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Venting Depressed, nothing worked, now I just self improve for sanity

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Just self improve brooooo
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Realized at around 18 that I'm an incel, 21 now, got on self improvement at around 16 or so and at 17 I started gym... I'm a bit tired to write a whole story right now about how I got rejected there, I'll write some stories about it later though but my point with this post is that self improvement such as gym doesn't work, just look at Sam Sulek he said it himself in a clip with something along the lines of "I went to the gym to get bigger to get girls but girls only came at me to say that their boyfriend watches my videos and he loves me" this gym shit doesn't work.

I still do light training now daily simply for health, mental health purposes and to keep myself relatively disciplined.

Just thought I might say this because there might be guys here who think gym/muscles = girls but nah man, I used to be strong as fuck and I would do 1000 push ups a day but guess what it got me 0 pussy, this was in the beginning of this year, I was training hardcore, after about 4 months I did like 1000 push ups a day for 15 days then just stopped, I won't go into detail. It did give me a huge confidence boost actually about my own abilities and kind of like "Alright I guess I'm not a total weak failuire" which now has a nice spot in my mind, I'd post the clips on yt too btw and insta and tiktok recording myself doing all the push ups cuz I thought that it might attract women, I was thinking "I'm doing this impressive shit surely some woman will be attracted" but nah, literally no woman gave a shit I actually wonder why (not being sarcastic though I legit wonder why women don't go for men who prove themselves and instead choose idiots), I'll make another post where I'm just sad that I have not got a chance at even proving my personality to a woman, I'm a nice guy, funny, kind... I don't have any stories Andrew Tate type shit to tell her but I can make most of the moment... I just wish there would be women who would give me a chance

I just wanted to vent

Oh another note, I like AI, maybe the Super intelligence which will come in 100 years will wake up society and women especially on how to get together with men and not just focus on looks but focus on the person's character too
 
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Why women don't got for men who prove themselves*

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Why women don't got for men who prove themselves*
Because Chad doesn't have to prove himself or self-improve. He already has everything a foid want. I'm not at all saying you shouldn't prove yourself or self-improve. Just understand that genetics and face is everything. You're still young and probably somewhat blue-pilled.
 
Oh another note, I like AI, maybe the Super intelligence which will come in 100 years will wake up society and women
how will that help us now? What retarded cope is that. MAYBE IN 100 YEARS GUYZZZZ :soy:
 
Because Chad doesn't have to prove himself or self-improve. He already has everything a foid want. I'm not at all saying you shouldn't prove yourself or self-improve. Just understand that genetics and face is everything. You're still young and probably somewhat blue-pilled.
I'm angry at the fact that... You know when I used to go to high school I'd see good looking women with ugly guys (they were tall though I can't like with this, I'm 5'6) you might say they're "Chad" for being tall but it legit infuriates me that women give a shit so much about height like I have a story where I started talking with this emo goth girl and shit and she wasn't interested, guess what? about 1 month later I see her talking and having on her discord status a classmate's name who's tall, he's not fucking chad in personality in literally any way shape or form neither his face is good (he is tall tho yes) and he's not funny at all like this is not just my opinion classmates would tell him how dumb his jokes are objectively not in a subjective humor type of shit

And don't call me bluepilled, I know all the pills from head to toe and explored all of them, I don't identify with any of the pills, I'd say I'm no-pilled because I just gave up on dating, at the moment I haven't tried seamaxxing and moneymaxxing those are my only hopes at the moment, and how could you call me bluepilled when I went gymmaxxing so hard in my post? You probably noticed how I feel a bit insulted but no man I'm not a retard to say "oh personality is everything, just be yourself" type of shit, I actually don't know what works in the dating market besides height, I'm not gonna say face because as I said above I saw many ugly retards who are tall pulled the baddest bitches in my school

Overall I'd say the dating market is 80% Blackpill, 15% Redpill (for those who are rich) and 5% Bluepill (These rare cases also involve a bit of blackpill sprinkled on them unless it's unicorn cases)
 
just look at Sam Sulek he said it himself in a clip with something along the lines of "I went to the gym to get bigger to get girls but girls only came at me to say that their boyfriend watches my videos and he loves me" this gym shit doesn't work
you can't take a retarded roider as a personal example. sulek fucked up because of his own self. instead of prioritizing being lean and actually atrractive to women he cucked himself into an asthmatic mass monster. yes bro you'll pull all the bitches showing your 20 chin lat spread with a receding hairline.
 
I legit wonder why women don't go for men who prove themselves and instead choose idiots
because they are only into effortless beauty. a selfie showing a 6pack and perfect frame gets it wet but you deadlifting 600lbs would if anything make you seem unappealing
 

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