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Do you have a social circle (friends)?

neet

neet

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I'm in my mid twenties now (I think one of the older users here?), still virgin without any experience with women.

In my youth I was always a social weak person, being an omega raised up by single mother who remarried later with another beta redneck who was un-supportive and repressive/conservative. This style of upbringing made me feel more anxious and inhibited around other people. This result that I never have developed social skills and confidence, no friends and got bullied at all schools. After years of bullying I finished high school with an certificate and enrolled to college. However at college, where new groups are formed I was the omega again and the situation was likely to repeat. And yes, after 2 months in college I was the victim of bullying again. That had put my into a burn out and by the age of 18 I was dropped out of school and became an NEET.

Now almost 10 years later.... still no friends, no social circle.
 
1 friend, no social circle
 
i used to have a small one. not anymore
 
The oldcels will eat you alive for saying your the oldest here. On a another note “friends” nowadays is a loose term for acquaintance. Most normies are two faced and lack loyalty and honor
 
I have friends at work. We play dungeons and dragons every Monday. I am the dungeon master.

I also found this neat BBS on the world wide web.
 
Yea RDF and ATP.
 
I have some friends, but honestly its just a matter of time until they all move on with their lives and leave me behind.
 
Used to have a small circle of friends. Was sick of their stupidity and their normie ways so got rid of them. I prefer being alone and just hating everyone from afar.
 
Nah never have, most likely never will
 
I don’t really have friends more like associates I know the only reason they hang out with me is I have the best drugs in town. If it weren’t for that I would have no social contact at all.
 
The oldest incel ik here is 50 yo. I doubt that youre the oldest
 
No friends, no aquiantances, and I have a rocky relationship with my family. Only normies on up are afforded friendships and social circles in this life.
 
No friends, no aquiantances, and I have a rocky relationship with my family. Only normies on up are afforded friendships and social circles in this life.
You are too lazy to make attempts to fix inceldom.
 
no,females dont want sub8 males as friends and males cannot be your friends either cause they are your competition. Why would a male befriend one of his enemies?
 
My friends are primarily incels and NEET's that I met at the mental hospital. No girls.
 
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I had 1 friend, but that was in school. Every time I see an incel, this first thing that pops in my mind is "I wonder if he would want to be my friend" then I imagine playing vidya.
 
Nope, if I did I'd try to run the club game.
 
no. i hate almost everyone i know IRL and i know few people anyway.
i will start randomly talking to strangers soon and if our respective NT facades match then maybe something will happen.
 
No. Everybody I meet turns out to be a weed smoker or liberal in some sense. There are not a lot of people I like.
 
I've tried but nope. Everyone I become "friends" with seems to have way more in common and get along way better with the others in any given group, leaving me feeling more alone and kinda vengeful tbh
 
A few friend from gym and work. A chad from gym keeps inviteing me to drink with his friends, (maybe out of pity) i was afraid to go so fare but tonight i'll give it a shot so wish me luck.
 
I have 3 friends. Not getting along with one of them and have to less in common with two of them.
 
No. I gradually dropped all of my friends and I'm glad I did. They are cucks.

Social circles are for cucks given the state of society right now.
 
I am older than you.
I had a great childhood and an OK teen life.
As of now, I have my acquaintances from work, the gym and online. My friends from my childhood have all married. Most have drifted away. None of my social circles intermingle.
I know if something were to happen to me and I needed a real friend, only a few people would come to my aid.
 
Yea i had a pretty large one but they were all normies and i only talk to them if they talk to me first.
 
I moved from my state unexpectedly to nurse a family member with cancer for a year. There was no time for friends, and I couldn’t go into public places because of immunology issues, or have people to where I lived. After they died, I spent a year alone not talking to anyone. Now I know I need to make friends, but I quit my job and don’t feel like I could go back to something that high stress. I have already spent so many years at uni, and they are so feminist now I can’t stand it. I’m not really qualified for anything that pays well besides my old job. And I’m filled with depression and rage. I know I could probably go join some social club, but I find most people so tiresome now. Showering and going out at all is a huge effort.

Besides a few people on Facebook who I have alienated with my increasingly violent ant-feminist/femanoid rants, the only person I have now who I might consider a friend is a nineteen year old girl I’m going to help move house tomorrow. I’m already really wary of becoming an orbiter. The only reason she spends time with me is because she is so fucked up herself. I have barely known her for more than a month and she has already tried to kill herself twice.
 
I think that not having a social circle is almost as detrimental as being ugly in regards to getting women.

I was always a bit of an outsider in school. However, I always had 1-2 friends who I was very close with. When I was 16, I passed the exam which got me admitted to a very good school. My best friend chose a different path and we grew apart. I didn't manage to make friends at the new school and became even more introverted and reclusive than I was before. I was at that school for 4 years. I made no friends. I didn't even have acquaintances. I didn't talk to anybody during these four years which has had a severe impact on my personal development. I'm unable to talk and connect with people. I get panic attacks when talking to others and I don't know what is and what isn't appropriate to say. I'm now at uni and the story continues. I haven't talked to anyone so far.

How am I going to meet women without a social circle? Most relationships are formed through a social circle, not through Tinder or cold approaches in the street. Even if I found a girl interested in me, how would she react to my lack of friends?
 
I'm in my mid twenties now (I think one of the older users here?), still virgin without any experience with women.

In my youth I was always a social weak person, being an omega raised up by single mother who remarried later with another beta redneck who was un-supportive and repressive/conservative. This style of upbringing made me feel more anxious and inhibited around other people. This result that I never have developed social skills and confidence, no friends and got bullied at all schools. After years of bullying I finished high school with an certificate and enrolled to college. However at college, where new groups are formed I was the omega again and the situation was likely to repeat. And yes, after 2 months in college I was the victim of bullying again. That had put my into a burn out and by the age of 18 I was dropped out of school and became an NEET.

Now almost 10 years later.... still no friends, no social circle.
What is a friend never had one or they call you a friend and use you then disappear
 
uni started a month ago still didn't talk to anybody and i mean it literally
 
Last year I had a social circle of 3 people but was picked on and bullied everyday by them. I think they kept me around just to have someone to kick. Now, I have 0 human friends. Further, I am looked down on by the public and often go days on end without talking to a single person(man or woman).
 
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I do actually
 
No. I gradually dropped all of my friends and I'm glad I did. They are cucks.

Social circles are for cucks given the state of society right now.
Sad yet true. Society is so corroded
 
Few good friends spread across Europe. Have a normie social circle left from school that I attend from time to time when I try ascending/NTmaxxing but it is always so fucking boring. Not worth your LDAR time in the least.

There is literally no use in having normie friends after you get blackpilled. Everything you see from now on is only constant social and sexual struggle
 
Used to have in Brazil. Here in Germany I don't have any social life whatsoever.
 

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