

 

[Getlooksordie]

- your miracle wife will have vastly more sexual experience than you and try to force you into facing it one way or another, and to her advantage (i.e she's not a whore and you're a loser), and she can bring this up any time during arguments
- your miracle wife will not coddle you or support you or give you "an easy time" because of what you've been through, show any visible sign of your mental scarring and you are in trouble
- sex with your miracle wife won't be a refuge or a place for healing, it will be exactly the same as the rest of your relationship with her, something where you are weak and she is strong in total defiance of the natural order of things

not completely buying that.

None of this will matter to her if she likes your face.

 

[rockwell1488]

Should've asked her if she wanted to go out with you or something.

I dropped all kinds of hints, including a letter that I delivered to her house. Nothing could seduce that woman.

 

[Reborn]

I'm in my late 30s. It gets worse. Much worse.

 

[Reprobus]

No, you will notice fem behavior unfiltered for the rest of your life

 

[AR15]

No, there is no going back.

 

[PleaseKillMeLoseSkin]

As a man just being able to have had passed your seed would be enough to wake up from this mental torment, but youll still be a loser.

 

[GaelicIrish]

No bare in mind that people my age started kissing girls around 2005, I will fuck more girls overall than my former schoolmates because I will start escortceling but they have girlfriends so would have had more sex overall, I suppose both sides of that fence have their good/bad points, their girlfriends won't look that great in 20 years whereas I can fuck Brazilian escort and cum in her mouth.

 

[Getlooksordie]

then why don´t we all just rope now if everything is lost even if we get a wife.

 

[EECEL]

Nope. I'm in my mid 20s and feel as though I no longer have a chance. Even worse, while technically I'm an actor (did some TV stuff recently so I can't be THAT ugly/much of a fuck-up) I don't feel like that helped in any way. At one point, it's over and even if you're in denial deep down you just know you're done for.

 

[Not_Important]

Imma keep it real witchu chief:
No.

 

[incel scum]

- your miracle wife will have vastly more sexual experience than you and try to force you into facing it one way or another, and to her advantage (i.e she's not a whore and you're a loser), and she can bring this up any time during arguments
- your miracle wife will not coddle you or support you or give you "an easy time" because of what you've been through, show any visible sign of your mental scarring and you are in trouble
- sex with your miracle wife won't be a refuge or a place for healing, it will be exactly the same as the rest of your relationship with her, something where you are weak and she is strong in total defiance of the natural order of things

ruthless !!

 

[ItsOverBuddyBoyos]

Teens, maybe. 20s, definitely not.

 

[Robtical]

What if you had sex with escorts from 16-30?

 

[Deleted member 7573]

I think it would depend a lot on how my wife would be, after everything I went through if she was a bitch wanting to make me betabux, it would not work at all, you practically see through them when you're a long time incel, who is not denying his position as one of course.

 

[Newbite]

Unless you become good looking

 

[FiveFourManlet]

Me being honest with you I should probably be in a mental hospital right now but my copes are stopping me from going

 

[gstvtrp]

no

>- sex with your miracle wife won't be a refuge or a place for healing, it will be exactly the same as the rest of your relationship with her, something where you are weak and she is strong in total defiance of the natural order of things

fucking kill me.

 

[incel scum]

If you are incel for a very long period of time, years and years into your 20s and then finally get a gf or wife, then you are almost guaranteed to have PISD (Post Incel Stress Disorder)

 

[Ghost]

you can recover but you'd always have scars like a veteran who has seen brutal horrible things happen to his buddies in war.

 

[Just_another_cel]

Take it from a 34 year old...NO. It only gets worse as time goes by. If you happen to get the odd scrap of society you'll never be happy with her cause she rode 30+ Chad dick already and eventually you'll throw her away like the garbage she is and you'll continue to be lonely. I speak from experience.

 

[Doub]

What if you had sex with escorts from 16-30?

Sex is a very small part of the problem. I'm 36, I've seen a dozen prostitutes in the last 10 years. It didn't fix anything. I still have no idea how I should behave if I ever had a romantic date. Not that it's going to happen anyway...