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Discussion Do looks matter less in small towns/rural areas?

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I grew up in a relatively big city and in comparison to smaller villages/small towns it's much more looks-based. When I go and visit family (town maybe ~5000-10000 population) I see a lot of uglier dudes with prettier foids. Is the dating pool just smaller? Or is it just their mentality
Villagepill?
 
There is probably less competition, but no place on earth is safe from female hypergamy.
 
Usually the dating pool is smaller and so foids are forced to date something besides Chad.

You only really see this in really small towns though. Also, country foids might as well not be human, their personalities and interest have the depth of a puddle.

Source: ruralcel
 
Usually the dating pool is smaller and so foids are forced to date something besides Chad.

You only really see this in really small towns though. Also, country foids might as well not be human, their personalities and interest have the depth of a puddle.

Source: ruralcel
foids differ a bit, that's true, but in the end they're all the same
big city foid's hobby is going to starbucks and village foid's hobby is dreaming about going to the starbucks
also a lot more teenage pregnancies and deadbeats and just fucking bullshit all around

source: i spent almost every summer with my cousins in a small town and i got to know the people and their shenanigans from the inside out
 
I live in a town with less than 5k inhabitants, and here I am

I believe exactly the opposite: there are more women in cities, so it's easier to find a gf
 
I live in a colony with <2k people. And here I am.
 
Usually the dating pool is smaller and so foids are forced to date something besides Chad.

You only really see this in really small towns though. Also, country foids might as well not be human, their personalities and interest have the depth of a puddle.

Source: ruralcel
 
If it was still 2008 and before and dating apps and such didn't exist, yeah, unless it's someplace super remote like rural Siberia.

Now it really doesn't matter. There's obviously certain places where hypergamy is on steroids and you need to be a 6'0+ Low Tier Chadlite to get a LTB, but for everywhere else it's practically the same as it is -- where you need to be at least a LHTN and 5'10"+ to get anyone at all.

I have relatives in rural towns of less than 2000 that are like 2+ hours away from the nearest large city, and situations like fat foids with skinny HMTNs are extremely common. Not to mention there is an overabundance of druggies and fat women in these towns. I remember one incel vlogger saying that there are small towns in Iowa and shit that have hot foids. I've been to dozens of small Midwestern towns and haven't seen that at all. I don't think anywhere except aformentioned extremely remote places are exempt from hypergamy in 2026.

Back in 2021, I had a friend in extremely rural Alberta (he is like 4 hours away from Edmonton, which is the nearest city) make me a Tinder, and within a 60 mile radius, not a single foid swiped right on me over the course of a month and a half. I had my height in my bio with my interests and I am well groomed and obviously not fat. Out in rural Canada it seems there are less fatties.
 
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I grew up in a relatively big city and in comparison to smaller villages/small towns it's much more looks-based. When I go and visit family (town maybe ~5000-10000 population) I see a lot of uglier dudes with prettier foids. Is the dating pool just smaller? Or is it just their mentality
Villagepill?
Maybe less but not a noticeable difference
 
Yeah phrases like "New York 6" exist for a reason.
But women are more likely to flee little podunk towns to get work out earning their peers in the cities so probably won't do us much good.
 

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