Serious Do you actively try to improve your situation?

[rotting-alone]

Yes, I'm actively trying to make as much money as possible so I can WealthCope.

This is the best cope. No matter what anyone says. Career success, wealth, financial happiness...these are the truest achievements in life.

It sucks we'll never have a woman enjoy them with us. But maybe we can pull some Isacc Newton or Nicola Tesla shit and be academic gods while being virgins.

 

[deathgreetsmeslow]

Do not go down the self-destructive path. I did. It served no purpose.

Wise words.

 

[diogenes]

No, I have not escaped.

I'm in my 20s, and will still be in my 20's a year later. We have all missed youth. However, statistically, it's not over until you hit your 30s. A lot of "late bloomers" lose it in their mid 20s.

Do not go down the self-destructive path. I did. It served no purpose.

I'll consider it. After all that's why I'm here, to learn. I wonder what kind of self-destruction did you do? I honestly see no solution. I grind so hard yet I see no fruits of my labor, I don't know if you played WoW but on WoW (and all videogames) I knew that if I grinded I would be rewarded. Unfortunately it doesn't work like that IRL.

Perhaps I'm even only mentalcel, but still there is no way out. And no way am I paying a normie therapist to tell me what I already know.

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

I work my ass off every day to be better. It never stops.

 

[Its0verMuhNigga]

It was over for me the moment the sperm met the egg.

 

[diogenes]

It was over for me the moment the sperm met the egg.

Wrong, it was over during meiosis. You could have turned a Chad with the same genes recombined into Chad. We lost the genetic lottery.

 

[hunchback]

I don't see what's the point. I was born with a condition called scoliosis. my case is particularly severe. I go outside and people are literally horrified to see me. I can't even enter most stores and shops, 9 out of 10 times the manager approaches me and asks me to leave because I'm making his customers uncomfortable. i've even been assaulted and beaten once because it was dark and people thought i was some kind of monster. It doesn't matter how much i "improve", society clearly doesn't want me to leave my house

 

[Werthersoriginal]

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hahahahaha

 

[Werthersoriginal]

i try to better myself everyday, be nice and considerate. but people are shit and have as much depth as there is water in a toilet bowl. sometimes you just have to say fuck it, get some comfort food, and block out social interaction while you lay in bed for a few days.

 

[Werthersoriginal]

I don't see what's the point. I was born with a condition called scoliosis. my case is particularly severe. I go outside and people are literally horrified to see me. I can't even enter most stores and shops, 9 out of 10 times the manager approaches me and asks me to leave because I'm making his customers uncomfortable. i've even been assaulted and beaten once because it was dark and people thought i was some kind of monster. It doesn't matter how much i "improve", society clearly doesn't want me to leave my house

how bad do you have to have it to be asked to leave a store or jumped? Have you considered a brace?

 

[endit]

You have to be ripped and have a six pack just to get a fattie, or an average femoid with a ton of makeup. Being skinny isn't enough unless you're a 7+

Sad reality. I used to be chubby and once I got skinny I went from absolutely no attention to .00000001% attention (aka one girl talks to me on her own every few years)

fat < skinny << fit <<<< muscular <<<<<<<<<<< nice face.

 

[Invisincelble]

I am. But I will always just have this sort of in my head and to remember, even if I did improve my situation. I can relate to Red Pill in this way, like I just have more knowledge and wisdom at my disposal. But I think Red PIll is too hopeful, like if they never reach their goal from becoming Red Pilled and then subsequentially self improvement, it will be harder for them to digest and cope.

I guess I'm hoping for the best, expecting the worst. It's an emotional safety net.

 

[grayjedi90]

I wonder if people here try to actively improve their situations.

I only joined the forum as a commitment and last attempt to improve my situation. I've been LDARing for years just lurking various communities but have never really tried. If I can't improve by the end of the year IT'S OVER for me. This thread is also a reminder for myself.

Anyway I am also looking for guides to improving. My worse areas are mentally and physically (attractiveness). I already gymcel because the only thing a man has truly got is his ability to project violence.

Im almost 28, have no friends and never had a girlfriend. There was a time where i really tried hard for several years without success. But now there is no reason to believe that it will get better. Occasionally i may try something but in general i have given up.

 

[Pasteleiro]

Yeah.

 

[Robtical]

Sad reality. I used to be chubby and once I got skinny I went from absolutely no attention to .00000001% attention (aka one girl talks to me on her own every few years)

fat < skinny << fit <<<< muscular <<<<<<<<<<< nice face.

This was my experience as well. I thought losing weight was my ticket to get all the girls I wanted, but not much changed from when I was fat. I even got a little ripped and still nothing changed. Face is always number one. I want to get muscular again and try my luck in a third world country where I automatically have status for being american.

 

[Diablocel]

Yes but everything is very depressing, stressful to the point where I have a heart condition and difficult to get through

 

[uglylifematters]

kind of what im doing now. im still in the young and optimistic phase so i still have hope

 

[GeneticFilth]

I tried. I took accutane and it didn't get rid of my acne. I gymcelled for a year and my lower body grew, but my upper body was complete rash to to terrible bone strucutre e.g. tiny wrist. I looked into getting jaw surgery and my bite is so bad that I would need severe surgery and even that is just to go from a 1 to a 3 and then I would be in massive debt.

 

[Weed]

I gave up after nothing worked out

 

[hunchback]

how bad do you have to have it to be asked to leave a store or jumped? Have you considered a brace?

i don't remember the angle, or any of the other details. i haven't seen a doctor about it in a very long time.
and yes I had to wear a brace when I was younger and i also had to visit a chiropractor 1 or 2 times a week, I don't remember how often exactly. neither did anything except make the bullying much worse, since the brace looked like a corset. i've always liked the winter months because i could wear thick clothes on top of it. one time in highschool my bullies made me take it off and cut the straps with their scissors, then told the teacher i did it myself because i was embarrassed to wear it. everyone believed them.

there is no curing scoliosis, it's like AIDS, it never goes away all you can do is mitigate it. i'm aware there is surgery for it but i've never found a surgeon willing to perform it on me, they told me it was risky and complicated.

 

[catfishman23]

total obvious normie thread.

Look self improvement is cope, doing any other things is cope. It does not attract females, Trust me in my past life I took up a hobby and did everything and I was lacking a girlfriend. So no none of that works like you suggest.

 

[Hunter]

yes, heightmaxxing, weightminning, gymmaxxing, nofapmaxxing, coldshowermaxxing, NTmaxxing, maxxingmaxxing etc

 

[blickpall]

As others have mentioned, this forum is not exactly the place to discuss various "self-improvement" strategies like the various "maxing" and etc.

This place is the end of the line, for people who either can't, won't, don't want to, or tried and failed at, do/doing all of the above.

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

Improvement is pointless if your genetic worth is less than nil. Just get am easy job and ldar with copes. Fuck life. Chad or bust.

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

Wrong, it was over during meiosis. You could have turned a Chad with the same genes recombined into Chad. We lost the genetic lottery.

Brutal truth. Which is why i say Fuck life

 

[TheCrock]

I mew and do posture exercises, am getting consultations for my jaw (dumb bluepilled doctors don't see it as a problem.). That's about it.

 

[Werthersoriginal]

i don't remember the angle, or any of the other details. i haven't seen a doctor about it in a very long time.
and yes I had to wear a brace when I was younger and i also had to visit a chiropractor 1 or 2 times a week, I don't remember how often exactly. neither did anything except make the bullying much worse, since the brace looked like a corset. i've always liked the winter months because i could wear thick clothes on top of it. one time in highschool my bullies made me take it off and cut the straps with their scissors, then told the teacher i did it myself because i was embarrassed to wear it. everyone believed them.

there is no curing scoliosis, it's like AIDS, it never goes away all you can do is mitigate it. i'm aware there is surgery for it but i've never found a surgeon willing to perform it on me, they told me it was risky and complicated.

I've seen a video on YouTube of a guy visiting a chiropractor (forgot how often) for about a year and he had it so bad he was bent over nearly half his height and it slowly got better after a few visits each time and by the end he was almost fully standing up and could walk without any help. Is your chiropractor trying to fix your back or just ease the pain with the visits?

edit- fuck bullies. I hated school with a passion.

 

[kappo0]

Yes loosing weight

 

[hunchback]

I've seen a video on YouTube of a guy visiting a chiropractor (forgot how often) for about a year and he had it so bad he was bent over nearly half his height and it slowly got better after a few visits each time and by the end he was almost fully standing up and could walk without any help. Is your chiropractor trying to fix your back or just ease the pain with the visits?

edit- fuck bullies. I hated school with a passion.

i honestly have no idea what he was doing. all of this happened over 15 years ago

 

[Werthersoriginal]

i honestly have no idea what he was doing. all of this happened over 15 years ago

do you still see him? I would ask. if not, i would look for someone who can start again

 

[hunchback]

do you still see him? I would ask. if not, i would look for someone who can start again

no i stopped going when i was 16 i think. I don't remember why. I think my mom was too busy with work and there was no one to drive me around.

i started going again when i was 21. The girl was p. nice and made me feel comfortable when I took off my shirt. She had this routine where she tried to "push" my ribcage into the right position. After 6 months I had to start working full time so I couldnt keep going

If I ever become neet again I will try to see a chiropractor again. I dunno if it actually works but the girl I saw when I was 21 def made me feel better.

 

[TomathonClancy]

I try every day to work out. Whenever I feel depressed, I work out. I hate it, I hate putting my body through ten times as much stress as Chads just because I wasn't genetically gifted, but I feel the need to compensate for being Indian and ugly.

But you know guys, none of that matters, because if you're ugly and ripped, people will view you exactly as that "ripped but ugly". You'll still be half a man. Girls say they like skinny guys not because they don't like muscular people, but because they're trying to screen out uglies like me.

 

[gambleaddictmntlcel]

I lift, meditate and try to only masturbate once a week. I really need to stop gambling though, it's destroying me.

 

[PleaseKillMeLoseSkin]

Read the sig nig

 

[Werthersoriginal]

no i stopped going when i was 16 i think. I don't remember why. I think my mom was too busy with work and there was no one to drive me around.

i started going again when i was 21. The girl was p. nice and made me feel comfortable when I took off my shirt. She had this routine where she tried to "push" my ribcage into the right position. After 6 months I had to start working full time so I couldnt keep going

If I ever become neet again I will try to see a chiropractor again. I dunno if it actually works but the girl I saw when I was 21 def made me feel better.

That sucks, it should've been a priority. I would definitely look into going again even if it means not working full time. Better quality of life > work.