Then first you are not that neurodivergent as lot of people here so women are kinder to you. Second women are not actually kind to you, they just like your ability to have a conversation. I think they might be considering you as one of them. Which means you might be becoming a soyboy wimp for them and they don't feel any sexual tension from you. Which is certainly better than how most people are treated here. Try to ask out one of them for a date and see their real personality come out. The biggest problem people have here is not that they're treated horribly but that they are always undermined and treated like they don't deserve basic respect. and its not just about women offering any chad their pussy, its also the fact that women automatically consider chads as much more talented, smart and deserving of more things than you