Serious Denizens of Incels.is, have you ever actually approached women? (Definite edition)

[Caesercel]

The poll to finalise once and for all the approach status in here.

For an approach to count it needs to be direct and positive with clear romantic intent. None of that tinder/dating apps bs (unless it ended in a date), none of that "girls avoid me anyway" bs. And none of that small talk bs(unless the setting presumes romantic intent)

 

[I want to believe]

IRL? Nope.

 

[To koniec]

yes 5 times in real life all rejected

 

[Speedloader]

Yes and it always failed miserably

 

[Steiner Ex Machina]

Just reminding them gives me anxiety.

 

[ShowerTaker]

Never approached anyone.

 

[ThreeInchesLong]

Yes. Never again.

 

[Animecel2D]

Yes

 

[mNFwTJ3wz9]

None of that tinder/dating apps bs

Why?

 

[Deleted member 36776]

I am doing it everyday now as a habitual thing.

 

[unsettling]

yes and i shouldnt have because im too autistic it just gave me trauma

 

[Restart80]

Does online count? Did it a couple times.

Irl face to face? Never.

 

[Sigma]

Well of course. And they were all warm-approaches and those experiences were all rope fuel.

 

[Bruticus]

Of course, I have, and they are repulsed by my toxins

 

[crestfallencel]

did not bother

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

No, there is little point:

I've never, at any point, asked out a woman. Your criterion does not apply to me for the following reasons:

• I have stuttering issues from ASD and cannot make eye contact because of severe social anxiety
• I am 5'3(120lbs) and get mistaken for a 12-15 y/o adolescent despite being 23
• I have a very feminine voice and often get mistaken for a woman over the phone
• In public, women look at me in disgust and avoid me because my anxious, autistic behavior manifests as avoidance of other people.
• I cannot drive because my form of ASD impairs my visual processing abilities.
• I very rarely leave my apartment since I cannot function in society because of the reasons mention above

Please be more empathetic.

 

[Caesercel]

Why?

Because I don't count that as actually "approaching". Not questioning a tinder failure's subhumanity tho.

Does online count? Did it a couple times.

Depends. If you did it with clear romantic intent and the other party had already seen your face. If it was video chat or something then it counts even more

Yes

Fr?

 

[Caesercel]

the thought of approaching seems so bizarre to me, its like trying to think of a new color

Tbh. My brain is not wired for this shit

 

[Grey Baldcel]

I had 7 dates but wasn't been close to sex. I don't have fear with approaching with women. But it's just so tiresome

 

[Caesercel]

I had 7 dates but wasn't been close to sex. I don't have fear with approaching with women. But it's just so tiresome

Where do you think it goes wrong?

 

[Deleted member 35171]

Having to approach = over

 

[Grey Baldcel]

Where do you think it goes wrong?

I think the problem is confidence. I was confident that i will be liked by some girls ( i was 6-7/10 at time when had full hair) but not confident enough to have sex. Right now i don't have any confidence with women because i'm bald

 

[BuyingANewFace]

Many hundreds of times, and I aimed as low as possible - disabled, extremely fat, much older, burn victims, etc. I learned from a very early age to stay away from the beauties. All I got after all that effort, and despite very, very low standards, was rejection and rudeness. Fat women are the harshest rejectors, holy shit! All I did was try to strike up a conversation with this one girl, and she straight up said "how fucking dare you think you have a chance with me you deformed monkey looking motherfucker!". Yes, that's literally what she said. I'm not even exaggerating. She literally said that! And no, I wasn't being sleazy or anything like that. I was making a comment about the fucking WEATHER and she cuts me off and insults me like this!! And she was so fat she needed a motorized scooter to get around. Like I said, very low standards. That was the day I gave up approaching. It's been 9 years and I've never approached anyone ever again since.

 

[Reprobus]

The poll to finalise once and for all the approach status in here.

For an approach to count it needs to be direct and positive with clear romantic intent. None of that tinder/dating apps bs (unless it ended in a date), none of that "girls avoid me anyway" bs. And none of that small talk bs(unless the setting presumes romantic intent)

Yes and I dont understand why people who never have are even on this website

 

[Ricsanchez]

The poll to finalise once and for all the approach status in here.

For an approach to count it needs to be direct and positive with clear romantic intent. None of that tinder/dating apps bs (unless it ended in a date), none of that "girls avoid me anyway" bs. And none of that small talk bs(unless the setting presumes romantic intent)

J'ai tourné dans toute la ville pour rencontrer une escorte mais male chance, c'était des escrocs. J'ai été naïf .En gros il me faut un gros statut social pour accéder à des vrais bordels. Aujourd'hui j'avais la rage mais bon ...c'est toujours ainsi dans ma vie. C'était trop beau pour être vrai je pars

 

[FuRed]

3/10 posters here are pussies (and still cannot know the depth of the blackpill it's true)

I guess I should be impressed it's not more than that

 

[ControlledInsanity]

Yes, they have been rejection by excuse.

 

[Deleted member 29351]

AROUND 50 TIMES

HERE ARE THE OFFICIAL DARK LEET STATISTICS:
-7 OF THEM JUST LAUGHED LIKE IT WAS A JOKE AND LEFT LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED
-AROUND 20 SAID THAT THEY HAVE SMTH ELSE TO DO AND GHOSTED ME AFTERWORDS NOT REPLYING TO ANY MESSAGES OR BLOCKING ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA.
-AROUND 10 OF THEM LIED THAT THEYRE SEEING SOMEONE BUT ITS A LIE SINCE IM A STALKER AND I KNOW THIS
-6 TOLD ME THEY DONT LIKE ME IN THIS WAY AND THEY HOPE I CAN UNDERSTAND
-2 OF THEM WERE MENTAL AND NOT MUCH ELSE TO SAY

 

[Saint Cho]

The poll to finalise once and for all the approach status in here.

For an approach to count it needs to be direct and positive with clear romantic intent. None of that tinder/dating apps bs (unless it ended in a date), none of that "girls avoid me anyway" bs. And none of that small talk bs(unless the setting presumes romantic intent)

Women approach the men they want

 

[Caesercel]

Women approach the men they want

Gigachad only

 

[Cyrrow]

Nope, have not tried since Elementary school.

 

[Caesercel]

Nope, have not tried since Elementary school.

Haven't seen you in a while

 

[PPEcel]

No

 

[Cyrrow]

Haven't seen you in a while

Most of the threads here are shit, plus 90% of all the cool funny people left/banned.

 

[Caesercel]

Most of the threads here are shit, plus 90% of all the cool funny people left/banned.

I feel ya

 

[Saint Cho]

Gigachad only

Reality by 2022

 

[Bhaskarjya Mandita]

nope, never have

Same

 

[Immolator]

No I’d probably get humiliated if I did

 

[Zer0/∞]

Yes, even acted as a loud jester of my intentions when approaching this curryfoid but got treated as the joke.

 

[FuRed]

Women approach the men they want

Retard basement dweller detected ^

Women basically NEVER approach today, it just doesn't happen

 

[remincel]

Only back in highschool. I've never explicitly asked a girl out on a date or to be my girlfriend or anything, but I have asked them if they wanted to hang out.

It always ended how you might expect. One girl didn't even bother looking in my direction, all I got from her was "mhm" and that's it. Keep in mind, none of these girls were 10/10 gigastacies or anything, they were just normal looking girls.

 

[NothinButAComedy]

Recently

 

[Speed]

Not in a long time. The few times I tried were bad, enough for me to not want try anymore. Brual mental scar rejections.

 

[Blackpillapologist]

The poll to finalise once and for all the approach status in here.

For an approach to count it needs to be direct and positive with clear romantic intent. None of that tinder/dating apps bs (unless it ended in a date), none of that "girls avoid me anyway" bs. And none of that small talk bs(unless the setting presumes romantic intent)

How else do we know we are incels

 

[Saint Cho]

Retard basement dweller detected ^

Women basically NEVER approach today, it just doesn't happen

Chadfishing? The projection is real

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

of fucking course
How would I know I'm unfuckable otherwise?

 

[FuRed]

Chadfishing? The projection is real

We're not talking about dating apps you autist. Even then it's rare.

 

[somcel182]

I've approached twice in the past year, first one had a boyfriend but gave me her number then blocked me. Second was "engaged"

 

[Valiant Virgin]

Yes, over 200 of them.

 

[Deleted member 34729]

Nope. I have enough reason to believe it would be in vain.