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Did your dad teach you how to be a man?

Sadly, my dad wasn't around a whole lot when I was a younger kid so I was around my mom more

Granted, as I got older we have done some of the usual "father son" bonding stuff, but then also he never really taught me how to "be a man" come to think of it
Sums up my childhood perfectly well. :feelsjuice:
 
never had a dad, remember being at the orphanage and had to stay in line any time they made us do an activity. i remember being excited when i was passed a small cup with candy in it and watched Shamu around the other kids. i’d be woken up by an adult brown woman every morning snatching my sheets, before wanting to get up. bunch of kids a few of whom i oddly remember the faces of. i don’t remember his face
 
He cant teach me what he doesnt know
 
My dad was too busy trying to teach me that he is the man.
 
Mine sure didn't. He has this thing where since he figured it out on his own that I should too. He always says "my dad never had to teach me that" or "my dad never talked to me about this". He thinks that since he learned it all on his own the same should apply to me. This is not to say my grandpa was a bad father but he belonged to a different generation and dad had to figure out modern life all on his own. I understand he wants me to be an independent man but fuck he was like this when I was little too. I just wanted him to groom me to become a man not a pussy:cryfeels: . I don't want to be a dissapointment anymore:cryfeels::cryfeels:
How can you teach somebody to be a man when real masculinity comes from genes??

It seems like most of what society teaches for men to become masculine is like they are grooming them to be a tool to be used

“Dont show your emotions”

“Work hard and never give up”

And so on
It just sounds like they are trying to program a robot
 
He isn't present in my life.
 
How can you teach somebody to be a man when real masculinity comes from genes??

It seems like most of what society teaches for men to become masculine is like they are grooming them to be a tool to be used

“Dont show your emotions”

“Work hard and never give up”

And so on
It just sounds like they are trying to program a robot
They want us to be their little working drones who do all the dirty work without any complaints and without expecting anything in return
 
My dad was just a lazy bum like me his entire life
he only had a couple of jobs and most of them he gave up on exactly like I probably would If I had the same ones
The entire time I grew up he was an alcoholic who I either remember watching tv/playing games or out drinking or arguing with my mum

Even if He had taught me anything it would have made no difference in my life or how much of a “man” I am since he isnt a good man himself either and even if he was it wouldn’t have made a difference in my life Since who You are meant to be is who you will become

Anatomy is destiny nigga
 
I spent the majority of my childhood isolated playing video games. My dad was working most of the time.
Same here, mine was a trucker constantly on the road (respectable), and too busy taking heroin.
 
No my dad is a lazy KHHV.
 
He nutted inside a syringe, and my mom injected it inside her. That's how I was born.
Pretty sure it went the other way too
 
my grandfather died when my dad was 7, so yea he was pretty much fatherless growing up. So he made sure the same happens with me.(he's alive btw)
 
I spent the majority of my childhood isolated playing video games. My dad was working most of the time.
Pretty much this coupled with him being an asshole to the rest of my family meant I never had a male role model growing up.
 
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He was giga non-NT autistic and all into work, so woudn't be able even if he tried hard. Banged a htn at least
Don't blame him, even though it had a ripple effect on my life
 
he didn’t teach me jack shit. and was abusive on top of it, in reality just a failure of a person, not even a parent altogether.

i’d wish i’d hadn’t been dealt this hand, but the most i can do is work on building myself up now.
 
He was giga non-NT autistic and all into work, so woudn't be able even if he tried hard. Banged a htn at least
Don't blame him, even though it had a ripple effect on my life
yeah, i realize this too, how this mfer was able to bang a stacy-tier latina is beyond me, he doesn’t have any really outstanding qualities and was very normie tier himself.
 

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