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Discussion Could single-sex education mitigate the effects of inceldom? (+Poll)

What type of high school did you attend?


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Reading posts on this site and elsewhere about incels' high school experiences, I think we can confidently say that our time in the school system—especially in high school—caused significant and nearly irreversible harm to our mental health and negatively impacted our personality development. For some, it was traumatic; at best, it was just lame and uneventful. This is a common experience for most of us.

The reasons why our high school years were so terrible are obvious: constant bullying and humiliation in front of others, being ostracized, friendlessness, zero attention from girls, etc. These issues stemmed from being at the bottom of the social hierarchy. Social hierarchies in school environments are based on two main factors:

  1. (Perceived) popularity among male peers—(the number of friends you have, extroversion, physical attractiveness, wealth, etc.)
  2. Popularity among girls and sexual success—(desirability, high body count)
The harsh sexual competition in this environment creates the castes or classes we all know too well: sub-5s, normies, and chads. Guys compete for girls' attention by attempting to impress them through pathetic jestermaxxing, bullying the weaker and more vulnerable weird autistic classmate to show dominance thus elevating their status etc. It’s a brutal status game where the chads get most of the girls, normies get the scraps, and sub-5s are left with absolutely nothing and they rot in their loneliness.

Recently, I’ve been wondering if attending an all-boys school instead of a co-ed one would have a better choice for me. In an all-boys school there are no girls, which means that thing that causes the competition for pussy and female attention, which is responsible for our suffering in school are removed from the equation. I'm not claiming that it would be a 100x better than a co-ed school and it would definitely not solve inceldom. All-boys schools also have social hierarchies, bullying is kind of prevalent and most likely we would still be at the bottom.

If time spent in a single-sex environment is not as brutal as in a co-ed one, then attending an all-boys school might have been a better experience for us. I may be wrong and as I said, it wouldn't solve inceldom, we're simply talking about mitigating the terrible effects of high school times.

What do you think?
 
The first blackpill is taught through biology but many people consider that evolution stopped with our dead ancestors and that we are not ruled by biology.

Women must be enslaved and societies be dominated by a state-imposed morality, like Francoist's nationalcatholicism or a Caliphate.

Civilization is the opposite of nature, or better said, a fight against it. So, initially Yes, the blackpill must be universalized so men little by little start to fight for their right to pussy.

Full segregation + enslavement of foids = better society.
 
I think you can make arguments for both. However I do agree that attending an all-boys school would have been preferable for me after elementary school. Everything turned to shit for me after that.

School is also a completely artificial environment. About the same gender ratio, girls your own age in same premises as you for hours on end... therefore, one can make the assumption, that if girls weren't into you during that time, then its over for you. Because it doesn't get better than that.

Its tricky. But its true, I saw a lot of male-on-male competition between men, to attain the attention of foids. Its kind of sad, in an all boys school that would be eradicated.
 
Civilization is the opposite of nature, or better said, a fight against it.
I would say civilization is about restricting nature rather than fighting against it. In a civilization we have laws and morals, but we still operate under our primal instincts but we restrict them for the common good. Good point though.
 
I don’t think so. Just look at who is the most popular in both boy-only schools and normal schools. Their tall, athletic, Chads who have everyone around them. All it takes to see the black pill is to look how they are treated and how ugly people are treated
 
I saw a lot of male-on-male competition between men, to attain the attention of foids. Its kind of sad, in an all boys school that would be eradicated.
Yes and also, this male-on-male competition for female attention is not nearly as prevalent in elementary than in high school. It has to do with puberty probably. For me shit turned bad after I hit puberty and the sexual competition started.
I don’t think so. Just look at who is the most popular in both boy-only schools and normal schools. Their tall, athletic, Chads who have everyone around them. All it takes to see the black pill is to look how they are treated and how ugly people are treated
True, chad wins everywhere, but my point is that you may be get hurt less in a boy-only school because there's no competition for female attention.
 
True, chad wins everywhere, but my point is that you may be get hurt less in a boy-only school because there's no competition for female attention
Hurt less in what way? Chads and normies would still ridicule you. Only thing that would change is when I would walk to lunch, girl wouldn’t look at me and snigger
 
Hurt less in what way? Chads and normies would still ridicule you.
I mean experiencing less bullying, for example. A lot of times bullying happens (at least that was case for me) because normies think that by abusing the guys below them in the hierarchy could somehow impress other normies or, most importantly, girls. This way they can elevate their status. It doesn't always work, but I witnessed cases where it did (sometimes to my own detriment)
 
I attended a co-educational HS but there were like 3 female students in total in the entire school
 
I attended a co-educational HS but there were like 3 female students in total in the entire school
Similar for me. I picked the co-ed option but de facto it was single-gender, there was only a single foid in the entire school during my first year who was already in the last year, it was all-male for two years and in the last year I think the first years also had a single foid among them. Obviously, they were completely irrelevant to my experiences there and I don't think a single guy from my year ever even interacted with either of them:feelshaha:.

It didn't really change anything, when I compare the amount of bullying I experienced in middle school (where my class had a 4:1 girl:boy ratio) to the one there, sure, there was less of it in HS, but I'd say about as much as could be expected given the age difference and the people there being more mature. Overall, ugly incels were still very much at the bottom, being the ones who had their faces photoshopped, were laughed at, locked out of the room for fun, and so on:feelsugh:. Less than in middle school, but still there was an annoying amount of it:feelswhat:.

Honestly, I wish I would've gone to a high school with a good amount of girls there. Nothing was different for the Chads and normies there anyway, they were still dating, losing virginities and getting laid, the only effect of our school being basically male-only was that they were doing it with girls from other schools. Meanwhile, for guys like me the effect of that was that we've went for literal years with almost no contact with girls our own age, if I didn't have a two-years-younger sister and the friends she sometimes brought around me I genuinely think I wouldn't have interacted a single time with any girl around my age during the entire time I was a high schooler.

I don't think I would've ascended, but it would've still been a much different experience and the not knowing of whether I hadn't actually cucked myself out of a however slim chance of ascending with my looksmatch as virgin high schoolers is destroying me now that I entering my late twenties:fuk:.

It was hot garbage, except for the very last year which was relatively decent.
Yup, same. That's why I said that the difference in bullying was probably just due to the age. Not only have some of the bigger retards from my class dropped out over time, but the remaining guys have clearly matured over the years there.
 
Similar for me. I picked the co-ed option but de facto it was single-gender, there was only a single foid in the entire school during my first year who was already in the last year, it was all-male for two years and in the last year I think the first years also had a single foid among them. Obviously, they were completely irrelevant to my experiences there and I don't think a single guy from my year ever even interacted with either of them:feelshaha:.
The best part about this:feelshaha:? One of my former classmates showed me the school's current Facebook page, and now it completely flipped. It seems to be majority female now, and their funding must have multiplied ten times or something. When I was there it was a ghetto, now they are flying to Greece and other countries for "practical education":feelskek::shock:. Literally unthinkable when I was there, sounds more like something Americans or Western Europeans would do than people here:feelsbadman:.
 
I think that if we would have separate gender schools (foids only schools and boys only schools), the level of bullying will be much lowER, I guess
 
The best part about this:feelshaha:? One of my former classmates showed me the school's current Facebook page, and now it completely flipped. It seems to be majority female now, and their funding must have multiplied ten times or something. When I was there it was a ghetto
Interesting. Afaik my HS didn't completely flip like that, there are slightly more girls now but there's still an extreme male majority. And it's still a shithole :feelshaha:
 
I don’t think so. Just look at who is the most popular in both boy-only schools and normal schools. Their tall, athletic, Chads who have everyone around them. All it takes to see the black pill is to look how they are treated and how ugly people are treated
Said it perfectly
 
Interesting. Afaik my HS didn't completely flip like that, there are slightly more girls now but there's still an extreme male majority. And it's still a shithole :feelshaha:
I see. Honestly, stuff like that has me feeling pretty weird, like, what would my HS experience would've been now if I went to that place now:waitwhat:? Exactly the same place, a lot of the same teachers probably, but completely different peers would've still made it a utterly different experience:feelsmega::giga:.
 
both are brutal for incels, the only difference is in co-ed, you get bullied by both genders and have to spend hours sitting next to brainless foids.
 
I think we go to all Boyz school we would have more friends and more connections with others. Atleaste that's what I've noticed.
 

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