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Did you have both parental figures in your life during your formative years?

Which parental figure was in your life?

  • Father + Mother

    Votes: 25 64.1%
  • Father only

    Votes: 1 2.6%
  • Mother only

    Votes: 10 25.6%
  • Family

    Votes: 2 5.1%
  • Step parents/other

    Votes: 1 2.6%

  • Total voters
    39
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No parent pill is quite underspoken about here.
 
Nope. Mainly just spent time with my grandparents.
 
They were and are emotionally distant
 
My mother died of cancer complications when I was 15, so it was just my father and I all throughout my teenage years.
 
Unfortunately yes. Would’ve been spared a lot of pain and trauma if they were both absent during my formative years
 
My mother died of cancer complications when I was 15, so it was just my father and I all throughout my teenage years.
Same here but it was my father who had cancer
 
My parents divorced when I was a toddler, and my mother was granted custody due to my father's extensive work commitments at the time.
 
I was watching The Outdoor Boys on youtube just to be abruptly and brutally blackpilled. You really don't know how much good parenting during your formative years affects you later on in life until you see it for youself.
 
Good parenting is the keystone to every K selectionist species. Being denied such results in genetic suffering.
 
Cant blame it on my parents, they probably tried there best, but they gave me shit genes so it didnt change much. I dont think it would have made a big difference if only one of them were there.
 
Yup, both of them and we relatively frequently visited both sets of grandparents.
 
Unfortunately yes. They are both shitskins so they made things much worse, especially my dad. I would have turned out miles better had I been raised in foster care.
 
Father + Mother, but they were both disabled so it was not a normal childhood anyway.

I still remember the teachers faces in primary school when we had to say or write our parents jobs. Brutal.
 
Probably father cause my mother committed suicide when I was 10 years old
 
Why do so many people with good parents still have autism? Genetics are truly an evil creation of the demiurge.
 
Unfortunately yes. Would’ve been spared a lot of pain and trauma if they were both absent during my formative years

I was watching The Outdoor Boys on youtube just to be abruptly and brutally blackpilled. You really don't know how much good parenting during your formative years affects you later on in life until you see it for youself.

Good parenting is the keystone to every K selectionist species. Being denied such results in genetic suffering.
 
Why do so many people with good parents still have autism? Genetics are truly an evil creation of the demiurge.
Good parenting should start with the parents being well off genetically
 
Good parenting should start with the parents being well off genetically
Even good looking parents can create abominations sometimes.
 
Even good looking parents can create abominations sometimes.
Those would be outlier cases and not the average product of 2 mtns reproducing. So long as they don't produce a hapa, blasian, a mulatto or some other abomination.
 
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Yeah but they are bad parents
 
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Sure, by technicality, both of my biological parents were 'present.' They did not, however, really ever interact or partook in any activities with me. They were just kind of there, I suppose. They were either too busy, or they tried to connect with me in a way that was completely foreign and odd considering I don't share the same culture as they do. I spent day after day barely interacting with them in any meaningful way—they were there to just give me food, shelter, and do the stuff that I legally couldn't.

I honestly ended up being raised by the characters I adored in the shows I watched, because I'd often construct these massive imaginative worlds where I pretended that those characters were my 'adoptive' parents and looked after me. That's pretty much how I ended up being raised by anime villains and took after a lot of their traits, or so I'd like to think.

Disregarding my autistic interpretation of my childhood—you could just simply say I was practically raised without parents.
 
No parent pill is quite underspoken about here.
Lots of foster homes with children who shouldn't have been born in the first place...
 

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