Do you blame your parents for your social ineptness?

[Crustaciouse]

I definitely blame mine.
Both my parents worked and I am an only child so I was extremely secluded in my youth.
I would spend all day inside playing flash games on the computer and playing on my game boy while other kids where out playing sports and interacting with other people.
This seclusion during my developing years definitely caused me to have an unhealthy fear of social situations, and it left me without any knowledge of how to act around other kids.
And because of this I got bullied during elementary school, the bullying ofcoarse led to even more fear of social situations.
My parents never even taught me how to deal with girls I liked, they relied on an arraigned marriage for their marriage so they never taught me the basics of starting a relationship.
Because of my parents I have remained permanently social stunted by years compared to everyone else.

 

[deathgreetsmeslow]

No, I blame genetic lottery. My parents are relatively attractive and my dad is a chadlite.

 

[tehgymcel420]

Yes, I wish they didn't have any children so our subhuman race could die already.

 

[Refund]

They made a almosthumancel like me, so yes.

 

[Deleted member 3725]

Mines purposely isolated me from having a normal life. I suspect my mother had some form of mental illness. I was also beaten frequently as a child.

But i would give zero fucks about all that if i was just born with better genetics. I could get molested as a child for all i care. I just want to be goodlooking.

 

[Not_Important]

They drugged me the fuck up with ADHD meds until senior year of HS, so yeah.
Maybe I could have turned out NT.

 

[Deleted member 5712]

Of course. Every failure of a human being can trace his failure back to his parents. Mine were shit human beings to each other and their marriage was the worst. I actually was applauding the day they got divorced. Things are a lot nicer now that they don't live together.

Which means for 18 years they royally fucked me up which is just enough time to scar me for life. And they wonder why they don't have grandkids and I don't ever go on dates...

 

[Indari]

I was disallowed from going to other kid's houses/having sleepovers. I was left to rot in boredom and not taught anything.

 

[deathgreetsmeslow]

I was disallowed from going to other kid's houses/having sleepovers. I was left to rot in boredom and not taught anything.

What were their reasons?

 

[Indari]

What were their reasons?

my mother read a story somewhere or something about a kid getting raped during a sleepover by the other kid's parents.

 

[deathgreetsmeslow]

my mother read a story somewhere or something about a kid getting raped during a sleepover by the other kid's parents.

Wow that genuinely sounds terrible. I don't know if you like her not but a lot of women are bored and emotionally unstable so a single event can warp their whole worldview.

 

[Indari]

Wow that genuinely sounds terrible. I don't know if you like her not but a lot of women are bored and emotionally unstable so a single event can warp their whole worldview.

i think she is actually autistic

 

[lostcel]

I was disallowed from going to other kid's houses/having sleepovers. I was left to rot in boredom and not taught anything.

it was the same for me, this basically turns you into a social retard incapable of making friends

 

[Indari]

it was the same for me, this basically turns you into a social retard incapable of making friends

mihoff

 

[Deleted member 5653]

I was disallowed from going to other kid's houses/having sleepovers. I was left to rot in boredom and not taught anything.

Pretty much this, they gladly got me a computer and let me sit at it for hours just so I wouldn't hang out with other kids and become a drug dealer or something.

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

I blame my genes for everything that is wrong with me. Seriously the amount of little fucked up things that i have inherited from parents or their parents is ridiculous. It is why i am not just subhuman in the face but subhuman everywhere. Just kill me please

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

my mother read a story somewhere or something about a kid getting raped during a sleepover by the other kid's parents.

it does happen but its very fucking rare for that to happen, and imo its pretty easy to tell if you should stay away from a family or not, just how they act/ body language etc etc

 

[Tellem--T]

My parents didn't fix my bite at a young age

 

[5mb]

My parents were both socially inept people that raised me the same way, they never let me interact with other kids

 

[chadmarco]

Definitely. I hate how people rag on people for being shit parents when the child is young, but when you're an adult saying that your parents fucked you they totally dismiss your claims. You certainly have to let it go and take responsibility at some point, but the importance of proper parenting and the negative effects of neglect isn't something we should ignore. I'm from the ghetto so I see it all the time where complete immature idiots have kids and don't know how to raise them. People will beat their kids for not passing a class when they never even help them with their homework, not like they could because they didn't even finish high school themselves.The world would be so much better if you had to meet certain requirements to procreate, same as if you wanted to be a doctor or lawyer.

 

[feio]

I blame my genetics. My brother is 2 years younger than me and he is beautiful have friends girlfriends and so many things i don't have.
Probably my father. He was like me! He was a virgin until 24 years old.

 

[The End]

No, I blame genetic lottery.

I think having children is one of the cruelest things people can do.

 

[Werthersoriginal]

Mostly. I was verbally/emotionally abused as a kid and it made me shy and cautious around people so i never made any friends in school. I turned to food for a lot of my problems.

 

[Incelibate anarchist]

Not really. Me, my mind and society did most of the damage.

 

[grayjedi90]

I definitely blame mine.
Both my parents worked and I am an only child so I was extremely secluded in my youth.
I would spend all day inside playing flash games on the computer and playing on my game boy while other kids where out playing sports and interacting with other people.
This seclusion during my developing years definitely caused me to have an unhealthy fear of social situations, and it left me without any knowledge of how to act around other kids.
And because of this I got bullied during elementary school, the bullying ofcoarse led to even more fear of social situations.
My parents never even taught me how to deal with girls I liked, they relied on an arraigned marriage for their marriage so they never taught me the basics of starting a relationship.
Because of my parents I have remained permanently social stunted by years compared to everyone else.

Partly yes. Although i was a mentalcel since my teenage years, my mother being overprotective and my father don't giving a shit about me sure didn't help it.

 

[Juxtaposition6]

My mother wanted me to socialize but i could't because all the kids were either bullying me or getting away from me because they wanted nothing to do with me, besides, i never had that much of an interest in making friends.
I think i may have had some form of autism but it's impossible to know because nobody knew what the fuck autism was before the year 2008 or so, impossible to get a diagnosis.

 

[Diablocel]

Idk

I was social in pre school but then when first year of elementary school came I just sat there in my seat while wanna-be tough guys and wanna-be chads and femoids were making a social circle that includes almost everyone other than me, I didn't know how to talk to anyone and only was socializing with the guy I sat next to

In high school I was social and not seen as weird (maybe by some like the femoid who told me that I am "non-communicative" and that I am the weird one while "everyone else" is socially competent, hope she gets tortured for an eternity)

 

[22bpd]

I do blame them

 

[BlackVoid12]

I absolutely blame them.

 

[Weed]

Nope, I am subhuman by genes.. Altrough my parents let me rot near PC since 7 it was my choice.

 

[starystulejarz]

Yeah i do my mother was overprotective and i was bullied since kindergarden

 

[Diablocel]

Yeah i do my mother was overprotective and i was bullied since kindergarden

It's because you were bullied since kindergarden, her being overprotective was just a symptom

 

[Captvic]

Yes

My dad has no friends, and when I was younger they did not let me leave the house at all, couldn't even go to a friend's house that was in the same neighborhood or I would get in trouble. My parents raised me wrong. Also I was never taught how to be a man by either my dad, uncle's, or my older brother

 

[starystulejarz]

It's because you were bullied since kindergarden, her being overprotective was just a symptom

Yeah i also were fat as fuck since i was only eating junkfood (mcdonald's and pizzas), my grandpa and mother just gave up on me since i was 4 years old, my grandpa or dad (with every passing year he was visiting my mother and me less and less and i haven't seen him once since i was 15) haven't gave a single fuck to teach me how to be a men and stand for myself, now i'm a human trash rotting at home due social anxiety, neurosis, depression with suicidal thoughts.

 

[Deleted member 1499]

Yeah. My mom bought me dorky clothes, wouldn't let me play sports, raised me on a diet of sugary, fatty, and deep fried foods, and taught me that the secret to getting girls was holding doors open to show how chivalrous I am. After I moved in with my dad he held my savings hostage to keep me from having friends or dating.

 

[uninstall]

up until my teen years I was NT as fuck

but then