Dating and relationships isn't supposed to be difficult. It's not a puzzle that has to be analyzed and solved. It's not an exam you have to study for or something you have to break down and practice for years to achieve. Finding and talking to girls, having sex, and navigating the dating scene is all supposed to be simple and stress free. And for some men, dating and sex IS easy. It's as simple as having a conversation.
If none of this comes easy to you it means you are fucked. If you're worrying about what you're going to say to a girl, you've lost. if you're worried about your hobbies, you've lost. If you're stressing about impressing her or keeping her attention, you've lost.
Chad does everything "wrong" and still wins. You can do everything right and still lose. Because it all comes down to unchanging, inherent, innate things like looks, height and genes. OVER
Agreed. Sex and relationships are supposed to be just an offshoot of social life. That's why normies keep shouting platitudes like "just go out and talk to people". They just can't comprehend why we fail at something that seems so trivial to them.
People are grossly more different from one another than society wants to admit. As a result, behavioral patterns that are supposed to be the "norm" just don't work for everyone, not even close.
We often blame dating apps and social medias here, but it's just the same thing : they are designed for a particular kind of people, either those who are physically attractive, or those people that can have casual conversations with strangers, or whatever.
There are men who are socially inept, men who are physically repulsive, men who are too poor, too short, not masculine enough. There are many reasons for a woman not to want to deal with a man.
Yet those men can very well be acceptable members of society : they are not criminals, they pay taxes, and they could have a meaningful and productive life, but they won't because sexual frustration is driving them nuts and demotivates them to do anything.
The only civilized solution for them is either prostitution, or a return to a patriarchal model of marriage, one that is not based on physical attraction.