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First incel trait of your life?

Mr.Breb

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The first one, that i do remenber, was when i was 4-5 yrs. Another child used to hit me daily, while i did nothing except for crying to my mother after school. By that age is just a kids thing but it can be a clue of how our inner self is and predict future.

Another one that i don't remenber but my parents told me was a kid stealing my toys while i was using them, after that i took other toys which no one was using and the other guy took them away from me, stealing again. My parents gaslighted me and said that i was intelligent and i had taken the other toys so that the boy would steal them, and free the ones which i was using previously. False, i was just a beta.

Though not the main reason for my inceldom, my beta, subjugated, non violent personality, has always been there sinking me in the bottom of the sexual and social hierarchy.
 
I'm sorry no one stood up for you bro. Getting bullied is the defining incel trait. It's cruel but true that our use to society is only measured by our willingness to be exploited. We will never be human in their eyes.
 
Being a short and ginger kid
 
Playin alone since kindergarden
 
I hugged everyone and had a #MeToo moment at a very early age
 
Not having any friends
 
The first one, that i do remenber, was when i was 4-5 yrs. Another child used to hit me daily, while i did nothing except for crying to my mother after school. By that age is just a kids thing but it can be a clue of how our inner self is and predict future.

Another one that i don't remenber but my parents told me was a kid stealing my toys while i was using them, after that i took other toys which no one was using and the other guy took them away from me, stealing again. My parents gaslighted me and said that i was intelligent and i had taken the other toys so that the boy would steal them, and free the ones which i was using previously. False, i was just a beta.

Though not the main reason for my inceldom, my beta, subjugated, non violent personality, has always been there sinking me in the bottom of the sexual and social hierarchy.
When I was younger, I was invited to a sleepover. There were an equal number of boys and girls.

Someone suggested we play spin the bottle. Before the game started, one of the foids made it clear that if the bottle landed on me, she wouldn’t kiss me. She gave a flimsy excuse, but it was obvious she only had an issue with me and not anyone else.
 
I was being bullied and the teacher thought I was the bully
 
Being bullied
 
Being short and the constant bullying I received
 
Bullied constantly up until late 2nd grade and then being ignored by everyone after. At least I lashed out on other kids and teachers and destroyed things in classrooms though.
 
Though not the main reason for my inceldom, my beta, subjugated, non violent personality, has always been there sinking me in the bottom of the sexual and social hierarchy.
 
Extremely thin bones and narrow frame. My body was begging to be bullied.
 
Being ugly, GrAY.
 
I was the only child who cried to go to preschool

the teacher called me stupid,

there was already a group of cool kids i never was part (some of whom later studied with me in elementary school and confirmed became outgoing normies)

I was friends with two weird cousins, one of them liked to show his dick.

I was later friend with a excluded chubby autistic girl, and coincidentally I made friend with another chubby excluded autistic girl in elementary.
 
Show signs of autism like hating loud noises
 
Being punished for everything while everyone else got off without so much as a slap on the wrist.
 
I do vividly remember every female classmate trying to avoid any physical contact they even hated when I handed out papers.

Even in 8th–9th grade, when the gym teacher required us to play tag, they pretended to or used the back of their hands.

And even then, they were disgusted. One girl told the teacher she wasn't comfortable with boys because her ex-boyfriend assaulted her, but she only used that to avoid me—and still dated with her ex.
 
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Being born with deformed skeleton and face
 
Being the mute kid
 
Being bullied when little and girls liking guys around you except you when you get older.
 
Being treated differently by my pairs during school.
 
Apart from my physical features the first thing I can think of is having to get speech therapy

Even Now I still can’t speak that well
 
I do vividly remember every female classmate trying to avoid any physical contact they even hated when I handed out papers.

Even in 8th–9th grade, when the gym teacher required us to play tag, they pretended to or used the back of their hands.

And even then, they were disgusted. One girl told the teacher she wasn't comfortable with boys because her ex-boyfriend assaulted her, but she only used that to avoid me—and still dated with her ex.
I think this happened to me too sometimes but I can barely even remember anything from when I was younger anymore so Idk for sure
 
being born in august
 
getting socially excluded in kindergarten
 
Can you describe this more
I think you asked me months ago and I mentioned it a few times. I know you have similar issues.

I'm not sure it's just genetics from my grandfather (mother side) but my bones are super thin and I never gain fat in my arms. I was extremely malnourished growing up tho especially early childhood. I didn't exaggerate when I said kids mog my bones. My shoulders are really narrow as well I remember my friend being shocked when I managed to squeeze through places no one could lol.

And regarding bullying it's self explanatory. I was very weak physically so boys bullied me relentlessly. I was very ashamed of my thin arms and wore hoodies to hide them. The only thing that helped a bit was the gym.

I have plenty of other flaws but being weak physically made things much worse since I was an easy target.
 
I think you asked me months ago and I mentioned it a few times. I know you have similar issues.

I'm not sure it's just genetics from my grandfather (mother side) but my bones are super thin and I never gain fat in my arms. I was extremely malnourished growing up tho especially early childhood. I didn't exaggerate when I said kids mog my bones. My shoulders are really narrow as well I remember my friend being shocked when I managed to squeeze through places no one could lol.

And regarding bullying it's self explanatory. I was very weak physically so boys bullied me relentlessly. I was very ashamed of my thin arms and wore hoodies to hide them. The only thing that helped a bit was the gym.

I have plenty of other flaws but being weak physically made things much worse since I was an easy target.
What's your height and bidelt now you're fully grown
 
Looked into a mirror and was scared / grossed out at what I saw
 
What's your height and bidelt now you're fully grown
Height 5'11.

I had to look up what bidelt is and I tried to measure it myself. Around 15 inches.

Edit: I don't think I can measure it accurately tbh.
 
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The first one, that i do remenber, was when i was 4-5 yrs. Another child used to hit me daily, while i did nothing except for crying to my mother after school. By that age is just a kids thing but it can be a clue of how our inner self is and predict future.

Another one that i don't remenber but my parents told me was a kid stealing my toys while i was using them, after that i took other toys which no one was using and the other guy took them away from me, stealing again. My parents gaslighted me and said that i was intelligent and i had taken the other toys so that the boy would steal them, and free the ones which i was using previously. False, i was just a beta.

Though not the main reason for my inceldom, my beta, subjugated, non violent personality, has always been there sinking me in the bottom of the sexual and social hierarchy.
damn u were born a coward. is your father the same? even if you get mad enough do u still not do anything?
 
damn u were born a coward. is your father the same? even if you get mad enough do u still not do anything?
yeah, it's something i've tried to improve or better said "faking im aggresive". Once i hitted a guy bc he was humilliating me, he hitted me more. Brothers are the same. Do not think those traits come that much from my father rather from my mom
 
yeah, it's something i've tried to improve or better said "faking im aggresive". Once i hitted a guy bc he was humilliating me, he hitted me more. Brothers are the same. Do not think those traits come that much from my father rather from my mom
you can force it everyone is scared in a fight. even mma fighters talk about it. just dont back down
 
The first one, that i do remenber, was when i was 4-5 yrs. Another child used to hit me daily, while i did nothing except for crying to my mother after school. By that age is just a kids thing but it can be a clue of how our inner self is and predict future.

Another one that i don't remenber but my parents told me was a kid stealing my toys while i was using them, after that i took other toys which no one was using and the other guy took them away from me, stealing again. My parents gaslighted me and said that i was intelligent and i had taken the other toys so that the boy would steal them, and free the ones which i was using previously. False, i was just a beta.

Though not the main reason for my inceldom, my beta, subjugated, non violent personality, has always been there sinking me in the bottom of the sexual and social hierarchy.
My mother had me with 44 years old
 
other kids being unenthusiastic or outright pessimistic about being paired with me in group assignments, sports etc. (especially girls) I wasn't a disruptive kid, I wasn't violent, I wasn't in any way whatsoever disruptive towards anyone, people just found me strange (high functioning autism) so every time I wanted to interact with someone say though a special interest of mine people just knew to avoid me, I also was overly trusting and thought everyone was my friend do to overprotective parents raising me in sheltered environment so other kids would take advantage of this to do shit like steal my food or make me to do embarrassing crap like curse at the teacher etc. I have always been an outsider
 
Having my first incident as a non-NT.
 

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