Do you have IRL friends?

[XtremeMax]

I'm curious about this since I haven't had any friends to cope with irl for almost 8 years. I lost every single one of my friends when I was 11 after being sent to a children's facility against my will. They were fake friends anyway and always made fun of me.

 

[XtremeMax]

I love this website because I made so many good friends who I truly appreciate and would probably rope without

 

[lowz1r]

yes (0 female friends tho)

 

[XtremeMax]

yes (0 female friends tho)

Is it fun having friends

 

[Starfish]

no

 

[XtremeMax]

no

I would be your friend irl you are the best starfish

 

[Logic55]

I have very few friends. My social circle is not big

 

[nakolas]

no

 

[Starfish]

I would be your friend irl you are the best starfish

 

[KillNiggers]

Acquaintances yes. Friends no.

 

[Left4DeadBPDvictim]

Yes but I haven't seen them in a while and I don't talk to them often (Aside from one)

I kinda do it to myself tbh but I'm just to depressed to even go anywhere.

I just don't like being around people anymore and constantly worrying about everything in social situations.

 

[KillNiggers]

yes (0 female friends tho)

Based

 

[XtremeMax]

Yes but I haven't seen them in a while and I don't talk to them often (Aside from one)

I kinda do it to myself tbh but I'm just to depressed to even go anywhere.

I just don't like being around people anymore and constantly worrying about everything in social situations.

Same I get nervous in social situations

 

[Grodd]

No literally not even one

 

[zerozerozero]

i have one autist friend i only just met recently but he is moving away soon : (

 

[RandomGuy]

One was forcing me to be his fren. If I talked to someone else he’d get visibly uncomfortable; anxious.

That was the hardest one to ghost. My last fren, but I couldn’t take his “anxiety” vibes much anymore.

 

[light]

i have nobody

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

No literally not even one

 

[Excalibur]

Not for many years

 

[lowz1r]

Is it fun having friends

its a pretty good cope

 

[TheJester]

Havent had a friend since 2019

Lots of my ex HS classmates actually were happy that they dont need to see me again - no idea why (most likely jestermaxxing/ being very extroverted) - even tho there were some that really liked me and to two guys I had WhatsApp contact for a couple more months - then somehow broke up.

Outside of work I had no human contact in nearly a year - besides me there is also not a single person at my work place below 30. I have one workaholic Chadlite guy named Robert that I at least am good with I guess - but our worldviews and lifes couldnt be more different. Hes for some reason always in a extreme hustle mode doing more then needed working like 60 hours a week and then he goes to the gym after 10 pm. He has no girlfriend but he fucks around, he always talks about all the chicks that he bangs...yeah you got it.

They also closed the main shopping mall I was hanging around a lot and trying to meet people, which was kind of the last third place this town had.

Honestly theres 3 gyms I know of but I wouldnt call these 3th places - I have no clue what you could even call a 3th place left, theres the library, but I dont go there anymore since I just pirate all the books I need and load them on my Kindle.

I think most people go to the cinema or to some bar or Restaurant. Too expensive for me tho and I never had any luck at Bars in over 2 years of Barmaxxing.

Ultimately, I dont really belive in friendship. Friendship is just a term introduced to young children in Kindergarten and Elementary School to unite each other, learn socializing and aquire skills that can help in "the real world". Its a hyproctitical System to establish networking and a pre-conceptual way of making humans learn how macro-economic structures function.

Around Middle and Highschool you will learn how everyone isnt "friends" with each other at all, but rather trying to benefit of those that established themselves as skill havers - having and getting sex, especially as a men, is also a skill and most crave that, thats why those guys end up being the popular guys. And once a dude became a "Bad Boy" hes not hanging around with nerds and loners anymore.

And then in the world of wageslavery aka "Adult World" the whole thing isnt so much different except now money is the medium that combined all skills and if you got it you are the most popular. In this world "friends" are just people that you can use for networking or for gaining more money, but usually there is not enough money, so everyone just hates each other and continues to be a pretentious "Friend".

 

[Lonelyus]

I go to a house where autists can meet like twice a week to see if i can make friends

 

[Soystein]

I had friends growing up, but I cut contact with everyone in my mid 20s because I am an ugly failure, I have been friendless for about 15 years now.

 

[EternalStorm]

Haven't had any irl amigos since the late 2000s

 

[Adolf Kitler]

Not anymore.

 

[TheJester]

I had friends growing up, but I cut contact with everyone in my mid 20s because I am an ugly failure, I have been friendless for about 15 years now.

Your approching 40? Shit you are almost Grand Wizard level.

 

[Soystein]

Your approching 40? Shit you are almost Grand Wizard level.

I turn 40 first week in january.

 

[basedcrackaddict]

Ya

 

[Rapistcel]

yes (0 female friends tho)

Only gay men have female friends

 

[Rapistcel]

I'm curious about this since I haven't had any friends to cope with irl for almost 8 years. I lost every single one of my friends when I was 11 after being sent to a children's facility against my will. They were fake friends anyway and always made fun of me.

I used to have in elementary school, they changed from that to "friends" and from "friends" to nothing.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

No

 

[Rapistcel]

Only gay men have female friends

Why would you have a female friend if you don't want to fuck her? Women have 0 things in common with straight men.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

I'm curious about this since I haven't had any friends to cope with irl for almost 8 years. I lost every single one of my friends when I was 11 after being sent to a children's facility against my will. They were fake friends anyway and always made fun of me.

I use to, but the last time I had a few friends irl was back in my High school days, after graduating from high school. They're all gone and took different paths in life and we never talked again

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

I had friends growing up, but I cut contact with everyone in my mid 20s because I am an ugly failure, I have been friendless for about 15 years now.

Sucks that all of them were fake friends

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

I turn 40 first week in january.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

This afternoon on the supermarket I ran into one of my best elementary school friends. A sperg, normie-looking guy, average height, blonde hair with glasses.

He seemed in a rush bc of his work so our discussion lasted like 15 seconds. But this simple interaction made my day better.

It brought me back 15 years prior when I still had friends, when people talked me more than they bullied me, a time where we boys didn't give a shit about girls, sex and shiet and we just had fun playing football in the playground. Simpler times. Better times.

He is a sperg, he had a social worker with him during classes, I think I was the only guy who talked to him and was nice to him. To me, he was just a normal nice bloke.

We entered different middle schools so our paths separated but since then, we met quite a few times, always by pure randomness. And he never seemed to forget those times I was nice to him when no one else was.

I managed to find his instagram account and I was baffled to see that at some point he had a girlfriend, a genuine 0/10 sperg ogress so he's not an incel, even though I don't think having this thing as a gf really counts as a mog tbf.

I think at the present moment he is the closest thing i have from an IRL friend, even though I have no permanent contact with him.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

This afternoon on the supermarket I ran into one of my best elementary school friends. A sperg, normie-looking guy, average height, blonde hair with glasses.

He seemed in a rush bc of his work so our discussion lasted like 15 seconds. But this simple interaction made my day better.

It brought me back 15 years prior when I still had friends, when people talked me more than they bullied me, a time where we boys didn't give a shit about girls, sex and shiet and we just had fun playing football in the playground. Simpler times. Better times.

He is a sperg, he had a social worker with him during classes, I think I was the only guy who talked to him and was nice to him. To me, he was just a normal nice bloke.

We entered different middle schools so our paths separated but since then, we met quite a few times, always by pure randomness. And he never seemed to forget those times I was nice to him when no one else was.

I managed to find his instagram account and I was baffled to see that at some point he had a girlfriend, a genuine 0/10 sperg ogress so he's not an incel, even though I don't think having this thing as a gf really counts as a mog tbf.

I think at the present moment he is the closest thing i have from an IRL friend, even though I have no permanent contact with him.

That sounded like such a nice experience, I'm introvert, and even being alone for way too long without any friends can be sad, so that was a nice talk that you had with him. Were you mostly an outcast?

 

[LeFrenchCel]

That sounded like such a nice experience, I'm introvert, and even being alone for way too long without any friends can be sad, so that was a nice talk that you had with him.

It's nice to see him from time to time even if we never talk a lot

Were you mostly an outcast?

Starting from middle school yes

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

It's nice to see him from time to time even if we never talk a lot

If you 2 hang out more often that would be cool, but since he has autism he wouldn't be the best communicator

Starting from middle school yes

Me too I think middle school years is when kids start to become more judging

 

[Cope or die]

If you do you shouldn't be posting here. You should be socialcirclemaxxing.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

If you 2 hang out more often that would be cool, but since he has autism he wouldn't be the best communicator

I'm kinda autistic too so it wouldn't help neither

Me too I think middle school years is when kids start to become more judging

At least we had good elementary school years, i think some brocels here didn't even had that chance

 

[Starfish]

If you do you shouldn't be posting here. You should be socialcirclemaxxing.

The socialcirclepill is underrated. This how a lot of normies get gfs.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

I'm kinda autistic too so it wouldn't help neither

Me too

At least we had good elementary school years, i think some brocels here didn't even had that chance

I was in special ED that's why I didn't have alot of contacts with other classmates only from special ED classes which were a few friends and I was an outcast on a few years were I didn't have anywhere to sit at lunch time

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Me too

I was in special ED that's why I didn't have alot of contacts with other classmates only from special ED classes which were a few friends and I was an outcast on a few years were I didn't have anywhere to sit at lunch time

Brootal

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

Brootal

It was what affected me the most was when I felt betrayed and when no one from my school came to my graduation party it was a mix of sadness and embarrassment to show my parent's friends and coworkers that I was a loser

 

[LeFrenchCel]

It was what affected me the most was when I felt betrayed and when no one from my school came to my graduation party it was a mix of sadness and embarrassment to show my parent's friends and coworkers that I was a loser

A man should never live such atrocious moments in his life, I'm sorry this happened to you bro

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

A man should never live such atrocious moments in his life, I'm sorry this happened to you bro

It's fine I felt so betrayed that I actually blocked some of them. But oh well life goes on

 

[Animecel2D]

Everyone is my friend

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

Brutal results

 

[Enigmaz]

I talk to myself all day and the voices.