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Discussion Did this forum or reading about the blackpill change the way you think about women?

Did your opinion of women change to negative after joining the forum or reading about the blackpill?


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I came here from Faceandlms.I watched him first time 3 years ago and that was the moment everything clicked and I knew exactly why I can't get the women I'm heavily attracted to (tbh if I was smarter I would've noticed it myself .I had a lot of female friends and they were always saying you are so short,you are going to the barber once a year and many other things but they thaught that I was funny and I helped them with some things at school and they helped me too,so I didn't mind to tell her that their jokes hurt me).I got
too many credit and time to whores that were awful people.However,I need to recognize ,not all women are bad.Some of them (like 10 percent) are actually good people that don't whore around,are interesting and smart,have thier own goals.(you can find them in remote places like countryside or religious sects mostly).But this doesn't mean they will like you because attraction doesn't work like that.Attraction happens in the first second a women looks at you and nothing can change that no matter what you do.I tried to break this and to follow the redpill but it just doesn't work if you have a low SMV caused only by physical attributes to begin with.This forum doesn't change anything from what I know and my hatred because I knew before of the blackpill.Having that in mind,I don't hate at all women (unless they are whores with a new bf every month type). Let's be honest,if I would've been a women I wouldn't date myself because of my ugliness.This is just a process of evolution in which I would be out of the gene pool.And if bad looking women are reproducing and I am not,this is it,I can't change that even it makes me angry.I have to accept that I am inferior,and the accepting phase is the last phase of the blackpill the phase when nothing really matters to you and you are sexually free like a monk.This is how I want to be at,at the heights of a monks mind.This will come with time when I would have reached this phase or my sexual frustrations will no longer cope and I will say goodbye to this unjust world
 
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I believed more in female accountability because I had not applied my IQ to break people down into their memes and characteristics.
I came here from Faceandlms.I watched him first time 3 years ago and that was the moment everything clicked and I knew exactly why I can't get the women I'm heavily attracted to (tbh if I was smarter I would've noticed it myself .I had a lot of female friends and they were always saying you are so short,you are going to the barber once a year and many other things but they thaught that I was funny and I helped them with some things at school and they helped me too,so I didn't mind to tell her that their jokes hurt me).I got
too many credit and time to whores that were awful people.However,I need to recognize ,not all women are bad.Some of them (like 10 percent) are actually good people that don't whore around,are interesting and smart,have thier own goals.(you can find them in remote places like countryside or religious sects mostly).But this doesn't mean they will like you because attraction doesn't work like that.Attraction happens in the first second a women looks at you and nothing can change that no matter what you do.I tried to break this and to follow the redpill but it just doesn't work if you have a low SMV caused only by physical attributes to begin with.This forum doesn't change anything from what I know and my hatred because I knew before of the blackpill.Having that in mind,I don't hate at all women (unless they are whores with a new bf every month type). Let's be honest,if I would've been a women I wouldn't date myself because of my ugliness.This is just a process of evolution in which I would be out of the gene pool.And if bad looking women are reproducing and I am not,this is it,I can't change that even it makes me angry.I have to accept that I am inferior,and the accepting phase is the last phase of the blackpill the phase when nothing really matters to you and you are sexually free like a monk.This is how I want to be at,at the heights of a monks mind.This will come with time when I would have reached this phase or my sexual frustrations will no longer cope and I will say goodbye to this unjust world
Did you hate women before discovering the Manosphere though? Also vote
 
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Forum is overdosing on blackpills and erasing itself
 
No, all it did was put a name to what I had always known about women and the world
 
I was a /r9k/ fag before lurking here, also /pol/ had alot of based posts about foids before it went to shit but yes, the blackpilled articles posted here only increased my hatred.

It also made me reflect on my copium days.
 
I was a /r9k/ fag before lurking here, also /pol/ had alot of based posts about foids before it went to shit but yes, the blackpilled articles posted here only increased my hatred.

It also made me reflect on my copium days.
What about your opinion on women before discovering 4chan?
 
i already hated women
 
Absolutely. Having spent quite some time here, I feel like my resentment against foids has only grown, and rightfully so. The dogpill was probably when I truly flipped to the dark side, I barely consider women human at this point tbh
What was your opinion on women before this forum?
 
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I realized that some things are predetermined and cannot be changed. I also discovered importance of height. I didn't know, that women love tall men that much.
 
Fixed your biased fucking poll. Changing your perspective on women is not the same thing as hating women. You need more poll options.
 
Before I loved em, now I lust for em. Simple as.
 
Was kinda redpilled but leaning heavily toeards blackpill thru memes and general life experience, especially seeing how foids treated me and other autists / non-NTs :fuk:

Can't even remember how I found this forum tbh, but I lurked for a while and finally was low inhib enough to join at some point. Since then I've become giga blackpilled, there's no going back after knowing foid's true nature :feelsree:
When did you first begin to hate women?
 
I always hated women, I was always racist and hateful, ever since I was born, but now I have a burning hatred in my heart that can never be patched. I will never forgive foids and I will do everything in my power to stop them
 
It’s kind of like the evolution of my hatred coincided with the extend of truth/ social interactions I exposed myself to along with my age, amount of moggings I’ve experienced . By the time I started reading this forum and reading the black pill I was nearly at blood rage. After joining, I was full blown hate
 
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Third option.
 
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It doesn’t take all too many years
 
used to see and treat them like anyone else even when they treated me like dogshit. now i see what they are
 
The blackpill was already in my mind as I basically lived it every day in high school.

I would say this forum did open me up to new thoughts, but the most basic part of the blackpill I already knew.
 
Definitely.

Before I joined this forum I was still somewhat bluepilled.

I had an understanding that looks are important but I thought that by being morally virtuous along with gymmaxxing and being muscular I can attract women.

I didn't knew height was important, only face and physique for the most part. I figured that if being in a romantic relationship was a good thing, why would a woman who's single reject my proposal to date her if she also wants companionship? If I was nice and morally virtuous like not being one of the bad guys, caring about animals, not drinking and smoking and partying, being a more reserved person, not being a misogynist, not just using her for sex, and treating my girlfriend as an equal then I should be a good boyfriend for a girl.

I pretty much thought that every guy had a chance of getting a girl if he had a good personality. I thought women were the bastions of morality and virtue so why would they care about a man's looks? That beauty is from the inside, i.e. a man's moral character, than the outside.

I also didn't focused on sex too much. I did watch a lot of porn starting when I entered middle school, but I separated sex from romantic attraction and viewed women in porn and sex work different from regular women. I viewed most women to be asexual almost, that they didn't want to be sexually objectified and didn't cared about sex but more so companionship and non-sexual physical intimacy. And I viewed hookup culture of being baseless and sexist. Which is why when I had crushes on girls at school it was mostly wanting companionship and being able to kiss them as oppose of just wanting to have sex with them, and I didn't necessarily lust for them.

To me, being romantically attracted to someone and being sexually attracted to someone were too different feelings (I want companionship mostly vs I just want to fuck and get done with it) along with the physical criteria (being cute vs being sexy) but not morally excusive. When I was younger french kissing was the most important end goal since that's what I saw on television, rather than sex.
 
It definitely changed.
Not only that, it changed my way of thinking about life and hard work in general
Nothing beats genetics
this. Also I disliked women but didn't really hate them till more blackpill/redpoll swallowed. and seeing the dogpill, serial killer pill etc.

Tbh I am now far over hatred stage. I just dislike them but not necessarily hate.
 
I knew something was wrong with women and the way society operated as a whole before joining in this forum

What the blackpill did was essentially confirm my worst thoughts, and everything started to make sense

What's funny is despite what reddit faggots have to say to you, the bluepill actually did more harm than good for me. Legit hated and punched myself for lack of success until I realized nothing was really my fault.
 
I was already categorizing normies, chad foids long before the Blackpill and Inceldom.

It just made sense after discovering it.
 
I was on r/incels before I joined here so of course I hated foids.

My journey to this wonderful place started when I finished university a kissless virgin. I was reading places and realised that this was not normal and most people had sexual and romantic relationships at this point in life. I didn’t necessarily hate foids because I honestly had no idea what they were attracted to. I knew the bluepilled view of the world was wrong though as foids so often got into abusive relationships.

This first got me investigating the reason as to why I was still a kissless virgin. I discovered redpill, tried some stuff there and saw that it was bullshit. From there I went to shit like MGTOW and foreveralone and then finally came to incels and I finally found my people and it was one of the happiest moments in my life. As I investigated more I hated foids more and more. I absolutely revile foids now.
 
Not only has the blackpill helped me explain my failures in life and the shitty experience you get if you’re born unattractive it has also made me realize how much society as a whole hates and roots against men which is ironic because men created modern society
 
The blackpill was already in my mind as I basically lived it every day in high school.

I would say this forum did open me up to new thoughts, but the most basic part of the blackpill I already knew.
What was your opinion on women before joining incel forums?
I was already categorizing normies, chad foids long before the Blackpill and Inceldom.

It just made sense after discovering it.
but what did you think of women before joining this forum or other online forums?
I knew something was wrong with women and the way society operated as a whole before joining in this forum

What the blackpill did was essentially confirm my worst thoughts, and everything started to make sense

What's funny is despite what reddit faggots have to say to you, the bluepill actually did more harm than good for me. Legit hated and punched myself for lack of success until I realized nothing was really my fault.
did you hate women or feel neutral?
I already voted nigger thanks for the tag though much appreciated.

I did hate w*men, though I was browsing /r9k/ and 4chan before this (which I stopped now don’t bother with it). However, even before that shit, I was a mix of everything from bluepilled, redpilled to blackpilled (ironically, the one who blackpilled me first was my chad brother who mentioned 80/20 to me and my mom). By that time I was browsing r/greentext (completely bluepilled whiteknight simpcuck I believe) for the “wholesome” stories where the socially repulsive anon gets caring and sweet girlfriend to warm my heart. But after he said that I think it striked my heart somehow. Through going to the gym with my brother and his friend I think I got more redpilled, and eventually started browsing 4chan, was getting blackpilled without thinking about my own situation, realized nothing would happen between me and my crush (which was a big blow to me) and down the 4chan rabbithole I eventually fell here.

This ended up a pretty crude text as my memory isn’t working.
what about before you got exposed to any of that shit or websites? Before you were exposed to manosphere stuff?
 
did you hate women or feel neutral?
I pretty much always sensed something was off and tried to stop myself from thinking blackpilled shit, which just turned into an endless cycle of self regret and harm due to cucked morals and ethics I've been told since birth
they ironically made me feel more like shit about myself than I would by being an asshole
 
I pretty much always sensed something was off and tried to stop myself from thinking blackpilled shit, which just turned into an endless cycle of self regret and harm due to cucked morals and ethics I've been told since birth
they ironically made me feel more like shit about myself than I would by being an asshole
So you almost hated women but tried not to?
 
I hated women before, but this forum opened my eyes to the fact that what I was experiencing was a systematic and widespread issue instead of a personal curse
 

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