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Theory Do Women Have an Incel Fetish?

yes. i told a foid that i’m incel and she immediately started begging me to fuck her
:feelshaha:

This is why I state in my first sentence "The proposition is absurd to think about."

But, think about it, have you ever actually told a foid that you are an incel?


Something to ponder.
 
Yes, for tallcels
 
Yes, for tallcels
Potentially.

It is quite likely the incel fetish is for members of our community who have qualities worth some sexual market value such as height, the majority race etc.
 
They definitely have a fakecel fetish, that's for sure.
 
Lol if u think that elliot roger is an incel by lookism, thx for playing u are not gonna make it as an incel
 
My girlfriend Megumin has an incel fetish. (But only for me).
 
My girlfriend Megumin has an incel fetish. (But only for me).
Does the character Megumin actually have an incel fetish in the show? That would be some good evidence for the incel fetish.
 
"Elliot Rodger is obviously an awful person and my sympathies lie with his victims. But holy shit, those lips."
-
u/elliotthroway

"I’d love to let some fat incel bust inside of me." -Notsafeforlurk2

"I'm trying to understand my sexuality, and I guess there is something of a dominating nature, isn't it? Like I would want to teach him, enjoy his awkwardness and his pleasure (because men, unlike women, are more likely to get pleasure from their first sex). I have never wanted to be dominating, on the contrary, but this thought fucking turns me on." -u/[deleted]

"I love a nervous person too. Once I see signs of nervousness (even small ones) I get so turned on. I love to tease and toy with a guy about it (in a nice way of course). This can be anything from eye shifting, to blushing, twitches, awkwardness, all just while talking. Noticing all these things and trying to further fluster a guy makes me feel predatorial... I obsessively love virgins. It's hard to carry on a long term relationship because I get bothered by when a guy gets use to sex and isn't as nervous." -u/wisechildhack


Do women have an Incel fetish?

The proposition is absurd to think about.

If true, if women have actually harbored some secret fetish towards male virgins this entire time, we could have solved this little problem a long, long time ago!

And yet, as I ponder the idea, it increasingly seems to be more and more of a possibility.


1. r/IncelTear

Why would a ragtag group of people (people who know this forum is obscure to the rest of society) dig through our archives and repost them for analysis?

Honestly I have no idea, I am still trying to figure this out myself (though I do find it interesting that the critics have a platform while the entertainers hide).


Perhaps, a few them are themselves incels in denial.
Perhaps, some of them truly do want to help us become the best versions we can be.

But I think there might just be something sexual at play here as well.

Take, for example, r/IncelTear user u/Princess_kitty14.

Her posts are, for the most part, relatively typical: screen captures from this forum with a (sometimes) witty title.

But other times, they're more like this (Warning: NSFW):



You see, it is not enough for u/princess_kitty14 to simply criticize incels, she also has to try to take advantage of them.

How?

By trying to get young men to subscribe to her OnlyFans and pay her money.

Now, if this is her business strategy, it is fantastic.

The perfect customer for an intimate porn website would certainly be a young, lonely, male virgin lurking on Reddit.

But isn't it interesting how this woman, who is seemingly obsessed with incels and our forum, also wants incels to look at her naked body?

Doesn't she know, subconsciously if nothing else, that virgin men are admiring her physique?

Maybe then, women aren't naturally hostile towards male virgins but have been conditioned to be by the rest of society.


Maybe they secretly want to save us.

Maybe they secretly want to free us from our inceldom but are too unaware to put it into words.

After all, in recent years we have seen a definite-

2. Increased obsession with male virginity

In recent years, there has been a distinct rise in movies and media about male virgins; so much so, in fact, that it has started to become an obsession.

In 1981, the movie Porky's was released. It follows high school virgins who go to a strip club to try and lose their virginity.

In 2005, The 40-Year-Old Virgin was released. A movie that follows a boyish 40-year-old virgin named Andy as he tries to lose his virginity.

In 2008, Sex Drive was released. A movie that follows a boyish 18-year-old virgin named Ian as he tries to lose his virginity.

I think you're starting to see the pattern here.

So why has there been such a heavy focus on male virginity in recent years?

Well, part of the problem is that it is becoming a bigger problem for men in North America and around the world.​
Another issue is that movies about male virgins inspire remakes of movies about different male virgins, continuing the cycle.​

But, like with r/IncelTear, maybe there is something sexual at play here as well.

After all, Hollywood must appeal to both men and women if they want to earn the most profit.

So, maybe, the popularity of these movies is also partially due to women's secret fantasy of finding an innocent, "nice-guy" and taking his virginity.

Maybe these women have an incel fetish.

After all, in most of these movies the man "wins" by getting into a long-term relationship with the female, so, in a way, the female wins too.

But the theory of the fetishization of male virginity would be incomplete without the inclusion of-

3. The Fetishization of Female Virginity

Sexual fetishes are interesting because a lot of times they are dual; they go both ways.

Men who have sex with other men (gays) and women who have sex with other women (lesbians).
People who receive pleasure from pain (masochists) and people who receive pleasure from doling out pain (sadists).
People who are dominant and people who are submissive.
This, of course, means that, if there truly is a fetish for male virginity, there should likewise be a fetish for female virginity.

Well, my friend, you've come to the right place:
  • In 2008, a 22-year-old college student auctioned her virginity. The highest bid? $3.8 million
  • In 2018, the "teen" category on PornHub received 33.5 billion visits
  • In 1998, Randy Wilson held the first purity ball where fathers pledged to "protect their daughter's virginities"
  • And, of course, Hymen repair surgery remains an option at plastic surgery clinics across North America.
One thing is for sure, if male virginity is a controversial kink, female virginity is absolutely not; it has been commonplace in our society for many a millennium.

The only question that remains is: is the opposite true?

Conclusion

Alright, I think you get the point of my post; women definitely have some sort of attraction towards men who are virgins, whether or not they admit it openly.

But what the hell are we supposed to do about this?

In my opinion, the answer is simple.

We, as a society, have to begin to have more tolerance for males who are virgins.


Beethoven died a virgin.
Newton died a virgin.
IamSkippy ... is still alive, but is also a virgin.

So, maybe all involuntary celibates are not so bad after all.

Maybe once we start to realize our sexualities don't define us, we can start to have more open and honest conversations about them.

Maybe once we start tolerating each other again, on both sides, we will finally find peace.


Congratulation bro. You won the Nobel Prize in Copenastics for the year 2023 :feelsYall:
 
Timothy McVeigh the Oklahoma bomber
 
Does the character Megumin actually have an incel fetish in the show? That would be some good evidence for the incel fetish.
No but that's because I'm not in the show. If I was in it she would have a fetish for me.
 
There are, in fact, more internet forums with women fantasizing about sex with dogs[1] than there are forums dedicated to women lusting after male virgins. To our best knowledge, no forum of the latter kind exists.
 
Hm. You've got a point. I haven't received any kind treatment from the opposite gender — outside of my family circle, that is.
 
There are, in fact, more internet forums with women fantasizing about sex with dogs[1] than there are forums dedicated to women lusting after male virgins. To our best knowledge, no forum of the latter kind exists.
There are no forums to women lusting after male virgins, but there is one dedicated to hate for incels: r/inceltear.

Now, think about all of the things women hate: rape, violence, stalking, criminals and thugs.

Women also have fetishes for all of these things; doesn't it follow that women should have a fetish for incels?
 
Women also have fetishes for all of these things; doesn't it follow that women should have a fetish for incels?
Not really. Being an incel means your genetics are shit and you're ugly. It's funny seeing this forum becoming more and more bluepilled over the years. Now people here are talking about how being NT matters more than your looks.
 
Ultra giga cope, probably even more cucked hypothesis than bluepill is
 
JFL. ER was a fakecel. This is not surprising
In general women don't like virgins, especially older virgins. Its okay to be virgin when you're still in your early 20's but after that it do be over. You might find some off-cases here and there

If I had to guess, the women obsessed with virgin males (or sometimes incels) probably have cluster B personality disorders or they have extremely low self-esteem. The only time a woman would fantasize about an unexperienced man is when she has extreme abandonment issues so she lowers her expectations, and instead of getting a Chad she gets her very own incel. Because an incel wouldn't leave her, and other women wouldn't pine after him, right?

Also, men who are not experienced with women are more malleable, they are easier to manipulate, they are easier to abuse, and you don't even have to compete to get them. These cluster B whores don't have the ability to manipulate Chad because Chad just leaves them when these women start showing signs of their toxic personalities, so these women are forced to move to easier prey, meaning touch starved sex starved incels.
 
They fantasize about rodger because he went dark triad (by killing foids) typical foids always wanting to be in beds with people who do crimes
 
I can assure you that all those people who say they have an incel fetish (especially if it's on Reddit) are either deranged trannies or disgusting and equally deranged landwhales. So no.
 
I can assure you that all those people who say they have an incel fetish (especially if it's on Reddit) are either deranged trannies or disgusting and equally deranged landwhales. So no.
 
:feelshaha:

This is why I state in my first sentence "The proposition is absurd to think about."

But, think about it, have you ever actually told a foid that you are an incel?


Something to ponder.
I like to tell people I’m an incel I told girls before they give sympathy and we are the cool rebels. They want to fix us. Ducking vitcjes tell them call them out on their shit. Botch. If i was a chad pretthoby.
 
High-effort analysis. Appreciated.
 
Until there's more information on this speculating does seem a little comical/funny not in a bad way though.
 
All incels are fakecels
cover2.jpg

No, you are a fakecel!
 
Seems like we have actual evidence for this now, kek.
 
"Elliot Rodger is obviously an awful person and my sympathies lie with his victims. But holy shit, those lips."
-
u/elliotthroway

"I’d love to let some fat incel bust inside of me." -Notsafeforlurk2

"I'm trying to understand my sexuality, and I guess there is something of a dominating nature, isn't it? Like I would want to teach him, enjoy his awkwardness and his pleasure (because men, unlike women, are more likely to get pleasure from their first sex). I have never wanted to be dominating, on the contrary, but this thought fucking turns me on." -u/[deleted]

"I love a nervous person too. Once I see signs of nervousness (even small ones) I get so turned on. I love to tease and toy with a guy about it (in a nice way of course). This can be anything from eye shifting, to blushing, twitches, awkwardness, all just while talking. Noticing all these things and trying to further fluster a guy makes me feel predatorial... I obsessively love virgins. It's hard to carry on a long term relationship because I get bothered by when a guy gets use to sex and isn't as nervous." -u/wisechildhack


Do women have an Incel fetish?

The proposition is absurd to think about.

If true, if women have actually harbored some secret fetish towards male virgins this entire time, we could have solved this little problem a long, long time ago!

And yet, as I ponder the idea, it increasingly seems to be more and more of a possibility.


1. r/IncelTear

Why would a ragtag group of people (people who know this forum is obscure to the rest of society) dig through our archives and repost them for analysis?

Honestly I have no idea, I am still trying to figure this out myself (though I do find it interesting that the critics have a platform while the entertainers hide).


Perhaps, a few them are themselves incels in denial.
Perhaps, some of them truly do want to help us become the best versions we can be.

But I think there might just be something sexual at play here as well.

Take, for example, r/IncelTear user u/Princess_kitty14.

Her posts are, for the most part, relatively typical: screen captures from this forum with a (sometimes) witty title.

But other times, they're more like this (Warning: NSFW):



You see, it is not enough for u/princess_kitty14 to simply criticize incels, she also has to try to take advantage of them.

How?

By trying to get young men to subscribe to her OnlyFans and pay her money.

Now, if this is her business strategy, it is fantastic.

The perfect customer for an intimate porn website would certainly be a young, lonely, male virgin lurking on Reddit.

But isn't it interesting how this woman, who is seemingly obsessed with incels and our forum, also wants incels to look at her naked body?

Doesn't she know, subconsciously if nothing else, that virgin men are admiring her physique?

Maybe then, women aren't naturally hostile towards male virgins but have been conditioned to be by the rest of society.


Maybe they secretly want to save us.

Maybe they secretly want to free us from our inceldom but are too unaware to put it into words.

After all, in recent years we have seen a definite-

2. Increased obsession with male virginity

In recent years, there has been a distinct rise in movies and media about male virgins; so much so, in fact, that it has started to become an obsession.

In 1981, the movie Porky's was released. It follows high school virgins who go to a strip club to try and lose their virginity.

In 2005, The 40-Year-Old Virgin was released. A movie that follows a boyish 40-year-old virgin named Andy as he tries to lose his virginity.

In 2008, Sex Drive was released. A movie that follows a boyish 18-year-old virgin named Ian as he tries to lose his virginity.

I think you're starting to see the pattern here.

So why has there been such a heavy focus on male virginity in recent years?

Well, part of the problem is that it is becoming a bigger problem for men in North America and around the world.​
Another issue is that movies about male virgins inspire remakes of movies about different male virgins, continuing the cycle.​

But, like with r/IncelTear, maybe there is something sexual at play here as well.

After all, Hollywood must appeal to both men and women if they want to earn the most profit.

So, maybe, the popularity of these movies is also partially due to women's secret fantasy of finding an innocent, "nice-guy" and taking his virginity.

Maybe these women have an incel fetish.

After all, in most of these movies the man "wins" by getting into a long-term relationship with the female, so, in a way, the female wins too.

But the theory of the fetishization of male virginity would be incomplete without the inclusion of-

3. The Fetishization of Female Virginity

Sexual fetishes are interesting because a lot of times they are dual; they go both ways.

Men who have sex with other men (gays) and women who have sex with other women (lesbians).
People who receive pleasure from pain (masochists) and people who receive pleasure from doling out pain (sadists).
People who are dominant and people who are submissive.
This, of course, means that, if there truly is a fetish for male virginity, there should likewise be a fetish for female virginity.

Well, my friend, you've come to the right place:
  • In 2008, a 22-year-old college student auctioned her virginity. The highest bid? $3.8 million
  • In 2018, the "teen" category on PornHub received 33.5 billion visits
  • In 1998, Randy Wilson held the first purity ball where fathers pledged to "protect their daughter's virginities"
  • And, of course, Hymen repair surgery remains an option at plastic surgery clinics across North America.
One thing is for sure, if male virginity is a controversial kink, female virginity is absolutely not; it has been commonplace in our society for many a millennium.

The only question that remains is: is the opposite true?

Conclusion

Alright, I think you get the point of my post; women definitely have some sort of attraction towards men who are virgins, whether or not they admit it openly.

But what the hell are we supposed to do about this?

In my opinion, the answer is simple.

We, as a society, have to begin to have more tolerance for males who are virgins.


Beethoven died a virgin.
Newton died a virgin.
IamSkippy ... is still alive, but is also a virgin.

So, maybe all involuntary celibates are not so bad after all.

Maybe once we start to realize our sexualities don't define us, we can start to have more open and honest conversations about them.

Maybe once we start tolerating each other again, on both sides, we will finally find peace.


dont be silly-- there is only one @Komesarj
 
:feelshaha:

This is why I state in my first sentence "The proposition is absurd to think about."

But, think about it, have you ever actually told a foid that you are an incel?


Something to ponder.
YES I TELL EVERYONE I MEET THAT I AM AN INCEL
 
Extremely high IQ thread.
I wonder how much of their fetish is purely fantasy? Maybe they're aroused by the power dynamic? Foids love the feeling of immense superiority.
But I feel like it's mostly the *idea* of dominating an incel that appeals to them--in reality they would be disgusted with us.
 
Yeah, mentalcels like @Weed
 
Maybe they're aroused by the power dynamic?
IDK, i think it's basically a weird variant of hybristophilia. The media has obsessively pushed the idea that inkiees are some sort of violent extremist terrorist organization after all.
 
hope, cope then rope
 
But I feel like it's mostly the *idea* of dominating an incel that appeals to them--in reality they would be disgusted with us.
Potentially. If you have autism, are socially awkward and are short and ugly, it's going harder to get women no matter how "dark triad" you are.

With that being said, if you act like a regular person with a decent paying job who happens to be a virgin and holds traditional views regarding sex and gender, it's hard to see women being disgusted by that.
 
This is a well put together cope ngl, Eliot was actually attractive
 

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