Experiment Do you think incels would be more motivated if we had gfs?

[jerrycan dan]

I've been sitting here at my desk after I've gotten home for the past few days, and it's suddenly dawned on me that I've been meaning to ring up visa to find out how much money is on a gift card my Dad got for me two Christmases ago that I haven't use. I'm not ungrateful but I am incredibly unmotivated to do anything, even a task as simple as ringing the phone number on the back of a card. It almost feels painful thinking about the fact I should do it but don't have motivation. There's a million other more important things I could be doing along with that, but I simply don't have the motivation.

I'm pretty sure this is normal. Most incels are EXTREMELY unmotivated, which is why LDARing is palatable to so many people on this website. A lot of non-incels are more motivated and can bring themselves to do basic tasks with more ease than we can.

Do you think if, suddenly, we all got dream gfs we would suddenly become motivated to do stuff and succeed in life? Especially if the hypothetical gfs love you for who you are and are guaranteed to not cheat on you. Maybe we can adjust the hypothetical so it's a loyal looksmatch gf instead of a dream gf. How do those things affect it? Do you think you would be more motivated if you had some sort of gf, and by how much? What else apart from a gf do you believe contributes to your lack of motivation?

 

[lurker45]

100%. What motivates a man to suffer through daily life is knowing his mate appreciates it. Women don't deserve it.
I can't even be fucked to get a job without a gf.

 

[blackcel]

The time when I was close to ascending (or al least that is what I thought) was literalyl the only time in my life where I felt happy about living. So yeah, having a girlfriend would do wonders for my mental health. "All you need to do is get laid bro." applies to me 100% Unfortunately NO ONE WANTS TO FUCK ME GOD FUCKING DAMNIT OIASBHDUOJABSDOIHDSAioASDkl

 

[Zesto]

No, nothing makes me more motivated than thinking of my waifu waiting for me in Japan.

Then again I would have the new motivation of never failing her and being the best version of myself I could be for her and our future hafu kids.

I read once one of the themes of dark souls was having a dream and sticking to it but making sure that once you achieve that dream you still retain your ambition so you don't turn hollow.

 

[everythingislava]

I think believing that all your problems will be solved once you have a gf is terrible cope.

I know that we tend to focus mostly on our lack of romantic success, however for me personally that is far from the only problem. As it is right now I am too afraid to even leave the house unless it's dark so how would getting a gf help me with that? Even if I had a perfect and understanding girlfriend I think it's more likely that I will make her mental state detoriate than her helping me rebuild mine.

 

[rudolfhess]

Maybe we can adjust the hypothetical so it's a loyal looksmatch gf instead of a dream gf

Sad truth of it is for most of us our dream girls are just our looksmatches

 

[Modus Coperandi]

not worthy of debate tbh.
all those gigacoper normies who say you can be happy as a single are simply brain dead.

there is literally no point in living if you don't have a gf.

 

[Felix97]

Sad truth of it is for most of us our dream girls are just our looksmatches

 

[Swiswis]

no, motivation is personal. l know a lot of people, including my dad that had success in their pro life without being in a relationship

 

[Inbuddhist]

I don't think it, i'm 100% sure of it. Even when i thought it was just POSSIBLE for me to get a gf i was more motivated.

 

[Moustachcel]

yes definitly because right know I have nothing to live for

 

[VST]

Tbh, as stupid as the idea of government assigned girlfriends sounds it would definitely serve as a great economic boost as undesirable males (who tend to be of above average intelligence) will be more motivated to work harder thus increasing economic output.

 

[Ritalincel]

no man

 

[LDARBuddah]

there is literally no point in living if you don't have a gf.

This

 

[TheIncelStaresBack]

The time when I was close to ascending (or al least that is what I thought) was literalyl the only time in my life where I felt happy about living. So yeah, having a girlfriend would do wonders for my mental health. "All you need to do is get laid bro." applies to me 100% Unfortunately NO ONE WANTS TO FUCK ME GOD FUCKING DAMNIT OIASBHDUOJABSDOIHDSAioASDkl

Agreed. Before ldarmaxxing, my few brief ascensions improved my ability to focus and perform on the job.

Now that I’ve swallowed the blackpill, even getting out of bed in the morning is a challenge.

 

[IronMike]

Yes, because you are working for the sake of someone else.

Instead of being being driven by a wife or girlfriend, I instead replace them with legacy and familial ties. I work hard because I dont want to disrespect my father, grandfather, and the men who came before them.

 

[Void]

Yes, because you are working for the sake of someone else.

Instead of being being driven by a wife or girlfriend, I instead replace them with legacy and familial ties. I work hard because I dont want to disrespect my father, grandfather, and the men who came before them.

This, a lot of shit men do is to gain validation from others and stand out from the pack.

Having a gf or someone to work for is just an extension of that.

 

[Anger]

Everything would be better if I ad a gf

 

[Henry de Montherlant]

I'd feel slightly better thanks to more serotonin secretions, but in the end it won't change that much the awful reality of this world.
I'd feel slightly better thanks to more serotonin secretions, but in the end it won't change that much the awful reality of this world.

 

[Cuyen]

We wouldn't be incels if we had gfs

 

[Deleted member 1983]

95% of a mans motivation in life is his family / SO, after all whats the point of wageslaving for 40+ years if your doing it for nothing.

im wageslaving for nothing right now and im already feelings its time to check out on life.

 

[Ritalincel]

SO

 

[Mainländer]

A lot with gfs and 10 times more with wives that couldn't divorce or cheat on them.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

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i feel like if i went through your post history 90% of it would be soyboy mouth pics. get some new content, its gotten stale.

 

[Fontaine]

I used to be extremely motivated, hard-working and competitive... Until puberty, when it dawned on me that I would probably stay alone all my life.

Since then my motivation has dropped by around 90%. But I don't know if the relationship is perfectly causal.

 

[kvn]

You arent depressed unmotivated low-energycel because of no gf but the other way around. No gf becoz low energy unmotivated etc

 

[TheLonelyArchon]

You arent depressed unmotivated low-energycel because of no gf but the other way around. No gf becoz low energy unmotivated etc

Idk I feel like the reason I skipped school so much in high school to play SC2 and LoL all the time is due to having no gf there. What's the point in going to school if you're just going to wish you were at home playing games because no gf? Also now I feel little motivation to go places around town because it'll just be me alone.