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BELOW_Average_Joe

BELOW_Average_Joe

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I'll be honest theres things i could've done in HS, in my teen years that wouldn't have led me down the path I'm on rn. I wanna find genuine happiness, I really do. If I were to be truly happy tomorrow, even for a day I could die the next day tbh. If I could find genuine happiness even for a day i could die content. Obv most of our problems are a result of our genetics, but I have some pretty serious regrets, I did some terrible things, I won't deny.
 
my entire life
 
The way I acted in particular situations and presented myself. I could have taken care of my hygiene. I should not have mistreated some people.
 
if i could turn back time i would have never moved to western europe

if i stayed in balkans i dont think i would have ever even redpilled let alone blackpilled

oh well

take_the_blackpill.jpg
 
I've picked on some people that I feel bad about now.
 
I'll be honest theres things i could've done in HS, in my teen years that wouldn't have led me down the path I'm on rn. I wanna find genuine happiness, I really do. If I were to be truly happy tomorrow, even for a day I could die the next day tbh. If I could find genuine happiness even for a day i could die content. Obv most of our problems are a result of our genetics, but I have some pretty serious regrets, I did some terrible things, I won't deny.
Yes. Not fighting my obesity genetics even harder than I did growing up at times.

Also not going to the hospital when my Foid and guy home care medical workers both encouraged me to because my oxygen levels were so low.

Also not taking a water pill sooner.

Had I only done all of the above I probably could’ve avoided potentially permanently damaged vocal cords and the present hole in my neck. :feelsbadman:
 
Not doing computer science
 
Mostly when I don't stood up for someone or didn't put in place my bullies and other assholes.
There are also a minor things like not getting driving license...
 
I regret not stabbing that kid in the eye with my pencil back in like 3rd grade, I regret not stabbing people who harassed me throughout my teen years.
All that self control and I have nothing to show for it.
 
Yes tons and tons
 
I don't have regrets. I am the regrets.
 
Yes, many.

But to name one, I'd say not gymmaxxing in my early 20s. I'm now almost 30 and I'm a skinny fat framelet.
 
I regret forcing myself through and putting up with a lot of things I could have cut off waaay earlier. Especially before the blackpill, when I honestly thought I had a shot at women or even being a member of a successful band (JFL).

I lost a lot of time with friendships and social groups I didn't even enjoy just because I couldn't really say "no" to people, which I finally learned how to in my 30s.

As for regrets of things I didn't do, we all have the "invest in Bitcoin early on" kind of stuff but other than that, I have none. I've been an unmotivated depressed pile of endless distractions ever since I can remember, it's not like I could go back and become a careermaxxed workaholic millionaire with three PhDs or something.
 
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I'll be honest theres things i could've done in HS, in my teen years that wouldn't have led me down the path I'm on rn. I wanna find genuine happiness, I really do. If I were to be truly happy tomorrow, even for a day I could die the next day tbh. If I could find genuine happiness even for a day i could die content. Obv most of our problems are a result of our genetics, but I have some pretty serious regrets, I did some terrible things, I won't deny.
I could have been a really good athlete, but I hated the practice.

I was about the fastest guy in the school.

But the sadism in football. The pecking order.

I despise it.

So I quit
 
I've picked on some people that I feel bad about now.
Yeah I'll be honest I did the same. It's something I'm pretty ashamed of, I got bullied from 4th-7th grade and punched down and mocked some other kids even lower on the totem pole than me. One was a nerdcel spic and the other was a turbomanlet chink kid with these old ass adopted white parents. I'd just straight up make racist jokes at his expense. We got into a physical "fight" but u could barely call it that. It wasn't anything too bad, what I did and the bullying I received was never anything that terrible either but all of that ended after 7th grade. Then the true regrets piled on beginning in 8th grade up til graduation.
 
my entire life
Pretty much. I can't even count the number of stuff I hate that I didn't do. All the fucking times when I didn't try to fight back against the bullies because I knew what would almost certainly be the result and I didn't want to risk it, choosing an all-male high school over one with a balanced gender ratio, thus guaranteeing that I will have no possibility of even trying to ascend in my teen years (this is the one I've been thinking over and over and over and over again in the last few days), the list is fucking endless:feelscry::feelscry::feelscry:.

if i could turn back time i would have never moved to western europe

if i stayed in balkans i dont think i would have ever even redpilled let alone blackpilled

oh well

take_the_blackpill.jpg
I fucking wish I could've grown up in Western Europe tbh:feelsbadman::feelsbadman::feelsbadman:.

I've picked on some people that I feel bad about now.
I'd love to know what that feels like tbh, I was never in a position to pick on anyone:feelsrope::feelsrope:.

I regret not stabbing that kid in the eye with my pencil back in like 3rd grade, I regret not stabbing people who harassed me throughout my teen years.
All that self control and I have nothing to show for it.
:yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes:

Yes tons and tons
I don't have regrets. I am the regrets.
 
Tbh not really. Here we are now. Life just goes on and there's no way we can go back and change anything. Sure there's things that I wish I tried or did back then. I don't spend more than a minute thinking about it. This is our reality now-our current situation. Realize it is what it is.
"I have no regrets about anything in life. Life is life, you accept it. Look yourself in the mirror and embrace it and you go."-Lil Wayne
 
there is nothing I could have done to make my life better
 
Yes. Not fighting my obesity genetics even harder than I did growing up at times.
i've had regrets about this too, even though i've fought it harder than the vast majority of my fam I know I could've gone harder and led a much healthier happier life

at the same time, our failures to build habits are often the result of bad environments where we under-cover from bad rest and toxic people
 
Just studied harder back in high school, and stopped chasing friends as hard as I was.

Friendship doesn't exist. I know that now.

I had to repeat 3 years of school, because I was so desperate to be accepted, and I was so depressed (Video games kept me going). And it led to nothing.
 
I regret not stabbing that kid in the eye with my pencil back in like 3rd grade, I regret not stabbing people who harassed me throughout my teen years.
All that self control and I have nothing to show for it.
 
Being born
We weren't born monsters. Incels are much like Frankenstein's creation. Didn't ask to exist, we weren't born with malice in our hearts, we tried to be decent people. Our experiences shaped us into who we are now
 
I regret throwing away my future to computer, vidya and internet addiction, used to skip school for years until I permanently ruined my grades, which meant no uni, which meant only entry level bluecollar work, which meant wageslavery, which meant being stuck in a small apartment in a small town innawoods racking up debt while everyone I ever knew lives a good and moderately happy life knowing my future will only get worse and worse, and as we all know the blackpill leads to suicide or murder.
 
I regret throwing away my future to computer, vidya and internet addiction, used to skip school for years until I permanently ruined my grades, which meant no uni, which meant only entry level bluecollar work, which meant wageslavery, which meant being stuck in a small apartment in a small town innawoods racking up debt while everyone I ever knew lives a good and moderately happy life knowing my future will only get worse and worse, and as we all know the blackpill leads to suicide or murder.
the only logical outcome to blackpill is rope. Or if you're higher T, ER. It's the only thing that makes sense, no point in making it to old age as an incel where the loneliness will be 100x more severe. I mean if normies are depressed in old age from loneliness then imagine how much worse it must be as an inkie
 
All that time.
 
I regret not having killed myself yet. thinking it gets better, coping myself out of every attempt
 
I don't have regrets. I am the regrets.

I'm sure there was a legitimate reason.

Everyone else:


I'm starting to respect birth, for a different reason.
 
I wish I didn't act a fool when I was a kid and made better friends. I also wish I wasn't born in general
 
I'll be honest theres things i could've done in HS, in my teen years that wouldn't have led me down the path I'm on rn. I wanna find genuine happiness, I really do. If I were to be truly happy tomorrow, even for a day I could die the next day tbh. If I could find genuine happiness even for a day i could die content. Obv most of our problems are a result of our genetics, but I have some pretty serious regrets, I did some terrible things, I won't deny.
yes you pushed people alway from helping you yes you did terrible things but we like you cause your funny.
 
for me i wanted to say lots of things but almost everything got covered by other members,

my bigges regret is not being able to cash on certain opportunities in life, sometimes due to my foolishness but majority of time due to my asshole father
 
Not working harder and being more studious in high school. Had I gotten better grades I could have gone to a better university and moved out of this shithole state. Even now in college I regret not making really good friends in high school. Now I’m just very lonely and unfulfilled .
 

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