Serious Do you actively try to improve your situation?

[diogenes]

I wonder if people here try to actively improve their situations.

I only joined the forum as a commitment and last attempt to improve my situation. I've been LDARing for years just lurking various communities but have never really tried. If I can't improve by the end of the year IT'S OVER for me. This thread is also a reminder for myself.

Anyway I am also looking for guides to improving. My worse areas are mentally and physically (attractiveness). I already gymcel because the only thing a man has truly got is his ability to project violence.

 

[torujo]

no, i gave up

 

[deathgreetsmeslow]

I'm not sure if this is the place to come for "self-improvement".

 

[Deleted member]

what is a literal midget to do to “improve”? of course not. anything of the sort would be a waste of time.

 

[diogenes]

I'm not sure if this is the place to come for "self-improvement".

Then what is this place for? I've lurked for a while before registering and that is not the impression I got from the community. If people here aren't trying to exit inceldom then they might as well move onto wizchan.org.

 

[rotting-alone]

I try for like 15 min and then I burn out and give up for a few days and then repeat the cycle.

If I could stay motivated, I would escape inceldom.

1) focus
2) careermax
3) surgery
4) Chad life

But it's so fucking hard to careermax when you're a lazy mutherfucker. I will rot in my fancy corporate internship forever.

 

[Ritalincel]

Then what is this place for? I've lurked for a while before registering and that is not the impression I got from the community. If people here aren't trying to exit inceldom then they might as well move onto wizchan.org.

cope

 

[GaelicIrish]

It is a funny situation because all the time you spend trying to improve yourself we are still growing older therefore we are also getting worse, even if we do improve in some way we will still be in a worse situation, if we couldn't get women in the prime of our lives what hope to we have in the future, unless we find those young girls who have a fetish for older men.

 

[diogenes]

If I could stay motivated, I would escape inceldom.

Same here. Some days you just wake up and take a peek into the mirror by accident and you lose all motivation to exercise, eat, shave, groom, everything.

 

[Robtical]

You have to be ripped and have a six pack just to get a fattie, or an average femoid with a ton of makeup. Being skinny isn't enough unless you're a 7+

 

[KyloRen]

> Joined 46 minutes ago

 

[diogenes]

> Joined 46 minutes ago

What's wrong with that? I was in the discord for a while before it got banned. I wouldn't have even registered if the discord didn't get banned as I don't like forums.

 

[Deleted member]

What's wrong with that? I was in the discord for a while before it got banned. I wouldn't have even registered if the discord didn't get banned as I don't like forums.

i’m curious, what was your username there?

 

[Mahlo]

Yes, I'm actively trying to make as much money as possible so I can WealthCope.

 

[Weirdcel]

No, things never workout so don't try.

 

[deathgreetsmeslow]

What's wrong with that? I was in the discord for a while before it got banned. I wouldn't have even registered if the discord didn't get banned as I don't like forums.

You also cliamed you have been browsing as a guest actively a while, but for some reason don't like to post on the forums.

I don't understand how someone could browse here faithfully as a guest and not fully swallow the blackpill. This thread shows you are either not an incel or something of that nature. You might be better suited at Reddit's GetMotivated if you want to improve yourself.

 

[oldoldold]

Gym (everyday)
Improve my career status
Both have helped.

 

[diogenes]

i’m curious, what was your username there?

One Piece character.

No, things never workout so don't try.

You're right, but for me it's live or die. If I don't make it why even live? What will be the point of everything? At least for now I live because I'm attempting. When I fail in a year I'll kill myself, but if I make it then so be it I'll be glad.

You also cliamed you have been browsing as a guest actively a while, but for some reason don't like to post on the forums.

I don't understand how someone could browse here faithfully as a guest and not fully swallow the blackpill.

I don't like the forum format because it is not anonymous. I prefer anonymous imageboards. Of course I am blackpilled.

 

[Maeror]

Improve myself for dating? No, i no longer care about getting a date.

I really love martial arts and being a philomath though, i improve myself for sake being a better version of my past.

I also think your username is a bit ironic, you have the opposite version of Diogenes/ senile squalor syndrome.

 

[deathgreetsmeslow]

Of course I am blackpilled.

My worse areas are mentally and physically (attractiveness). I already gymcel because the only thing a man has truly got is his ability to project violence.

If you're an incel you can't improve yourself physically without a radical action (such as surgery). No one comes here to improve their mental health (Iol) although that might be an effect, this is a discussion board about incels and incel-related topics.That last line is also extremely suspect.

 

[Kointo1]

Does this mean the registrations are open now? You joined an hour ago.

 

[GaelicIrish]

I don't get how improving your career is improving this situation? does that not mean your future plan is to Betabux?

 

[diogenes]

If you're an incel you can't improve yourself physically without a radical action (such as surgery). No one comes here to improve their mental health (Iol) although that might be an effect, this is a discussion board about incels and incel-related topics.That last line is also extremely suspect.

What's wrong with that line? Perhaps you live in a sheltered small town or something, but where I live the weakest get robbed and assaulted. Being able to physically display signs of aggression is good to avoid confrontation.

 

[Deleted member 1499]

Nope.

 

[Zesto]

Improve myself for dating? No, i no longer care about getting a date.

I really love martial arts and being a philomath though, i improve myself for sake being a better version of my past.

I also think your username is a bit ironic, you have the opposite version of Diogenes/ senile squalor syndrome.

I was going to post similar. Taking the name and image of someone who lived in a barrel and masturbated in public is not conducive to self improvement.

 

[th62eathhts2]

no, i gave up

 

[diogenes]

I also think your username is a bit ironic, you have the opposite version of Diogenes/ senile squalor syndrome.

What do you mean? If you mean that I'm a low confidence beta, while Diogenes was socially alpha and did what he wanted, you're absolutely right. But being like Diogenes is my goal.

Taking the name and image of someone who lived in a barrel and masturbated in public is not conducive to self improvement.

It is conducive. We remember Diogenes for his great low inhibition and self confidence. I would like to have his disregard for societal norms and tradition. He did what he pleased.

I'm so autistic that it will be a lot of work to get there, but Diogenes is my role model.

 

[IronMike]

Yes, professionally, no results as of yet

 

[_incelinside]

Waste of fucking time, if you have to 'work on yourself' to get a girlfriend it's already over. I have never seen a woman who had to 'work' on herself to get into a relationship. Relationships are meant to happen naturally without any self improvement needed by either party (if you can't get a single girl without making drastic changes to yourself it's a sign that you aren't shit in the first place). Most people I run into have said they found their relationships when they weren't looking for them

 

[EVILcel]

Only barbarianmaxxing, I have given up on dating completely

 

[diogenes]

Waste of fucking time, if you have to 'work on yourself' to get a girlfriend it's already over. I have never seen a woman who had to 'work' on herself to get into a relationship. Relationships are meant to happen naturally without any self improvement needed by either party (if you can't get a single girl without making drastic changes to yourself it's a sign that you aren't shit in the first place). Most people I run into have said they found their relationships when they weren't looking for them

I don't believe you. Otherwise why do I see Chads and Chadlites in the gym every day? Why do they take care of their appearance with products and so on?

Only barbarianmaxxing, I have given up on dating completely

What's your strategy? How do you do it?

 

[_incelinside]

I don't believe you. Otherwise why do I see Chads and Chadlites in the gym every day? Why do they take care of their appearance with products and so on?


What's your strategy? How do you do it?

The point I am trying to make is that they are capable of acquiring relationships anyway without touching a weight, if they do gymcel it as a hobby/pastime, taking care of your appearance is something everybody does. If girls are repulsed by you naturally, self improvement is a meme

 

[KyloRen]

How old are you?

 

[diogenes]

How old are you?

It's not something I share over the internet. But you can probably guess that I am in the 20's range. How old are you?

 

[Maeror]

What do you mean? If you mean that I'm a low confidence beta, while Diogenes was socially alpha and did what he wanted, you're absolutely right. But being like Diogenes is my goal.

May i ask why you didnt select Nietzsche's Selbstüberwindung and Amor Fati then?

 

[Not_Important]

Only barbarianmaxxing, I have given up on dating completely

 

[KyloRen]

It's not something I share over the internet. But you can probably guess that I am in the 20's range. How old are you?

Early, mid, late?

You can search my post history to find it.

 

[EVILcel]

What's your strategy? How do you do it?

Gymcelling, practice being low inhib, moneymaxxing, boxing gym

 

[deathgreetsmeslow]

You can search my post history to find it.

Messages: 7,535

 

[KyloRen]

Messages: 7,535

Kek. OP doesn't share, I won't share with OP.

 

[Mudkip]

Gymmaxxing to cope. I’ve have gotten some extremely good results but still single and lonely.

 

[Incelibate anarchist]

Not anymore, I have no reason to.

 

[diogenes]

May i ask why you didnt select Nietzsche's Selbstüberwindung and Amor Fati then?

Nietzsche is alright, but he did not live what he envisioned. As for Amor Fati which is a Stoic concept, I see Stoicism as nothing more than taking it in the ass and being asked to keep quiet. No, I cannot embrace this. And no, if I am
"taking it in the ass" as I put it by life then I'll rebel and fight until either I win or lose. If I fail to get out of inceldom suicide or self destruction are the only two paths.

On the other hand Diogenes preached and lived what he preached.

Early, mid, late?

You can search my post history to find it.

Why do you need specifics? I'm highly paranoid and I don't see the point in telling you any specifics.

 

[KyloRen]

Why do you need specifics? I'm highly paranoid and I don't see the point in telling you any specifics.

It's not truly over until you're in your 30s. Depending on your age you still have time to go to school, careermax, etc.

 

[diogenes]

It's not truly over until you're in your 30s.

Yes I know it's not late yet. But if I don't make it this year there is no point.

 

[Maeror]

Nietzsche is alright, but he did not live what he envisioned. As for Amor Fati which is a Stoic concept, I see Stoicism as nothing more than taking it in the ass and being asked to keep quiet. No, I cannot embrace this. And no, if I am
"taking it in the ass" as I put it by life then I'll rebel and fight until either I win or lose. If I fail to get out of inceldom suicide or self destruction are the only two paths.
On the other hand Diogenes preached and lived what he preached.

Interesting perspective indeed however you are not them, you dont need to care about them but their memes. After all they are 6 feet under and the only thing that is important is to transmit and get beneficial memes.

I am not sure if Stoicism is "taking in the ass" my interpretation of it was to see hardships as not struggles but a fuel to greatness, to embrace the pain and see it as a fuel for your potential. To fight until your death without any showing any weakness, isnt this your end goal?


This is debatable but i am inclined to believe that there is a beauty to the world even when you are an incel, universe is fascinating indeed. There are tons of things to learn, tons of things to try and taste.

 

[KyloRen]

Yes I know it's not late yet. But if I don't make it this year there is no point.

Unless you're in your 30s you can still wait more years.

 

[Weininger]

Sometimes but then I just give up.

 

[diogenes]

I am not sure if Stoicism is "taking in the ass" my interpretation of it was to see hardships as not struggles but a fuel to greatness, to embrace the pain and see it as a fuel for your potential. To fight until your death without any showing any weakness, isnt this your end goal?

Perhaps you can interpret it that way. But to me it seems more like the same old shit of cucking idiots mentally. Stoicism was good for soldiers in campaigns across Germania, and Marcus Aurelius was one of the Stoic thinkers and emperor. Stoicism was also good for slaves, and Epictetus was a Stoic thinker and slave.

To me it is way too similar to the Catholic doctrine that was preached to the peasants of Europe, that their lot in life was to subservient to the clergy, nobility, and monarchy; in India the religion was also one that created a caste and you were stuck there for life and even today currycels complain about it; in Japan the same, and probably similarly in East Asia but I don't know that much; I could cite more historical examples but you get the point.

This is debatable but i am inclined to believe that there is a beauty to the world even when you are an incel, universe is fascinating indeed. There are tons of things to learn, tons of things to try and taste.

True, I agree. But I personally cannot take it anymore. I studycel, gymcel, and looking into looksmaxing every day in the hope that SOMETHING will change. If I am grinding so hard but nothing changes, then I will give up. You're right that I could enjoy other parts of reality such as food or travel, but even that is difficult to enjoy when you are a mentalcel like me.

Unless you're in your 30s you can still wait more years.

Are you a former incel that got out of inceldom?

I'm in the 20's range, and if I fail in one year I'll still be in the 20's range. However I can't take it anymore. If you are/were an incel you must know that the best years of life are past us. So if I missed youth, the only thing I have to look forward to is a life of grinding. That's not a life worth living in my opinion. Thus in a year it's either suicide or self-destruction through food, drugs, alcohol, tobacco, until I crash and burn.

 

[KyloRen]

Are you a former incel that got out of inceldom?

I'm in the 20's range, and if I fail in one year I'll still be in the 20's range. However I can't take it anymore. If you are/were an incel you must know that the best years of life are past us. So if I missed youth, the only thing I have to look forward to is a life of grinding. That's not a life worth living in my opinion. Thus in a year it's either suicide or self-destruction through food, drugs, alcohol, tobacco, until I crash and burn.

No, I have not escaped.

I'm in my 20s, and will still be in my 20's a year later. We have all missed youth. However, statistically, it's not over until you hit your 30s. A lot of "late bloomers" lose it in their mid 20s.

Do not go down the self-destructive path. I did. It served no purpose.