Discussion What was "Plan A?" How did you expect/intend to have sex before you realized you were gonna have more trouble with that than most men?

[FrothySolutions]

For me, it went...

Plan A: Go to college. My choice of major would introduce interesting women to me, we'd hit it off and we'd have sex. Then I would graduate, and my career would take me places and show me people, and I would have sex with those people.

That didn't work, and I ended up losing my first job anyway. So I moved on to Plan B.

Plan B: That Bang Bus is really something. I know most porn is fake but they're doing things in the Bang Bus that can't be fake. Busty Loads too. What I need to do is meet one of the actresses there and figure out where I need to be if I wanna see porn stars busting it open in public. And maybe take part.

I could never get an answer. And now I'm over 40 and I really want to make up for all the years I've been sexless. It's around this time that I find the Forever Alone and then the Incel communities. I come up with Plan C.

Plan C: Go BACK to college. I did it wrong the first time. Now I'm wiser and know more about how to find the kinds of women I hoped to meet back then. Also, I didn't take enough initiative back then. I just kinda expected it to happen. You gotta be digging in the right spot, but you must DIG.

That didn't work either. In fact, I'm convinced the culture changed and then kinds of students I hoped to meet just aren't around anymore. Not like they used to be. The "Girls Gone Wild" Era has passed.

Okay, so where are the exciting women? They're all doing porn. Wouldn't it be great to have dozens of sex scenes with porn stars under my belt? That would be a fair trade for how long I've been a virgin.

Plan D: Get into the modern porn industry somehow. I'm lacking in what you might expect from a man in the industry, but there's this big push for "freak show" talent. Baby Alien is getting play just because he's so novel to look at. Bagel Boss, he even got some kinda female attention before he fucked it up. Statusmaxxing. That's what I need. I need to be famous. Statusmaxx into losing my virginity. Like Baby Alien did.

So far I'm not famous. And my taste for Instagram women is fading. Once again, the days I thought I was living in are already over. There are no more porn stars with the star power of someone like, say, Belle Delphine. No one where people would be like "Oh wow, HE had sex with HER?" People knew who Belle Delphine was. But if I pull up a random Instathot, even if she had a million subscribers I doubt most people would know who she is. So it doesn't matter if I have sex with her.

I'm the loneliest and poorest I've ever been right now. I have nothing to show for all my years. I think that's what I want now. To not have wasted my life. But the only thing I value right now is whatever I can get in exchange for my virginity. Hopefully something good. Even if I never "lose" my virginity, it'd be nice if being a lifelong virgin got you something. Something that non-virgins can't have.

Plan E(?): Find something to show for being a lifelong virgin. The best thing I can find. Like how some men enter the clergy, except I don't wanna be in the clergy. If I could be exalted somehow for my virginity, on a grand scale, I think I could die happily as a virgin.

 

[yakusai]

Plan A: Go to college. My choice of major would introduce interesting women to me, we'd hit it off and we'd have sex. Then I would graduate, and my career would take me places and show me people, and I would have sex with those people.

This basically. Though I think this is most people's first plan, at least those that come from middle class/western countries.

 

[tulasdanslos]

Plan E(?): Find something to show for being a lifelong virgin. The best thing I can find. Like how some men enter the clergy, except I don't wanna be in the clergy. If I could be exalted somehow for my virginity, on a grand scale, I think I could die happily as a virgin.

You didn't bother any women so you can crush it in leftist circles as a deconstructed man, they're in dire need of that.

 

[The Death Devil]

That's actually a fairly good question. I was raised religionfagged, so at first I assumed that I would merely get to bang my wife and that was that. Although, as I grew up and realized that the religion was retarded and became largely apathetic to it, I think I had this idea that I would just naturally impress a girl in high school, she would want to become friends with me, and then I would get to bang her at some point.

I never put too much thought into the endeavor because I hadn't even had a single girl express attraction to me throughout the entirety of my time in school thus far, and I was more concerned about just getting a girlfriend in the future—which would have naturally evolved into thinking about how I could have sex with her after that.

Needless to say, no girls ever ending up finding me attractive, and it was at that point I considered if there was just something wrong with me intrinsically, which is also around the time I came across the black-pill. After that, I dropped all plans of ever getting laid and understood that I was a destined life-long virgin.

 

[FrothySolutions]

You didn't bother any women so you can crush it in leftist circles as a deconstructed man, they're in dire need of that.

What's a "deconstructed man?"

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

plan a was women are not insane retarded whores that plan to destroy the world

 

[FrothySolutions]

plan a was women are not insane retarded whores that plan to destroy the world

Alright, when did your feelings about women change?

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

Alright, when did your feelings about women change?

i think around college is when i realized it was over with finding a "normal wife"

i think around when i turned 30 is when i realized it might unironically be over completely

 

[UndeadDeadMan]

Make sure your next plan is not R (ER) because last time things didn't go so well

 

[clearsmoke]

Plan A was to meet a human female while in high school like most people do. The rest, I used to be such a schemecel, for example once I tried to statusmaxx on video games to get an efoid. Another one was the classic yad stop in bookstore, I also tried to go to group therapy,I remember somebody told me that getting foids to talk about their trauma is a good way to pull, but I'm going to stop there, it's too much too list.

 

[INVERTER]

I didn't plan anything for the most part outside of the standard high school college "get gud job" pipeline.

After college I tried PUA nonsense and various hail maries but I didn't try hard when it counted (college and high school). I was extremely high inhib then

 

[FrothySolutions]

i think around college is when i realized it was over with finding a "normal wife"

i think around when i turned 30 is when i realized it might unironically be over completely

What was the plan after college, but before you turned 30?

Plan A was to meet a human female while in high school like most people do. The rest, I used to be such a schemecel, for example once I tried to statusmaxx on video games to get an efoid. Another one was the classic yad stop in bookstore, I also tried to go to group therapy,I remember somebody told me that getting foids to talk about their trauma is a good way to pull, but I'm going to stop there, it's too much too list.

We've got time for all of the plans.

I didn't plan anything for the most part outside of the standard high school college "get gud job" pipeline.

After college I tried PUA nonsense and various hail maries but I didn't try hard when it counted (college and high school). I was extremely high inhib then

So is it just over for any man who blows his early years?

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

What was the plan after college, but before you turned 30?

become rich from entrepreneurship to attract a golddigger

 

[spaceace79]

Plan A: Go to college. My choice of major would introduce interesting women to me, we'd hit it off and we'd have sex. Then I would graduate, and my career would take me places and show me people, and I would have sex with those people.

 

[INVERTER]

So is it just over for any man who blows his early years?

Yes
...

If you blow 15-21 there is something wrong with you most likely and the opportunities are few and far between for those that don't have experience already

 

[Feeshtu]

My plan A was to do sports in school.
And just generally exercise and be in good shape.

I even did the co ed sports, track and cross country.
So, there were girls on my team.
But, if any of them ever spoke to me, I don’t remember.

The plan B was to get into the drug crowd.

I became quite the unusual kid.
Doing sports, and doing drugs.

The drug crowd did accept me.
At least the boys did.
I got invited to parties all the time.
I was actually rather popular with the druggie boys……but the girls just never accepted me.

 

[RobertGarnicasAPedo]

I never had a plan. Girls made it clear I was subhuman in middle school.

 

[FrothySolutions]

My plan A was to do sports in school.
And just generally exercise and be in good shape.

I even did the co ed sports, track and cross country.
So, there were girls on my team.
But, if any of them ever spoke to me, I don’t remember.

The plan B was to get into the drug crowd.

I became quite the unusual kid.
Doing sports, and doing drugs.

The drug crowd did accept me.
At least the boys did.
I got invited to parties all the time.
I was actually rather popular with the druggie boys……but the girls just never accepted me.

And that's where you're at now? The drug crowd? There's no Plan C yet?

 

[Feeshtu]

No, I have not used drugs in more than 20 years.

There is no plan C.
It’s all pointless to bother trying.

 

[Ellsworth]

Honestly just thought it would happen organically.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Honestly just thought it would happen organically.

And what happened when you realized women weren't gonna fall out of the sky?

 

[Ellsworth]

And what happened when you realized women weren't gonna fall out of the sky?

Nothing. Here I am.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Nothing. Here I am.

You didn't make any attempts?

 

[Ellsworth]

You didn't make any attempts?

Sure. All massive failures.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Sure. All massive failures.

So then it wasn't "nothing." What were those attempts? Those were your plans B and C and D and so on.

 

[Ellsworth]

So then it wasn't "nothing." What were those attempts? Those were your plans B and C and D and so on.

Gymmaxx

Going to Night Clubs

Online dating sites